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Maybe he had a rough day or something and was just really enjoying your company. My gf and I are like that. We don’t even have to be watching a movie, we will just enjoy the moment. Sometimes having someone there to hold onto is very therapeutic
To answer your title question, it doesn’t make sense.
I certainly understand why you reacted the way you did, but you essentially told him not to contact you anymore.
Now, before that makes you think you need to reach out to him, you shouldn’t. None of this changes anything. When you’re with the right person, this shit won’t happen. Good luck.
Well, I hope we've learned another valuable lesson in “Always knock (and wait for a response/lack of response) before you enter someone else's home, regardless of context/time of day- you NEVER know what you're gonna see otherwise.”
We both have encouraged her to go to therapy. We've offered her our support and help. I really hope she does decide to go to therapy, she very much needs it.
Bro, this is where you have to make the decision of having peace or keep stressing in this relationship. I promise you if you don’t get out before it’s to late; it’s going to hurt your future relationships in the future and possibly finding the right one. You have to put yourself first this time man and choose what’s best for you brother.
I'm sorry you went through that, through everything. And I am sure its incredibly heartbreaking to realize his priority is sex and not you. Please break it off. Please get therapy if you aren't already. You have a lot of trauma that needs to be addressed and you deserve to heal. And you cannot heal from sexual trauma while being re-traumatized.
Idk how to copy specific text on mobile but OP did say in the post that they – recommended a better toothbrush to BF – recommend that he brushes at night and – recommended that he flosses everyday OP then says that the “lack of” these habits are a turnoff.
If I'm comprehending this right OP is saying that their BF brushes with an improper/cheap or old toothbrush, brushes only once a day in the morning, and does not floss everyday. He has not visited a dentist so it's not like his dentist recommended his current hygiene routine. So yes, the BF has poor/neglectful dental hygiene practices.
Common dental issues arise from bacteria feasting on the food residue that is stuck between your teeth/gumline. Bacteria residing in the lips/mouth are transferred when you kiss. OP is allowed to feel icky realizing that her BF allows accumulations of bacteria in his mouth for extended periods of time and then shares those bacteria with her. If he doesn't floss everyday he also has decaying food sitting between his teeth. And he does not visit a dentist to have a decade of plaque or buildup (which at that point is impossible to get off with a normal brush) cleaned professionally. He may have been lucky so far to not have cavities/bad breath/tooth pain but those are not the only issues that can arise from poor dental hygiene.
Yeah, before we signed the lease he promised things would get better and they actually did for a bit, but now I’m worried it’s slipping again. Hopefully we can have a mature conversation, and come back from this. Otherwise I probably will be reevaluating.
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Nope. No way she planned this and if he would've showed up they would have f*cked, she is already cheating and wanting sex with him. She has been cheating for a year and it's NOT going to stop, she has feelings for him. I personally would figure out a way to leave and file for divorce. She needs to be held accountable for her actions don't let her off scott free. Tell her that you are going to file for divorce and as soon as you put it together you will be leaving. Good luck
I'm not sure why you put the nice guy in there? You do realise nice guys are guys who pretend to be nice but really aren't. Your guy is just chilling or if you want to be a bit more extreme a slacker. Nothing to do with nice guys.
He’s trying to frustrate you into never asking him to cook something again. Like to make you think “Oh this was a disaster, I will avoid asking bf to help me because it was less stress just to do it myself”.
I bet your bf has watched endless amount of YouTube video to help him figure out how to do stuff in Genshin Impact and League, but somehow now can’t watch a YouTube video to boil and mash potatoes? He chose to piss you off and is banking on you giving in. Don’t let him win.
I don’t think your boyfriend is nice, or capable of an adult relationship. I would take him blocking you as him ending things. Block him back and move on. You did nothing wrong.
Ask her to on-line with you until she finds something. She is 32 overbearing mother is no excuse. She can leave her and if she doesn't it's her choice.
Honestly I think you should break up and look for someone more msture than her. Your relation will not progress gor years and then it might not work our at all.
So my take is either break up or make demand for her to leace her parents house. Not some time in future, but imnediately. She can online with you even if she intends to buy sth later. If she refuses break up with her.
Ha, I used to do that with my wife. If you aren't comfortable with it, just tell him he's not allowed to do it. My wife thought it was dumb but didn't really care otherwise.
Thats true im convinced with what you said, the only issue i feel everything happened at once.. So that 4 months still feels like ? Its a very long period
Holy shit, that post history in such a short time. Is he the bf that assaulted (raped) you and said it was an accident? And the bf you want to lose weight? It seems like you have a lot of things to figure out with yourself and the people you have in your life.
I was ready to jump all over you and tell you that fucked up so you have to do whatever he wants earn his trust but holy shit girl, no. He is physically and mentally punishing you. This is not someone that wants to work things out and is willing to give you the opportunity to redeem yourself. This is someone that wants to hurt you and will keep hurting you. Please leave him before you end up in the hospital or worse, the morgue.
whether he's mad or not, you havent done anything wrong. If your bf gets upset at you simply for playing a game with another guy when there's been no inappropriate behavior, gay or not, thats his problem.
Idk what it is like I guess because she just got approved for him too call and now it's weird it's not like an actual relationship but just this makes it weird
Would they have called her when it was her husband bringing the cat in? Genuine question. He would have the same address as on the chip and presumably the same last name. Wouldn’t they assume the wife had consented to the cat going to the shelter?
Have you had an honest conversation with your gf about feeling like the relationship is stale? That's the very first step. If you're not interested in doing that and possibly putting the work into improving your current relationship, then end it and stop wasting everyone's time.
He never cut ties really. They didn’t speak for maybe a month and then he got a new job for a really really big company. He talked to his dad about it, dad told mom, she just texted him “congrats” and then everything was hunky dory from there. It doesn’t matter how loving my family is, he still wants that relationship with them, and I understand. But I can’t keep allowing myself to be hurt
your body your choice! everyone has great advice in this thread so I'll give a different perspective: rather then you or your boyfriend's feelings you should also look at this logically can you provide for the child? if you're a single parent can you afford a nanny who you trust? or would you be able to work full time while simultaneously caring for a child? a baby needs to be tended to 24/7 including the night? is your job secure and are they accommodating to new parents? is there enough room where you on-line for a child? is it a safe place? there's so much to consider.
if you're seeing a therapist I think it's wise to ask them for advice. they won't tell you if you should or shouldn't, but if they're a good therapist they'll help you work through it
I think you went from an abusive situation with your parents straight into another abusive one with your husband. You need to stand on your own for a while and experience independence, especially away from someone who threatens to “send you back to your parents” like you’re a 3 year old that can be shuttled back and forth. You deserve better than that.
A long distance relationship can only work if the two of you can communicate. If she's unwilling to do that, there's not a lot you can do besides asking her.
Maybe he had a rough day or something and was just really enjoying your company. My gf and I are like that. We don’t even have to be watching a movie, we will just enjoy the moment. Sometimes having someone there to hold onto is very therapeutic
Anything thatll haunt you/still exists til this day in your life… yes.
Anything more, you're going to pick the thread.
To answer your title question, it doesn’t make sense.
I certainly understand why you reacted the way you did, but you essentially told him not to contact you anymore.
Now, before that makes you think you need to reach out to him, you shouldn’t. None of this changes anything. When you’re with the right person, this shit won’t happen. Good luck.
Um…. try not telling people you're a millionaire?
Well, I hope we've learned another valuable lesson in “Always knock (and wait for a response/lack of response) before you enter someone else's home, regardless of context/time of day- you NEVER know what you're gonna see otherwise.”
Plus it’s a suttle way to hit on them too, by expecting them to be in a relationship, you’re acknowledging your attraction to them
We both have encouraged her to go to therapy. We've offered her our support and help. I really hope she does decide to go to therapy, she very much needs it.
People actually believing this is real sigh
Bro, this is where you have to make the decision of having peace or keep stressing in this relationship. I promise you if you don’t get out before it’s to late; it’s going to hurt your future relationships in the future and possibly finding the right one. You have to put yourself first this time man and choose what’s best for you brother.
Same same.
I'm sorry you went through that, through everything. And I am sure its incredibly heartbreaking to realize his priority is sex and not you. Please break it off. Please get therapy if you aren't already. You have a lot of trauma that needs to be addressed and you deserve to heal. And you cannot heal from sexual trauma while being re-traumatized.
As I already said, I don’t want to leave my bf for Sean, even if he leaves his gf. I will cut off every interactions with Sean
There is no coming back from an accusation like that. That's massive & should not be flippantly thrown out there like that. Dump her, immediately.
Idk how to copy specific text on mobile but OP did say in the post that they – recommended a better toothbrush to BF – recommend that he brushes at night and – recommended that he flosses everyday OP then says that the “lack of” these habits are a turnoff.
If I'm comprehending this right OP is saying that their BF brushes with an improper/cheap or old toothbrush, brushes only once a day in the morning, and does not floss everyday. He has not visited a dentist so it's not like his dentist recommended his current hygiene routine. So yes, the BF has poor/neglectful dental hygiene practices.
Common dental issues arise from bacteria feasting on the food residue that is stuck between your teeth/gumline. Bacteria residing in the lips/mouth are transferred when you kiss. OP is allowed to feel icky realizing that her BF allows accumulations of bacteria in his mouth for extended periods of time and then shares those bacteria with her. If he doesn't floss everyday he also has decaying food sitting between his teeth. And he does not visit a dentist to have a decade of plaque or buildup (which at that point is impossible to get off with a normal brush) cleaned professionally. He may have been lucky so far to not have cavities/bad breath/tooth pain but those are not the only issues that can arise from poor dental hygiene.
Yeah, before we signed the lease he promised things would get better and they actually did for a bit, but now I’m worried it’s slipping again. Hopefully we can have a mature conversation, and come back from this. Otherwise I probably will be reevaluating.
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So you're teaching your daughter that it's OK to cheat/be cheated on??
No, it isn't ok. Get a divorce. Don't cheat, especially not with some barely legal.
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Lmao girl
Please understand if a man wanted to, he would. His bm is not stopping him from anything.
He doesn’t actually want to
Drop him and find someone else.
This is a bit delusional.
I apologize, I saw several comments about not having a license.
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Nope. No way she planned this and if he would've showed up they would have f*cked, she is already cheating and wanting sex with him. She has been cheating for a year and it's NOT going to stop, she has feelings for him. I personally would figure out a way to leave and file for divorce. She needs to be held accountable for her actions don't let her off scott free. Tell her that you are going to file for divorce and as soon as you put it together you will be leaving. Good luck
From some of his comments, fear of divorce
I'm not sure why you put the nice guy in there? You do realise nice guys are guys who pretend to be nice but really aren't. Your guy is just chilling or if you want to be a bit more extreme a slacker. Nothing to do with nice guys.
Please say his name is Dale
He’s trying to frustrate you into never asking him to cook something again. Like to make you think “Oh this was a disaster, I will avoid asking bf to help me because it was less stress just to do it myself”.
I bet your bf has watched endless amount of YouTube video to help him figure out how to do stuff in Genshin Impact and League, but somehow now can’t watch a YouTube video to boil and mash potatoes? He chose to piss you off and is banking on you giving in. Don’t let him win.
In your 40s, you are absolutely not.
Did she learn something about you that made her change the way she feels about you?
I don’t think your boyfriend is nice, or capable of an adult relationship. I would take him blocking you as him ending things. Block him back and move on. You did nothing wrong.
Ask her to on-line with you until she finds something. She is 32 overbearing mother is no excuse. She can leave her and if she doesn't it's her choice.
Honestly I think you should break up and look for someone more msture than her. Your relation will not progress gor years and then it might not work our at all.
So my take is either break up or make demand for her to leace her parents house. Not some time in future, but imnediately. She can online with you even if she intends to buy sth later. If she refuses break up with her.
Ha, I used to do that with my wife. If you aren't comfortable with it, just tell him he's not allowed to do it. My wife thought it was dumb but didn't really care otherwise.
Thats true im convinced with what you said, the only issue i feel everything happened at once.. So that 4 months still feels like ? Its a very long period
I have the proof she was dating him before our relationship but i have the screenshot of their chats..they had sex which is confirmed!
Take care of you. This person doesn't show a y concern about you. You're worth more.
Holy shit, that post history in such a short time. Is he the bf that assaulted (raped) you and said it was an accident? And the bf you want to lose weight? It seems like you have a lot of things to figure out with yourself and the people you have in your life.
So why are you dating her? And why are you here complaining about losing your ex when you are already dating someone else?
I was ready to jump all over you and tell you that fucked up so you have to do whatever he wants earn his trust but holy shit girl, no. He is physically and mentally punishing you. This is not someone that wants to work things out and is willing to give you the opportunity to redeem yourself. This is someone that wants to hurt you and will keep hurting you. Please leave him before you end up in the hospital or worse, the morgue.
whether he's mad or not, you havent done anything wrong. If your bf gets upset at you simply for playing a game with another guy when there's been no inappropriate behavior, gay or not, thats his problem.
Text and mention you'll be in town on x day. See how he responds. Try to make is sound natural. Like make it about the bbq.
Idk what it is like I guess because she just got approved for him too call and now it's weird it's not like an actual relationship but just this makes it weird
hmm that actually does make sense… but why not both??
Take the car to the police station!
Would they have called her when it was her husband bringing the cat in? Genuine question. He would have the same address as on the chip and presumably the same last name. Wouldn’t they assume the wife had consented to the cat going to the shelter?
Have you had an honest conversation with your gf about feeling like the relationship is stale? That's the very first step. If you're not interested in doing that and possibly putting the work into improving your current relationship, then end it and stop wasting everyone's time.
He never cut ties really. They didn’t speak for maybe a month and then he got a new job for a really really big company. He talked to his dad about it, dad told mom, she just texted him “congrats” and then everything was hunky dory from there. It doesn’t matter how loving my family is, he still wants that relationship with them, and I understand. But I can’t keep allowing myself to be hurt
No problem man
Fake for sure
That's not sustainable and you're going break soon. Stay off reddit and work on figuring a better work/rent/financial situation. Take care of yourself
your body your choice! everyone has great advice in this thread so I'll give a different perspective: rather then you or your boyfriend's feelings you should also look at this logically can you provide for the child? if you're a single parent can you afford a nanny who you trust? or would you be able to work full time while simultaneously caring for a child? a baby needs to be tended to 24/7 including the night? is your job secure and are they accommodating to new parents? is there enough room where you on-line for a child? is it a safe place? there's so much to consider.
if you're seeing a therapist I think it's wise to ask them for advice. they won't tell you if you should or shouldn't, but if they're a good therapist they'll help you work through it
It's wrong
Especially the BF
As a guy, he definitely knew how the ex feels
Yet he still stabs his boy in the back
As I said it won't last
He lacks loyalty to his friends
I think you went from an abusive situation with your parents straight into another abusive one with your husband. You need to stand on your own for a while and experience independence, especially away from someone who threatens to “send you back to your parents” like you’re a 3 year old that can be shuttled back and forth. You deserve better than that.
I'll see if i can subtlely vouch for one I like. I wish we were close enough I could just say “homie you stink lets brainstorm”
A long distance relationship can only work if the two of you can communicate. If she's unwilling to do that, there's not a lot you can do besides asking her.