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2. Neither would you, fellow idiot

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3. Yeah, he's freaked her out and now she's avoiding rhe bus stop.

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4. Has he said he won’t and doesn’t compare?

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5. It seems pretty weird. Did OP meet this guy and not like him? Op is saying their arguments are increasing, but before this was a sore spot that op had, did they have healthy adult conversations about what each others understanding and expectations were? Did they try to figure out what the root of those uncomfortable feelings are?

   There are five adults in that situation, her parents, her, the guy and the therapist. None of those people think it's weird that they are friends. None of those people have expressed concerns that they feel bad about this.

   If the question is does ops gf think it's normal and is it normal for her? Yes. Because, it very clearly is normal for her and the people in here life.

   If op can't do that, then the relationship will end due to constant strain.

   But this isn't a judgement call on all the people involved, because we can not determine how things got to this point, or even how much op can even answer about this guy and his partners relationship with him, past or present.

   I would like to encourage op to figure out why he thought their relationship would change, and even encourage them to invest in couples therapy with her to see if they can figure out these insecurity things. But, if that doesn't sound worth it, I think the relationship isn't gonna work.

   I just don't think it's because 'being friends with your ex isn't normal. '

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