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I think that’s what it was too and curiosity as I’ve been his only ever gf which sucks still for me
Save yourself, not this dumpster fire of a relationship.
“I hate you, have a child me with me” is the most toxic thing I’ve heard in a while.
All you can do is continue to reassure and try to find the culprit. Something like this is someone trying to sabotage or put you in a compromised position. Outside of your relationship, it’s equally important for you to find this out for your own wellbeing.
wdym she said he asked if she enjoyed herself and did she have sex in the first place. Does that not mean he's interested in her sexual happiness?
Run.
Yes. And those who say no are getting into some really nasty (and often subconscious) heterocentric bigotry where ONLY heterosexual partnerships and sex are valid.
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He does see the mess. He just doesn't see it as a “problem” that he needs to do anything about it. And if it is a “problem”, it's only a problem for you, and therefore not his concern to deal with or address.
He knows how you feel about it. He's spent years listening to you tell him. But that doesn't change anything for him. He would still rather not do anything to change and let it continue to be your problem. After so many years of having the same conversation, he's probably bored of it, and thus is changing the narrative. But he doesn't want to change, he wants you to change. He is coming up with new ways to circumvent you trying to change him. He is not actually ever going to address the core issue, which is him.
Girl, if he wanted to, he would. At this point, you need to leave him. Call it a separation if you want, but find a place to live for a few weeks, a month, a few months. Tell him that unless you see real, sustained effort on his part to acknowledge that what he is doing is wrong, and to take genuine steps towards fixing it, you will not be coming back. And then you need to stick to it.
One of two things will happen. You will scare him straight, and he will realize that unless he actually does change, you will leave forever. Or, you will be able to move on with your life and discover the freedom that lies in not being tied to someone who is committed to not being a partner to you.
Getting married and having kids doesn’t fix anything it makes it worse if you don’t see yourself marrying her that’s ok you should be having fun now you’re still young.
I don’t believe that a pet is solely one persons responsibility when you live together (ownership yes can be one person).
My dog is my dog, I bought him as a pup raised him etc, my husband still has responsibilities to feed/ walk/ play with him when I’m not around or just pre-occupied.
Your wife took on these responsibilities knowing that you wouldn’t be around to help, yes help when you are there but not your job ultimately.
I’d have a hard chat about how she wanted this responsibility and anything that pisses her off about this puppy is ultimately HER fault. This puppy doesn’t know how to act and it is her job to teach it. She needs to learn to be a better master in order for this dog to be a better dog.
The above paragraph is typed by a person that has developed from a shit puppy master to a good dog master (only person on the street that doesn’t scream at my dog) and he is a pretty damn good boy.
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It doesn't matter if he has more self-esteem issues if you break up with him. That's him having a victim mentality and needing to lay the responsibility somewhere else.
You've tried to communicate and teach him what he does is wrong, but he basically spat it back out at you. He wants some of your food, but won't share his.
You deserve so much better than this greedy gluttonous man-child. That may be harsh, but that's definitely what's being portrayed from you nicely telling everyone about the situation. There are MANY nice and kind men in the world. Don't settle for this one.
Yes my mother’s husband was my father. It isn’t callousness towards him, but rather an acknowledgment that her affair didn’t mean that she is an entirely different person than the one I knew before. I questioned if my entire life was a lie at that point in time! It wasn’t. I was also much younger than OP was at discovery, so I was going ballistic and destroying everyone else and myself in the process. The affair partner was also very involved in our lives. I don’t think OP needs to forgive the mom at all tbh, but maybe for some people that feels better. It’s never really made a difference for me. I never forgave and I still sleep peacefully. But, taking this type of situation far too personally was not healthy for me, and I would give a lot to go back and change how I dealt with it.
I think whenever you’re having an argument with your partner now and into the future you should work on the position you’re arguing from. Is your goal to win an argument or come to a resolution that’s beneficial to both parties. You’re a team and need to act like it, you need to work on you’re communication and your husband needs therapy. Couples counseling as well
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IMO you did the right thing, not by ghosting. Instead of ghosting her you could have just said something very simple like “Right now is not the right time for me to be dating, nothing to do with you, best of luck” easy as that.
But what I mean when I say you did the right thing is that lets say you kept talking to her, entered a new relationship knowing you wanted to experiment with your sexuality etc… You most likely would have quickly realized that while in this relationship and either stuck it out not being satisfied or broken up and experimented anyways.
If she is single, there is nothing wrong with sending her a text apologizing for ghosting her and see if you start talking again, just don't expect anything to come of it, very plausible she wont even reply to your apology.
you absolutely do not have a say how her mother spends her money
How was he feeling at this point?
He’s never going to want it. He told you he doesn’t want it. This is obviously not going to work out.
Given what you're working on, a new romantic relationship should be the very last thing on the table. Get yourself level first.
Are you still in highschool? There are plenty of reasons you'd talk with an ex, even after you've found yourself a partner.
He mentioned he was friends with his ex, she accepted that. She could have left then if she wasn't comfortable. But her boundary regarding the ex not knowing about her is just bizarre.
You’re making the assumption that he’s “feeling the recovery of the divorce” as if you know that’s what’s happening here.
The only thing that can be stated as fact here is that she mentioned her wants and expectations of seeking marriage in the future and he stated his of wanting a prenup for a marriage.
So the double standard here is you’ve deliberately only wrote him off in a negative light while she hasn’t when they are broaching the same topic that she initiated otherwise there would be no need for your initial statement or saying it’s “a sign to watch”
Shoulda responded that her pussy was easily top two as well! Give her a warm smile and a rub on the arm while you guys bond over it.
Seriously tho that’s such a fucked up thing to say. I feel like it’s a pretty general consensus that unless you’re placing them in the top spot, there’s no point in ranking people to their faces. She wants to have a list fine by me, but to say it to you is for no reason, she’s not trying to boost your ego or ask you to improve, she’s just being cruel.
I feel so horrible for your husband. He needed help, he was a victim. He needed his wife, the one person who should always be by his side. And instead, you divorced him, and allowed a brother who would be triggered by events to be there. He was assaulted, he lost his family, and he lost his wife. My heart breaks for him.
What do you mean “coming to terms with the divorce”? You fucking divorced him. You refused to hear him out. What is there to come to terms with? The fact that you wouldn't hear him out? Please, if you ever cared for him… even the tiniest bit… do not attempt to rekindle with him. He may be desperate and go for it, but he needs to heal. He needs to find someone who will genuinely back him, love him, and trust him. You've done a lifetime of damage to him.
They don’t respect anything I say. They see me as a child.
How is this happening 4 times? Even if you talk about your best friend, why are you bringing up their gender? “My b we st friend gives the best massages, he somehow manages to work My back and my butt at the same time, it's like He has 3 hands” yeah that's a red flag
Ahh and do you think you would have been ready at that time to say it if he did just roll with it? So It all turned out fine in the end then! I wish she didn’t hear as well and I would have probably done something similar ?
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A bit of background on this, I met my wife nine years ago before she knew she was transgender and we've been happily married for five of those years. She enlisted in the Army a few years before realizing that she is transgender and our marriage has been incredibly strong through BCT, deployments, ect during that time. She has since medically retired, and has a great career and is doing well financially.
We bought a house together in her hometown that she loves. She began her transition MtF almost three years ago and it was difficult for me at first, because I am completely straight, but I decided that because I love her, I would give it a try, and I also wanted to be supportive. However, despite my best efforts I am not attracted to her in a sexual way anymore, and I feel incredible guilt over this because otherwise, we are living our dream lives together.
I recently enlisted in the Army myself, as it always was an aspiration of mine, and at 28 years old, the opportunity was still available. Being around men my age, with whom I have things in common, has forced me to confront what is missing from my marriage. I would never cheat on my wife, because I love her too much, but years into her transition I find I've accidentally developed a crush for one of the men I work with. He doesn't know and I've already told my wife.
I feel shame and guilt over this because our marriage was able to thrive during her time in service, but whenever I leave for training, the distance between us grows wider. I feel shallow for needing sex and romance, in spite of my charmed life with my wife. I've recently started to feel very lonely, because our relationship has lacked a sexual or romantic aspect for such a long time, and I don't think our marriage can keep going like this.
My wife is my best friend in the whole world and we've built an amazing life together from nothing. We saved each other from homelessness when we first met and I know I wouldn't be half the person I am right now if not for her. I owe her so much and she means everything to me. Yet, I need romantic love, and the only way for that to happen is to give up everything we've built together for so many years. I also fear for her if we do get divorced, because she has depression that she is not addressing well after her time in the Army. I do plan to address these issues in therapy.
I desperately need some advice.
Yeah, the more I see the more I get that vibe.
Yea. After 10 years of him never picking you. You’re self centered. Simple.
And you’re protesting too much. Now I know I’m right.
Tell the wife and go no contact.
My oldest is stuck to my hip, and keeping their distance from my wife.
“What're you gonna do? Stab me?” -said the man who got stabbed.
It's not OP's fault that cops are useless. He needs to do what's best for him.
Sounds like the trash is taking itself out. I know it hurts since it's your dad. He sounds like a jerk.
Firstly, some money is better than no money. Take the job. Secondly, the audacity of your wife to demand you get a specific job or salary while she sits on her ass, contributing nothing, acting like a financial sponge and continuing to spend money you don’t have is astounding. You don’t need a therapist, you need a divorce lawyer. Watch how quickly she gets one of those “abusive” jobs when she is forced to support herself.
>I’m not the best Muslim but I do try.
Man, I wish I could pick and choose my morality throughout the day as it inconvenienced me. Why are you hung up on his homosexuality and not all the other shit you do that makes you “not the best Muslim”?
Don't get me wrong, religion is retarded as a whole, but you pickers and choosers always tickle me.
Men nearing 40 do not date women in their very early 20's because they think you'll make a super great, equal life partner. He's dating you because you're young, naive, and easy to manipulate and control.
Take no responsibility, add to the reasons of being a bad mother
It's not just not wanting sex. Is swapping your loved one for a monster dildo, refusing to acknowledge why he is hurt, telling him to just jerk off and drilling herself without as much as a concern while her husbands is working downstairs.
It is all kind of fucked up, this is literally giving up on intimacy with your husband. How is this not a reason to divorce?
⬆️⬆️ i agree. He doesn’t love you anymore.. he’s not the right guy for you, move on.
Oh my god
Get out, he sounds like a dirtbag.
I’m a poly guy. Sis, this is not the way ☹️. OP has expectations of monogamy. He’s also been outside of the secret the entirety of the relationship. Giving advice like this makes life for poly folks more difficult, and the perception that relationships and people don’t matter.