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Date: October 18, 2022
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I just hope number 32 was : Suspected of sexual relationship with own sock
You talk to them about it. File a restraining order if you have to
You don't have to stay with him just because he does have some redeeming qualities.
If you feel you're overall unhappy in this relationship, you're entitled to leave.
I made it clear I was severing all ties/ including his friends
You have actually made nothing clear. Maybe it is clear in your head but none of your actions have made this clean. If you want to sever all ties this is actually going to take some minimal action on your part. Leave the groups, ask them individually not to add you to groups with him. Currently you’re expecting them to be mind readers rather than taking the basic minimal steps. They do not know you do not want any dealings with them, it is really weird of you to assume they would think that following a breakup as you have likely known them for a number of years too.
Dr. Ma'am, you are a PHYSICIAN (or have achieved the Herculean doctorate in your field, regardless)! Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck them.
The hours that you must work – dress however you WANT. If they don't like it, ask your husband if he'd like to set up a dress code that you BOTH agree to, at all times, for EVERY situation, since you saying, “hey, that hurts my feelings, stop” isn't getting through to him. If he doesn't adhere to it, start calling him shabby until he changes.
Stuff him full of cognitive dissonance until he explodes.
He did give you his reasons to not wanting to live! together. You can only respect it and make your own decisions based on that.
If you feel like this is the end for the two of you, he needs to show the same respect you need to show him in this. 6 years is a long time for a relationship and you want to take a step closer, but he chooses to stay as it is.
I can only wish you well and maybe advice you to think about where you stand right now. You wanna move forward or stay the same?
1) we don't actually know the parental genotype here but it's quite possible they are non-brown expressing Bb
2) do you have a citation that the circumstance you are assuming means a new mutation in the gametes that made that child? I'm genuinely curious. New mutations would not seem to be required to explain this case as we know B can be masked in the phenotype possibly for multiple generations but still inherited.
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So how many people did she hook up with behind your back outside of her assault? That should be enough for you to leave.
Sounds like a pretty spicy situation to me
i think it’s shitty to be given an ultimatum like this but she’s right when she says your dog isn’t getting enough exercise. y’all are about to have a newborn infant while your highly energetic dog is already getting minimal activity. you’re the only one responsible for the care of your dog. your dog deserves more love/attention than you’re capable of giving
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You should have told her when it happened. It’s in the past now so don’t focus on that. Well, if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be. Hopefully she trusts you. It was the girl who made a move on you, not you.
I understand wanting to stay in bed but you can get up and get moving. You just have to make the choice.
If you know you didn't sleep with anyone then you know your answer. Go get tested
Because she said goodbye. Not call me in a year or let’s take it slower or anything to indicate she ever wants to talk to you again. It was a very polite but final goodbye.
If you’re not able to read that from her straightforward message… you might want to consider whether you read her right at all during the dates.
Two words……HELL NO! Let that cheat live! with her choice! She simply found out this dude wasn’t all sun and bright days! She’ll do it again….
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I think it might be time to sit down with her and have an important and open conversation, lay everything out with her and get both sides of what is going on and try and make a plan. Make sure your both doing this for the right reasons and not for comfort and ot being the easy thing to do. As for the paternity test i would recommend making sure you get one before signing any documents for the child, not trying to be an ass but it is important you know for sure that the child is yours, yes she will be upset but she brought it on by cheating, her being untrustworthy is the cause of this and dont let her manipulate you into potentally raising someone elses child. But its time to have a serious talk my friend.
I know you feel bad but it's not your fault.
A good friend of mine had the same experience as your sister. She was in shock but she never blamed her sister for introducing her friend to her (now ex-)husband.
Even if your sister blames you, let me tell you this, it's because she's just upset and is lashing out. She should focus all her anger toward her stbx husband though and focus on raising her children the best she can.
Did you even read the original post?
I doubt she will keep count, lot of pipe will get laid on this tour
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Well, we have been to marriage counseling it didn’t work I have communicated with her. I tell her how I feel. I guess you haven’t been married and know what it’s like when you do everything around the house while someone is lazy, and no matter how many times you ask them to help you they don’t, they hold you back from careers why you wait until they try and obtain theirs. Because my fault is I always put her first and I get treated crappy, while she does whatever she wants all the time. That’s my problem.
i dont know if youve ever spoken to a human being before but yes. you are expected to lie about shit like this. if i was the girl and had any sort of empathy at all for my partner i’d NEVER tell him some shit like this. if it was something i needed to do to get off during sex and i never had an intention of cheating on him then theres no reason to tell him and all the reasons to not. come up with a million excuses for the app, say i imagine you as jason mamoa, but not the exes. jeez bro
Wow. As if you've waited 10 years to find out if your wife is abusing your kids. Coward.
So what advice are you looking for? So she realized what she was doing and could possibly jeopardize her relationship so she ended it. Having a sugar daddy comes with a lot of strings. It’s not free money.
She didn’t necessarily want to be with them. Just was interested in them
Depends on her job
Sir, there is no sex good enough to put up with this sh*t, from both your ends. She hates your kid, her kid hates you, she assaulted you, you threatened to assault her, then she tried to get you arrested… WHY do you even want to be with her? Seriously, why? There cannot be enough redeeming qualities to cover up the sheer red flags y'all are giving off. Good gracious.
Of course, none of us can say what is the truth but it may be possible. Weirdly boredom is a key to a lot of problems.
Sure, but I don’t know of any states in the US where a law says that men automatically get no custody, lose their house, and pay all the child support. Men who request joint custody often get it. Women who are the primary earners often pay child support. I cannot find a law in NY that says OP’s income automatically gets cut in half and he has to surrender his house, so I suspect that there are some details of this situation that would deem that equitable distribution of assets.
I also think getting married and having children without any kind of prenup means that you accept that in the event of divorce you will have to follow whatever laws are in place and you can’t really blame anyone but yourself if that seems unfair in the end. I know no one gets married expecting to eventually divorce, but with the divorce rates where they are in this country it’s better to plan for the worst than hope for the best.
It sounds like this idea of yours came at her from out of nowhere. I’m sure that’s how she feels. It’s possible to repair this, but only if she is willing, and if you put in a lot of hard work with a counselor/therapist, solo and as a couple.
Don’t be surprised if your marriage ends, however. You appear to lack empathy and seem to be placing your needs over hers. I agree with the other poster; she’s cut her emotional ties to you already.
Yeah you are overthinking it a bit. Just be upfront with them and as the other person mentioned just say you broke up and don’t really wish to discuss it.
Key difference he asks you to do it, you expect to do it and read your mind. To me it seems pretty self-explanatory, you had the whole drive there to say you want something and if you didn't voice any interest once I would also assume you didn't want anything.
You made a lot post in such short time period, that says enough about this relationship.
All of this! Pregnancy is fucking tough man.
If u don't want to do it dont and especially not to keep a man.
It will always seem like OP forced her into giving him a kid. And that just is gross.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate sharing that perspective as it answers a lot of questions. I appreciate you!
The porn is not the problem. This relationship is unhealthy.
I would never do that! I promised him that when we met, and where would that get me? He’d be pissed and I’d loose him anyway! I would never hurt him!
All of the perks none of the work sounds great, for him.
You are absolutely correct here and you need to stick to your guns. I get why she perhaps thinks it might be easier in some way, like logistically, but in every other arena, it is appalling.
You cannot force a parental role – you haven’t been trying to, clearly, you know this already – but this? This will do that. It will take it out of your hands and it will make that child who is old enough to sign his damn name because that’s how long he has had it… it will make him resent you both later.
You are doing the right thing.
Ok so unless you want to uproot your entire life and live! like a neolithic hunter gatherer in a modern house, you might want to think hard about your choice here.
What would your life look like in 2 years? 10? Will you be going to higher education? Join the trades? Sit in a dark cave all day surrounded by mud and bones? Its up to you and how you want your life to go, but take the time to think nude about what route this one will throw you down, and what route you want to take in life. Really visualize what life you want before making big choices like this.
Did you think that he would be in a group chat like that?
Ugh, landlords like that make everything harder. So you have to move… in that case, I’d say your idea of looking for an apartment in a better area might be better than trying to buy right now. Apartment hunting is easier than house-hunting, right? ? Jk, because none of it is easy. But if you do decide that her taking time off is the way to go, be sure that you’re open and honest about how you feel about her not working and how much she contributes to the household in other ways. During my mental health crisis my husband made it clear he didn’t care if I cleaned the house or cooked or shit like that, he just wanted me to rest and do whatever I wanted to do. Once I started feeling better we had a different convo about household responsibilities because neither of us wanted resentment to grow because we felt one of us wasn’t doing something we should be doing. Good communication is the only way a healthy, happy relationship stays a healthy and happy relationship.
I hope you find a way to work it out.
Yep, he’s definitely going to ruin his life for this immature girl.
OP should get the jump on her and suggest it.
She's after your husband. He sounds like a good guy shutting her down like that.
Her intrusive behavior is completely unprofessional.
I feel like you're describing BPD
We just fell asleep after watching a movie ?
This honestly feels like a lifetime original series
Because when I said “i need to make more” i meant for the amount I contribute, not in an absolute sense saying I don’t make alot of money. Her comment reveals that she thinks i don’t make alot period.
She only told you after you kept asking. Would she have said anything if you hadn't? And even now, do you honestly think you can ever trust her again? Break it off.
Agreed. But I like tattoo people personality even less than I like how the tattoos look.
You can do one of two things. Either you can get more tattoos because its your body and fuck what others think when it comes to what you put on it, which unfortunately comes with the downside of the currrent stick in the mud poo pooing on things because he doesnt like them. Or You can worry about what he thinks and not get them done because he wont like them. (Which having delt with an ex who didnt like certain things i regreted not getting them done sooner)
Combo of Peonies Lillies and or hydrangea. Your welcome
That's super controlling. This guy 31 or 13? I say go visit your folks and tell him you're done.
His family his choice. Instead of badgering him to change his mind, try to be understanding and accepting of who he is and what he wants.
Thank you, the advice is much appreciated. I was thinking about reaching out to be friends after a few months, in the event I break it off. I don’t want to add to her negative feelings and whatnot, but I like your analogy about shopping. It put it into perspective for me
Thank you kind stranger ?
In the middle of the argument, he looked me dead in the face and said “I fucked her multiple times that weekend”. Unprovoked. I think he said it to shut me up.
I'm not sure why you think you deserve this sort of treatment, but you don't. People that actually love and respect you don't generally make immensely hurtful comments, especially unprovoked.
I started to respond to more stuff in your post but then I read the whole thing and don't really see the point. Your BF is a piece of shit and he doesn't respect you. He says these things about you needing to “improve” at sex and about him fucking other people to make you feel insecure.
I know that you said that you don't feel insecure, but the fact that you're hung up on the level of experience of you, your partner, and some random chick he fucked, not to mention the abusive treatment you're tolerating, seems to indicate that you're more insecure than you're willing to admit.
Experience with sex doesn't necessarily make you good at it and you've spent a lot of this post talking about you desperately trying to please your BF sexually and you've used exactly zero words to describe how satisfied you are with your sex life. You're allowed to have limits, be inexperienced, or uncomfortable with something and if you having reasonable boundaries or needing time to adjust to something “turns off” your BF then that is truly his problem and not yours.
My question for you is this: what sort of advice are you looking for here? What would be the ideal, but realistic, outcome that would make you happy in this situation? Because I'll tell you right now, there is no magic bullet, hypnotic spell, or string of powerful words that you can invoke to make your BF not act like a piece of shit, he does it because he likes it, because he gets off on it, and because he thinks that you're too much of a coward to walk away from what is obviously a toxic relationship. Please, prove him wrong.
Well, you two have a history of casual chit chat.
Relax a little, nothing to get worked up about.
If she is going to reach out to you, she'll reach out to you. If and when that happens, you should be excited to hear from her, not upset because it wasn't sooner.