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Date: April 7, 2023
I wouldn’t like this for 5 days let alone 5 weeks. That is basically a temporary living situation – no thanks.
Also – you seem to be putting a lot of emphasis on their relationship being “not a big deal”. I think you are underestimating the relationship they actually had.
If you want to give friendship a chance You say “I'm sorry if you have been given the wrong Idea in all of this but I am only interested in friendship.”
You let that sit. She will either drop you, go along with friendship, or escalate the already creep behavior. Most likely the latter will happen
If the last option block her. No one is in love with someone after a conversation, No one is writing fanfiction about people they barely talk to. She is giving 100% stalker vibes and you need to protect yourself regardless of if you screwed up and “gave her the wrong idea”
On that note I'm sorry but people need to really stop thinking that you have done something to give the wrong idea. Like unless there is expressed interest (like asking on a date, for a relationship, etc) people need to stop blaming others for them not interpreting things correctly. I have known many people who were just flirts. Like 100% Straight dudes that would flirt with anything because it was just their PERSONALITY. No man ever actually had a chance and most women didn't either. But just because someone flirts doesn't mean that they are making some promise to pursue you. It takes one tiny thing to take someone who is uninvested in you from interested to not. Like you could just laugh wrong to their ears. Unless “promises” are made people need to stop assuming that the person who looked at them is going to marry them.
good on you for breaking up with her tbh
The nose thing could be a joke. It's impossible to say from the outside as we don't know either of you, but accusing you of talking quietly just to mess with him?…. that's just plain weird. Does he have a hearing problem that he is self conscious over? That's the only way I could kind of understand it. If he doesn't then the dude is just a complete weirdo and you should probably stop bothering with him.
Other than a poor scater.
While I agree that your BF's parents restrictions are kind of strange given his age, this is up to your boyfriend to manage! If he isn't able or willing to establish some boundaries with his parents, then you need to accept that yes, you are dating a kid.
Could not put this any better myself. When my fiancé and I get into disagreements, they never result in either of us belittling the other, brow beating, demeaning, or in any matter being negative and ugly; and we especially do not behave that way over differences of opinion, ideas etc. and we are polar opposites in many aspects. Completely different religions, he likes country setting, I enjoy city, I like camping he barely tolerates it, he loves cop dramas while I tolerate them but love the creepy shows on travel channel, and so forth. But enough of that, point is, it’s terribly sad to see OP stating that this is a good relationship in the same texts she talks about how exhausting his verbal beatings are every time her opinion is not the same as his.
Thank you for this, I needed an impartial opinion and I think you’re right. My current not picking up his calls isn’t an ignoring thing but more of a scared in case I snap at him thing when Im obviously unsure if that’s the right thing to do
Here's the thing, if OP is like this and she has to hide meeting her ex, it's STILL a toxic relationship all around. They shouldn't be together regardless imo
Performing acts of basic human decency doesn't entitle one to lifelong devotion. You and this person just aren't a good match. It's a godsend that he's moved away, that'll make it easier to end this. If you feel guilty about the cruise deposit make a payment plan with him to remunerate that money.
He “threatened to kill himself”? Really? Because that’s called emotional blackmail.
Insisting on sex when you don’t want to—that’s not respecting your boundaries.
He’s borderline narcissistic personality disorder and you need to run in the opposite direction.
A gentle way? Nope, that’s not going to cut it. You have to be firm and tell him directly. You don’t want to continue this relationship because you respect yourself, you don’t want to be emotionally blackmailed anymore and you are not responsible for making him feel loved according to his twisted logic.
That’s it. See ya. Bye. Oh, you wanna kill yourself? Have at it. That’s on him. You already wasted 6 years and have no intention of throwing good money after bad. That’s the rule.
I’m sorry this is happening to you.
You said you set boundaries, what were the consequences that went with those boundaries? If you didn’t have consequences it’s tough to police those boundaries.
An example of a boundary I have is that cheating is a dealbreaker. I’ve learned from past experiences that my trust can’t be rebuilt after that happens. If a person cheats (and I define with my partner what that means to us) the relationship is over.
Even people who don't have a diagnosable mental illness can have down days, or even weeks. No one can be “up” all the time, and he deserves the space to have his own moods just like you do. If he's been fine for a year following your mental problems it's unlikely he'd just decide now that he regrets marrying you. There's just a whole lot going on in the world right now that would strip joy from even the happiest person. For instance, you don't cite his line of work but as the global economy melts down he could just be in fear of losing his job. You can't always assume that someone's bad mood is directly related to you.
Thoughts
Your friend needs to think with her head instead of her nethers.
And at the end of the day, there's nothing you can do about her behavior.
All you can do is decide if you want to remain friends with this kind of person.