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Unfortunately, there's nothing doctors or psychiatrists can do because there is no treatment or cure for this condition, and as a PSSD sufferer myself, getting back on my medication made my symptoms even worse
Just say what needs to be said in the clearest possible way. I wouldn’t overshare any details unless asked. I don’t know the full situation of course, but something along the lines of you didn’t know until the day you were “introduced” and it’s all in the past is a good start.
So, I am so curious now…the story was told by the man? Did they break up or stay together?
Mhm, thats difficult, whenever I tried talking to her she is like she wont say anything to me without a “mentor” or something like this and that she will try to keep “calm” this Christmas as if she has to really try very hot to stay calm around me making me feel like I am the crazy one. She wants to protect herself while ignoring everyone elses feeling so if she is protecting herself, I will do that too from now on. Tired of being a doormat, everyone is allowed to have an opinion around me except myself. And if I do have an opinion, they domineer me. Its so strange. Guess thats the result of not setting boundaries earlier.
Yup in reality OPs life style shouldn't change because OPs income hasn't changed.
Comfort level Should change. But most of that money should be thrown at rental properties and invested. That way when OPs income changes, lifestyle can change as well.
To OP start finding good cash flowing properties and decide if putting 20% down on a few vs paying cash for a few is better.
There's still areas and states that $200k duplexes can make $1600-1700 a month(before taxes and overhead). Let's say they cash flow $1400 Get 4 of those and put 50% on another and now your income is up $6k a month permanently and pretty much only goes up over the years. And when the market goes down you can always pull cash out and get more property.
Now if OP has no car and needs a $30-40k car sure go get the car. Leave $100k as savings for cushion and rainy day funds. But all money spent should be replaced.
It's no one business how much you have.
If you don't invest this money OP you'll be broke with in a few years
Is “I have ADHD and it has caused other problems” code for “I always ‘forget’ to do my share of cleaning and other chores, and now she realized a piss coated shower is yet another mess of mine she’s being left to clean up”?
“And the comment you were saying you wish your girlfriend was like? It wasn’t just someone who would give head. It was someone who wants everyone’s dick and would be offended at you masturbating”
No – I would not like someone who wants everyone's dick
No – I would not like someone who would be offended at me masturbating
Feel free to re-read my comments. Neither of the above will be in them.
Fact is – girl said something that indicated that she fancied you, and the first thing you do is run to Reddit for counselling. I think that's pretty pathetic but hey ho, I've said my piece…
They've tried taking every different kind of anti-depressant medication that their insurance will cover and had a bad reaction to every single one except the current one. So switching medications doesn't seem like an option.
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You're 19 and he's already being controlling. You're an adult. An individual. You do NOT need to consult anyone. You can choose to out of respect. But he should not by any means be saying you need his permission for anything.
Your husband is being ridiculous, and it's wrong of him to blame you because your neighbors are swingers.
“Hey OP, I fed your cats. Now it is my turn to ask a favor.”
Sorry, but are you sure you are attracted to him?
That's not a bad idea. Thank you so much!
Guys say they don’t like fake whatever to keep from upsetting partners who don’t have fake whatever’s. Bottom line is, fake or not, if it’s attractive it’s attractive.
I agree with this TroublesomeTurnip.
Break it off. And maybe mention that he should address a possible underlying issue. But it’s not your place to fix someone that is actively fighting against your love and support.
i did, i posted it under this thread.
My gut says he’s cheating because everyone is trash BUT I do have a friend who prefers masturbating with a condom on so maybe your man ain’t lying. Godspeed.
This is much more important than setting alarms for the middle of the day.
I don't have any advice for this, sorry. But I think you should know this isn't usual behaviour and it's pretty bizarre.
I’m turning 40 soon and the idea of being this dependent on another person at my age is so humiliating I can’t even think about it, much less reduce myself to feeling entitled to it. And Jesus Christ if someone asked me NOT TO, you bet I would NEVER.
wait 10 years, a lot will change, and not just your name.
Marriage fantasies are fun at this age, so just enjoy the dream.
Literally cheaper to have her keep it and get rid of her than deal with
The first thing is I told her that someone I know at work told me that maybe I’m the reason my brother died since I told them a story from when my brother and I were kids
This is the sort of thing that you should report to HR. It's bullying in the workplace and your employer has a legal obligation to prevent that type of behavior.
If this were you, what would you do?
Stop talking to your friend. Start seeing a therapist.
It's like they wrote the book about this guy. He is a textbook abuser. Ticks off all the things, except one! Get out before he hits you. Get out now please. You will never ever ever convince him that you are not cheating. Discussing it with him just enforces his belief.
He apologized for your feelings !!!!! that’s not an apologizing for what he did. There’s so many red flags with this guy I really think you should go back home to your pet family and your dogs get into therapy and figure out why you would date someone who treat you like this. This is gaslighting so very hot he doesn’t take you to dates and he’s telling you that you need to be nicer and appreciate him. Girl just walk away this guy is an empty vessel he will just keep taking. One date in six months ???? yeah he doesn’t care about how you feel.
Nothing, unless she starts hurt him or his belongings
Do not delete any of the texts from him or his family. They might come in handy down the line.
Get a pregnancy test. Mopping in dealing with all this drama if you're not pregnant.
Leave him. Start a new life for yourself without that ass
Why would you have to look at your rapist ex-husband if he is out of the house?
Please tell us he is out of the house.
especially since he very much enjoys that I am bi
Weird
What do you want her to do about it?
There is absolutely no reason in this situation to hide anything unless he is doing something wrong.
The only time I have ever seen someone treat their phone like it's the Holy Grail is because they were cheating in one form or another.
If my husband was getting the heebies, I'd just show him there is nothing to be concerned about. Why would that be difficult if all was innocent?
I mean everyone here has already told you as much, cheating is cheating, regardless of circumstance, intent or reason. He made a series of decisions that led to the cheating, it wasn't out of his control.
You have to decide if you're willing to forgive it or not.
Sorry for the situation. Just two thoughts, borderline criminal for any school to charge that and also insane for any student to take that on. The perfect storm …
With the context that they’re both living in a country that’s not their home country then travel isn’t so much just a hobby.
I was informing you that your second point isn’t what happened not condemning you for not seeing the comment.
We didn’t meet I’m pretty sure they just came to take his license plate I just think it’s weird that they drove around looking for his car and came by knowing we don’t know eachother yet
Sounds like you need to grow a pair of balls
“Hey I had a fun time the other day. Any chance I could take you out on an official date next week?”
We can’t tell you what the right move for you is. I can’t even tell you what I’d do, this is a real puzzler. If she’s often in situations where it would be appropriate for men to flirt with her like this, then I’d probably break up. Me and my wife need to be a team
Your boyfriend should really talk to somebody because it seems like there is a Draper issue at play here. Since you guys have been together for so long I’d push him going to talk to somebody before you leave him. If he refuses then it really leaves you no option but to leave him. Seriously what are you suppose to do for the rest of your life? Not go out anywhere? Ever?
You brought it up, her answer was was not concise. If she wanted you all to herself, she would have made it clear but she didn’t. It’s not that she couldn’t, it’s that she didn’t
You did tell him you don’t like it. Everytime in the past you mentioned it hurt, along with every time you moved his hand or told him what you did want. Not your fault the guy can’t make 2+2=4.
Quit chasing him, it will only push him further away and frankly, he’s being manipulative for blaming you for not enjoying something.
Maybe he would like to try making his marriage work instead of just giving up and getting divorced
I'm happy for you but you know nothing about this couple other than what she gave to us, and it still makes him look good. He stopped doing it without disrespecting or shaming her and still makes her cum. He probably is insecure about the fact that he doesn't like eating her out in the first place, and instead of understanding that, she's… after 6 years, basically asking strangers what she should do to coerce him back into it (otherwise why post it like this? If she was trying to break up, just do it.) Unless he forces his sexuality on her, she shouldn't be this upset after so many years of being happily together? But if she's finally realised that she has to have it eaten out, then ofc she should find someone who will. Nothing wrong with that, just don't blame the guy for it.
This is far too much effort and bullshit for a relationship that's about half a year old.
This guy is a liar, he broke your trust, and he is just a ball of depression that sounds exhausting to be around and date! You can feel bad for his mental health issues but it sounds like he is not in a place where he should be in a relationship, and it's weighing you down big time!
Your mom sounds line she’s been through some stuff and has her self esteem crushed along the way. It’s harder for people in that situation to see red flags especially in “the people” who ruined her self esteem in the first place.
The next time he makes one of those comments just straight up tell him “can you please stop? You sound like a predator.”
Try dating boys your age, dad only wants one thing
This is pretty brilliant! I was a new mom when diaper genies first hit the scene in the early to mid 90s and damn that thing was AMAZING! that could work! This dude is still weird af, but hey, a compromise is good no matter what!!
Believe him. Leave.
How about weed? Get stoned out of your minds to ease off the pressure and just confess.
What do I do?
For starters, why would you send a text to 2 people you online with? I realize you had already started discussing it, but there was simply no reason to do this. And of course it doesn't help that it was all about the legal stuff. Sure, it was nice of you to say if they don't like the idea, you won't get the dog, but then that raises the question of why you'd be considering a service dog when it's not an absolute need.
The good news is, this is very fixable. Talk to them tonight. But carefully consider what exactly you want to say to them .
“I’d like a divorce”
OP thinks it’s a friend of a friend, he hasn’t actually said that is what his GF said. From what OP has posted so far all she said is that it was a guy buying everyone drinks and her returning the favour.
And even if it was a friend of a friend, why take a picture and post it on social media? OP described it as randomly, so GF probably doesn’t post much making it all the more weird.
OP – check the likes on that post – I bet you will find the guy has liked it, and is now following your GF (she’s probably following him as well)
I have told her how uncomfortable it makes me feel and she said she understands it’s not he best situation for me to be in and she will not stay overnight there anymore, her reasoning is she’s grieving and since their her friends now too she feels as if they can all grieve together and this will probably stick with her for life because of how traumatic this all happened as her being the last person to be in contact with. It makes it very hot to me to decide because she does put the effort into our relationship and it would just make me look like the bad person here.
Fucking BS – he is not committed to you. Kick him in the balls (literally or figuratively with annulment/divorce) and walk away. He is no man. He is a POS and deserves every shitty thing coming his way.
I love that tiktok has made 90% of people think it’s just a fancy word for “lie”. Nothing means anything anymore ?
When’s the wedding?
If it is bothering you, ask him about it. If you question him first, you have a much better chance of having an honest, mature relationship
Just imagine the genders were switched, everbody would scream cops. I think you got your answer.
People that have this hatred towards animals are typically not people you want to associate with. This is not the only topic in their lives that is related to anger.
Fastest dump ever, tbh.
I completely agree, I think it’s important to have mutual respect and if anything I want to hold her on a pedestal above me because I’m just a guy with the will and a want to make someone (her) the happiest person on the planet, she has a rough past and a bad family and she has done some really messed up stuff but it’s fine to me I still married her.
I see your point and I’m meditating on it, I can come across as a prick sometimes and maybe I am now on this post because I feel really hurt and betrayed. I have had terrible thoughts about disregarding her because she has no idea how bad I’m hurting and how much my heart is truest broken. It’s not a sob story I’ll be fine, but I just can’t move past the lying. I forgave her for what she had done, and she still continued to lie to me even thought I said I would do my best to forgive her and asked her to tell me the whole truth.
Don’t see a problem weren’t together and she was honest with you when she had realized u were the one she wants to be with, if happy now just move on