Are you dumb or just beaten down? He’s going to cheat on you regardless of how attractive his new assistant is. Stop trying to prevent other women from gaining employment and leave your dog of a man unless you can suck it up and just accept that he’ll cheat on you for the rest of your life. Learn to accept the side chicks or leave, like somebody with some self respect would. Honestly. he is the problem. He will always be the problem. You take care of his child, and you take him back every time, and that’s why you keep going back to each other.
I’m glad to hear that, and that’s definitely a normal thing. With your reflection on it, it makes total sense to not want her to have him added as a friend. I’m glad to hear about the new vocab!
The sex convo I would chalk up to an at your own risk thing. It doesn’t always go bad, but for me the risk isn’t worth it. Even if you just leave it at “we hooked up” with no further detail, your partner is now imagining you with someone else, and there’s a bit of pain in that. Even though people know they aren’t the first, the reminder can still be unpleasant.
Are you dumb or just beaten down? He’s going to cheat on you regardless of how attractive his new assistant is. Stop trying to prevent other women from gaining employment and leave your dog of a man unless you can suck it up and just accept that he’ll cheat on you for the rest of your life. Learn to accept the side chicks or leave, like somebody with some self respect would. Honestly. he is the problem. He will always be the problem. You take care of his child, and you take him back every time, and that’s why you keep going back to each other.
I’m glad to hear that, and that’s definitely a normal thing. With your reflection on it, it makes total sense to not want her to have him added as a friend. I’m glad to hear about the new vocab!
The sex convo I would chalk up to an at your own risk thing. It doesn’t always go bad, but for me the risk isn’t worth it. Even if you just leave it at “we hooked up” with no further detail, your partner is now imagining you with someone else, and there’s a bit of pain in that. Even though people know they aren’t the first, the reminder can still be unpleasant.
I hope everything works out well!