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How is it unrealistic? I feel bad when he's watching this, it makes me sad, and feeling like he would prefer a girl with bigger tits. It reminds me of the fact that I have small breasts. He's been reluctantly understanding, but understanding nonetheless so far, but suddenly it's a big problem for him.
Honestly can't believe it took 2 years for this boundary to start being a real problem.
He should have nipped this in the bud early on and not agreed to this arbitrary restriction that actually does nothing to help you work through your issue.
Jealousy and insecurities are normal, we all have them, work on them through communication, love, and reassurance, not whatever this is.
What’s a cooker? Genuinely asking
Honestly, we have a super limited view on what he's actually like. Based on your description, he sounds doesn't seem to understand reality. No one gets to say no when someone else breaks up with them. That's not how any of this works. ?
I do find it a little concerning that you're agreeing to his “no”. That might be others concern too; a lot of people who cave so quickly have also been abused in some way in the relationship.
Anyways, I hope everything works out for you. You deserve to live your best life.
Tell him shelf it.
I imagine the right time is when you have lost all interest in other men.
If he doesn't respect other people, he will show disrespect to you
I've said that to her before and her response is “yeah almost zero but not zero, there's still a chance.”
I'm sorry man, but if ypu accept her back ypu are only going to get hurt. In a messed up way you'll deserve it too.
Yes, you were abusive. And deliberately controlling, which is abuse. If you feel the need to “dominate,” (yeesh) dominate YOURSELF. You shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone until you get professional help.
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OP murdered him night before and then hid the body. And dropped his phone off at his friend's right?
You can't control how other people will respond. Even without the depression she would likely take the break-up badly because no parent wants to see their child in pain. Plus she was probably relying on you to care for him once they are no longer able. Don't tell her about the break-up until after you have done it, that wouldn't be fair to your bf to find out from his mother that she knew. And seriously think about blocking all communication after the break-up so that they can't manipulate you back into a relationship. Plus it would give them false hope that you might change your mind. Good luck
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Both studying right now. He receives government aid and I work almost full time and study part time but it can be from home so I can move around. He is unable to work currently due to his mental health
The reason is his overall terror. Your dog, who has a history is major trauma, is terrified by your boyfriend who handles him roughly and throws him around. Of course there’s a reason. A constant environment of never knowing where the next blow is coming from.
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He’d be better off then.
“The scariest part to me is that god only knows what he was doing with theses videos, I assume jerking off but it’s just unsettling.”
This is the kind of thing that is usually found on a person's phone after they're arrested for dumping some girl in the woods.
No, they consider her toxic, because she always argues with me for every single mistake I made
You think so? That's very unfortunate if it's true as that's the only thing I would change about our relationship.
Is it? At that age people still count “going out” with someone for 2 months in 7th grade as a “relationship” when really it just means that they held hands at the movies and gave each other valentine's day gifts.
Yes (I didn’t even read past the title, didn’t have to)
You've got your red flag. It's up to you to either ignore it or use it to realise you deserve to find someone better.
Because I loved her and I thought she loved me. Apparently I was completely wrong. Like I said I just thought she had a low sex drive. She gaslit me for years though. Part of me saw through it looking back. I guess I was too afraid to admit she wasn’t attracted to me to myself.
Why would anyone introduce their daughter that way, regardless of whether she’s single or not? Seems very strange, but the only obvious answer is the mom was trying to set up the daughter with one of those people she introduced her to
updateme!
Why stay for revenge? Bail OP, you dodged an STD bullet, you don't want to catch anything.
L.E.A.V.E.
For 5 years???
? you're welcome…now go be a man
I suggest you look into any neighboring charm schools that offer adult classes and suggest you go together.
I'm not trying to sound mean. I appreciate your opinion and help
You can't save her. You shouldn't save anyone. You can break up with this girl and still wish her the best and support her as a friend, not a codependent push over.
You should never be with someone who needs you. And you should never need anybody.
Ask to watch! Look up the game and do a tiny bit of research about it so you can unferstand
Before 21 I imagine! They already have the baby.
My cousin (34f at the time) broke down to my grandma at my wedding that she would never find someone… she danced with my friend (35m) an hour later, and they have pretty much never been apart since. 3 years later and 2 kids. Dude, weddings are great to meet people.
Let’s put it this way: your wife sees you supporting someone who broke their vows. You disagree with breaking vows, but not if this person does it. This person will most likely be single soon. This person, who you support, is now known to your wife for being okay with breaking vows instead of working with their spouse to solve the issues in their marriage. You support someone breaking vows because they wouldn’t communicate.
If I was your wife, I would be pretty upset too.
It doesn't have to be cheating to be unacceptable to you, it could just be that you don't think the lifestyle he leads is something you want to live with. Always wondering why about a partner can be a grinding thing to your trust.
I bought all these programs lol like the siren one and umm something about making a man fall in love etc.
Also important to date more than one guy at a time. Dont put all your eggs in one basket, at least at first. 🙂 I followed all these program tips and am happily married now.
“Go die then” implies she wants him to.
The younger sister has a newborn – I hope the baby isn’t a daughter because it’s likely she’d be abused too.
No, I use the note pad.
He wrote those messages, the date is when he wrote it
If there are two dates, the tope date is when it was written. The bottom date is when it was edited.
How did you not know he was going out?
Yup, I’m in Australia and they’d have to do a bridging course, I assume it’s the same in Canada and USA
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She endangered your dog’s life, how is this even a question. Find a new place to live and leave her. I feel bad for her dad when he needs meds and anti medical science Karen will prevent his treatment.
Short version: you can’t make this work. Or at least, you can but only at the most extravagant cost in time and energy.
Relationships mean being there with each other. LDRs are handicapped, because they attempt to “be there” without “being there.”
And if she’s withholding and / or draining at distance, you have no reason to expect that will get better with proximity. I’m sympathetic with anxiety, but that’s a bad enough burden on you close up. At distance when you can’t be there for the worst of it or have any recourse when she gives up, it’s quite hopeless to think you’ll help her at all with that.
Yes. Do that.
Then he and his wife laugh at how desperate you are, fire you, and tell all their friends with kids that you aren’t to be trusted.
Understandable but stupid if you are 14 and haven’t figured life out yet. Completely ignorant if you are 34.
This sounds incredibly toxic… why are you with someone 20 years older than you who treats you like you don’t even exist and is still this emotionally immature??
“I didn't tell her to abort, I just implied it, then called her names and abandoned her”. That sounds such a solid defense (/s).
You look so hell-bent in defending OP's ex, are you projecting or just that much misogynistic?
A guy that doesn’t wanna spend time with you isn’t really into you.
How can we tell from that? You don't give any examples of the behavior. The term narcissist is thrown around so easily, and neither of you probably is one. It doesn't sound like you get along, though.
He's using you and honestly sounds pretty manipulative and controlling if he's forcing you not to spend time with your friends.
You need to talk to him and tell him this isn't acceptable and something needs to change. Last ditch effort, go to marriage counseling.
But as it stands right now, your marriage is no longer sustainable.
You’re 38 and you think communication is girly and weak? You need to elevate yourself and get into therapy, there are so many issues with hat you just wrote. If this is something that you think if legitimate, I don’t know how you’ve made it this far. I would have clocked you at 15 for this thought process.
I have endo and PCOS and birth control makes everything worse for me. It's obvious my hormones are fucked, so throwing more in the mix doesn't help. Literally uncontrollable side effects with every pill I've taken.
I was more okay with the IUD (probably bc it's less hormones) but I still had hormonal fluctuations and cramps sometimes.
If your cramps are that bad you need a doctor.
And tbh I don't like how you're phrasing what he said to you. If he really “told” you to get on birth control (rather than politely suggesting it in his ignorance) then Id call that a red flag.
Either way, go to the Doctor and figure out if you have endo or PCOS. The diagnosis of them changed my life. Literally just having an explanation makes it so much easier to deal with.
But not I'm hoping to try to get them to take my uterus ? already had a bilateral salpingectomy (tubal removal on both sides) so no reason to keep the angry uterus.
I honestly feel horrible for this poor woman. First it seems like your husband was an inappropriate creeper and in order to get away from him she's now driving her child to school and avoiding the bus stop. Then you come Kool-Aid man-ing your way into her home at dinner time in some weird confrontation.
What the hell was she supposed to say??? “Oh yes upset woman interrupting dinner with my child let me tell you about how your husband has been coming on to me right in front of MY SON nonetheless.”
You definitely have some major problems in your marriage but maybe leaving this woman alone should be top priority. If you really need a smoking gun higher a PI, do some investigating but showing up unannounced st people's homes asking them to decipher the text messages that your husband sent them is nutty behavior.
Why don't you make some 'realistic observations' of your own? That he's verbally abusive, lacks empathy and makes you feel bad about yourself. Your partner should lift you up, not drag you down.
Mother of God, please give me the confidence of a mediocre white man, so I can use it to better the world. Amen.
Thanks, I'm fine. But she was either hella confused over what she wanted, or it was a Hell of a way to distract me from the bigger issues. lol
I did follow up the next day, and he gave me the same answer about not having the time / the timing not being right for him. Very much a non-answer.
Jesus porn has messed people up. No way I could come back from that.
Lol
Move on.
She wants you to show how interested in her you are without showing actual effort. Thats not a healthy relationship starter. So. Move on. Her crazy will show sooner or later and you'll realize y
Should I unfollow him on social media
Kicking him out of the house would ruin our relationship.
Why?
You did nothing wrong..
What you did is completely normal..
If you read the actual replies, you won't see anything like that. Don't be ridiculous.
I would plan the weekend and go with a gal pal- then I’d present him with the invoice.
what kind of dancing doesn’t involve touching your partner
Also learn to dance it will make you more cool and less insecure
The more fearless I am in being vulnerable, I find that my partner is more receptive to my . . . Awkwardness and screwups.
This is just a celebrity crush – keep thinking he’s cute and forget all your other “plans” and leave the poor guy alone. And yes, you ARE stalking if you go through with these thoughts.
Please get therapy and have them help you figure out why you’re having these ideas.
You're hilarious doll! Thank you for the entertainment. For the love of whatever, learn English. Your language skills really detracted from this trolling. Stick to SIMS. I'm sorry you struggle in your relationships and choose to attack others to compensate. I truly hope this isn't your main account and your people don't get to see how you attack the idea of long-term relationships. It will affect your ability to have them. But, you do say you think they're boring so you don't likely want one anyway. I'm out. You bore me. ? As I said before, good luck.
This is exactly what I thought – he’s worried about getting a write up at the new job for asking out a co-worker. How do you keep yourself sharp but are worried about getting a write up at work? Wtf? His explanation of these words makes absolutely no sense at all.
Does the new workplace have a no dating policy in place for employees or subordinates? Or has he been harassing someone and is worried about them going to HR?
Dude is shaaaaady!
If he can not be honest with you than you do not even have a relationship
There’s logically a difference between someone who communicates but just not enough to your liking vs someone who doesn’t communicate at all.
Seems like the former is the situation. Now, before I get into my personal opinion and advice, it’s important to say this first; your boundaries and deal breakers are ultimately your own. I or anyone else might not agree with them, but at the end of the day, it’s your life, so if this matters to you, then it really is what it is. I digress.
Full disclosure, I’m not a huge texter. Separately, I’m a guy and I’m happily married. I tell you this so that you have full transparency as to who you’re getting advice from. Again, does me thinking a lot of texting isn’t necessary make me “right?” Absolutely not. That’s my preference. I luckily found a partner who feels the same.
But therein lies the problem here; things aren’t working for you because you’re objectively incompatible, but what makes this especially problematic is that you’ve always known this but forced the relationship anyway (by “you” I mean both of you).
To reiterate, you say here you’ve always known she’s not a big texter. You then say it’s caused multiple conflicts. Why? She was upfront off the bat and told you she’s not a big texter. That obviously bothered you but you stayed in the relationship. She continues to text in the exact manner she told you she would, and you continue to start fights about it.
In your mind, your texting preference is “right” which makes her’s “wrong.” Fair enough, because while it’s not a black and white issue, it becomes one if you decide it is. But it only actually is if there’s a consequence if nothing changes.
So that leaves you with three options; 1) accept that nothing is going to change. It will upset you, but complaining about it over and over accomplishes nothing. 2) Sit down and have a talk and work as a team to find sustainable compromise that legitimately makes you both happy. Or 3) Decide it’s a dealbreaker, tell her exactly that, and if nothing changes then you end things. If she keeps telling you that things aren’t going to change, you need to at some point trust that she’s telling you the truth.
What you were used to in the past means nothing. You’re also exes. That again doesn’t mean texting less is right. The point is that comparing your past is a bad argument because it’s not exactly the model of a healthy relationship regardless of why it ended.
Do you have a life of your own outside of her? I’m also honestly not objectively saying you’re in the wrong. I’m not absolutely sure here. More information is necessary. The truth is you honestly paint yourself in a bad light. But because the post is so vague, I want to be fair to you if something(s) missing that matters.
you mention that you buy her stuff like jewelry and body care; do you feel like you resent this difference in your gifts? that yours hold more monetary value while hers dont? i think if thats the case you should also mention it to her. you can also start to adjust your gifting habits accordingly. maybe stop with the jewelry and go the homemade route to make it feel like an equal exhange?
i am a man and i also love receiving stuffed animals.
Are you referring to Jake?
Your wife was having an emotional affair. If she’s still finding ways to see this girl then she’s not going to move on.
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Okay OP, as someone who grew up with a father like this, I'll tell you what the best thing he did for me; he left my life never to return. As a teenager I did and said so many reprehensible things because I thought it was normal. My dad normalised mental abuse and it still carries with me to this day.
My mum always thought it was better to stay with him for me. But in reality, the best thing for me was to not have him in my life.
If you can't weed this behaviour out, it's unfortunately the decision you'll have to make for your child.