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i would move on, because she would have no problem sucking a very hot guys dick anywhere. Like it or not its a offering. Just like a man will go down on a woman who he thinks its very hot.
Thank you for your kind advice and being able to share your story too.
She may not see it as her responsibility to take care of her non biological child even if you're funding all 3 kids. Maybe she doesn't feel entitled to spend her money the way you do. That's generally okay and you're well to do so maybe it doesn't occur to her easily.
I just think it was irresponsible of her not to consider the feelings of your daughter. They may be in each others company for many years. It's ostracising to not include her. Even if you created a fund for your daughter to create some equity between her and her siblings. She will definitely feel the distance.
So, he is staying 2 days longer with his family and1 day less with you? Is that right? And youll be with his family for 2 days?
How far is the flight?
It is, but the question you’re asking isn’t one we can really answer..
Block her and report it
This might not seem bad, but “counseling” within strict religions isn’t actually counseling. It’s generally done by a pastor or other member of the clergy, who usually have absolutely no qualifications to counsel anyone, and is almost always religion/guilt based and has nothing to do with actually helping him through anything he’s struggling with. It’s to basically put you back on whatever your religion believes is the “right path” and has nothing whatsoever to do with actual emotional or mental health.
sounds like your biggest reason for being in the relationship is that it’s very hot to breakup. that’s not how you build something
I feel like you have not read the post, I have no feelings for her.
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I appreciate it, I bake him things. Appreciate and am very thankful for all he does. I just yeah, i always feel like I’m carrying the conversation and I’m not really truly happy anymore.
I want someone who hugs me when we argue, who’s got more maturity tbh.
Right?!
I mean. He'll probably co-parent just fine!…If by co-parent you mean handing the kid over to his mom and sitting back while she takes care of both of them.
Where did I EVER say this was an affair attempt? ? he asked if it's weird and if his wife is right. Yeah. She is. It's weird. Especially since she's never met the person.
Try and record any future meetings with him, see if he says that shit again ?
Yo, I am a lot like you. I have an eidetic memory and am on the spectrum, so my emotional intelligence can be iffy but I can definitely tell you trivia.
I have learned to shut up, listen, and let go. When people are wrong about something, chances are, it doesn’t actually harm anything (barring things like COVID). WELL ACTUALLYing is really just going to get on people’s nerves.
Listening is an acquired skill and one you need to practice. It doesn’t mean staying silent- it means showing you’re engaged by asking follow up questions, giving body language feedback, etc.
Listening means trusting other people. You have gotta get out of that zone where you only trust yourself. People mean well.
I do try to communicate it to her but to no avail like if there's a problem about us she'll likely to ignore it than to address it. Like we will communicate our problem but she cant have a conclusion or she cant help me solve our problem and that's where it leads me to asking a colleague about it.
This is my first time posting something like this on reddit so I'll for sure ask the strangers on reddit next time than any another woman IRL for sure.
You have no kids with this cheating woman. Dump and never look back. Take take your ring back and buy a boat.
With all due respect, you are misreading a few things, in my humble opinion.
First of all, I understand that I shouldn't have assumed anything about exclusivity, but this is frankly not a problem. If he found other partner(s), that is really good. I am leaving the country soon anyway.
Also, for your second paragraph, I never expressed confusion as to why she would have lost interest. But it's not really a “of course”, as you present it. It's natural, but not a given.
I wouldn't say she definitely showed she had no interest. I got the feeling, but I don't see a problem with testing the waters with a single message like whether we should watch a movie. So it's not true that I “knew”. You're making it out like I assaulted her, or something like this. She didn't communicate anything clearly, as I see it. It was an innocent message that was intended to clear up the situation and have it perfectly clear for us both how to proceed.
With regards to the last paragraph, it is not true she does not want to stay in touch with someone she used to fuck. Once again, you are jumping to conclusions. As I wrote in the end, she is very different in person and clearly wants to make plans. She also prolongs the hangout as much as possible every time we have hung out.
Anyway, I think you're being pretty harsh, and not very nuanced in your criticism. Thanks for your post, but with all respect I don't agree with you in a lot of the things you write. I understand it's very hot because I may not have described our relationship properly, and for that reason you may think it was just about fucking.
Nope. Your person should be with all of you, not you minus 20lb. You really want to worry if cake will cost you your relationship? Choose cake, not assholes.
Four months is currently the plan. I have some commitments for work that I don’t have a choice but to stay for the time being.
I’ve tried leaving him numerous times. He always manages to get in my brain, make me feel like it’s all my fault, and I just give up and stay. Other times, he has physically blocked me from leaving, usually a combination of both.
I push way over my limits and hurt myself in the end. Friends of mine who were also sick threw a parties and I didn’t listen to my body. Ignored my needs, didn’t drink during exam time and flew to another city. Bad I know. So I ended up collapsing in our kitchen
He offered me to take me to the doctor or to drive me to class by himself. I declined. It’s very hot for me accepting help from other people
Let it fade, you don’t need people like that as friends. It sucks but if she is only adding stress or disappointment then why fight for it?
Mary is actually jealous of her sister. Your wife can have a relationship with you based not just on looks but personality. Your wife is more than just skin deep like her sister and Mary can’t stand it. That’s why she flirts with all of her men including you.
The first thing is you tell her parents that you will not be at any family function that Mary will be and most importantly, why. Mary was actively trying to ruin her sisters marriage and then lied about you. That’s not being “family” that’s just evil. Her parents will probably side against you until you have children and they will miss out on seeing their grandchildren. I think you’ll find that any extended family will side with you, there’s no doubt she’s made a play for their husbands too.
This person is just taking everything as a personal attack at this point. I am also autistic and I think they are delusional in their viewing of the situation.
So she’s taking you for as much money as possible.
She’s a gold digger of sorts.
So end it. Tell her that her financial problems are not your problem, and her response to your perfectly normal, and reasonable request that she occasionally picks up the tab when you go out has shown you that she sees you as an ATM, and that this ATM has closed and will no longer be accepting her card.
So, you make more but want to pay less/even so she has to spend her inheritance and/or cut her living expenses more?
What happened to the good ol' split proportional to income?
You do realize that you have zero business counting someone's inheritance even if you were married?
I mean, it looks like you want her to spend her inheritance on you after all.
Wow your bf is trash.
A lot of the time when we leave an abusive relationship we fall into another kind of abusive relationship.
Your boyfriend is emotionally abusive. Get rid of him and spend some time with yourself.
You need to talk to your fiance not your father ffs, keep his business and opinions out of your relationship. Maybe if you actually communicated with your partner like an adult you wouldn't feel so disconnected from her.
As a different perspective I have a cautionary word of advice
I was with a man for over 6 months that I was convinced wasn't coming. There were no signs, he wasn't super vocal or anything. I honestly had no idea. Apparently he came in me everytime. I was livid when I found out. Yes I was on BC but still absolutely unacceptable. I only found out because I asked him why he never came and he told me he always did inside me. Never saw him again after that. 5 years later and im still mad about it.
Not that much, though. She fucked up big time somewhere. Whether it was choice in degree or choice in institution.
“I miss my old girlfriend who did so much for me.” Well she misses her old boyfriend who brought more of a stable income.
She shouldn’t have to ask you to help out more. You should already be doing more because that’s what sharing a home is about. If it’s 50/50 finances, than it’s 50/50 household. Or better yet, you as a good boyfriend knowing she has serious health issues that are impacting her wellbeing and her finances should be taking on more just to take some of the weight off her shoulders. Why a 24 year old needs to hear that from reddit is beyond me.
This is not your fault. You did everything right. You asked if he was married, he lied to you in your face. You don't really need to know anything about he or them other than he's a manipulative person and a cheater, and yes, most probably a serial cheater.
Unfortunately some people are not good. When you date, you'll find good people but also the people who aren't. Just keep your eyes open next time, don't ignore red flags, but also, don't beat yourself over this experience. You're young, you're learning how to navigate the dating scene. But if something smells, most probably it is very rotten.
There have already been over 200 murders of women and their families and partners directly traceable to rejecting someone this year in the US (a reminder that this is only in the first 2.5 months of the year)
I think it’s safer to not directly reject people and avoid confrontation
You're 33 mate, leave the boring old hag for someone that will enjoy life with you. You only get it once
I'd suggest sitting down and actually computing what your shared expenses look like. Aside from what you already pay for (utilities, groceries, vacations, etc.), also factor in rent for a similar apartment in the area. When you have all your expenses listed out, figure out an equitable split that you are both comfortable with that takes into account the difference in your salaries and the fact that she has a kid. Then you'll have an amount you should both be contributing to your shared finances. Obviously, the rent is paid for 100% by her, so she should be contributing to the other expenses anything above that. I also think this would put an actual price tag to your contributions, and also help get rin of her unrealistic notions (and I'm taking your word for it) of each of your financial contributions. It's also a good place to start bigger conversations about financial life goals and how to get there.
As a side note though, I think an honest conversation about financial values and philosophies need to be had. Beyond your main problem, there seems to be bigger issues regarding financial incompatibility here. You guys have to get on the same page here because financial disagreements is one of the biggest marriage enders.
Invite them in for an orgy. Smother them in scrambled eggs and have some fun.
I know you've gotten a lot of comments but I want to weigh in here as someone who is a bit older than you.
Your girlfriend doesn't live with you, so she's a guest in your home. Do you ask all guests to provide money for expenses? Are you just expecting her to pay because she pays no rent? Do you remember being 23 in college at all? Did you work part-time in college and see that money drift away like nothing?
Also, on the flip side, she might be paying no rent at home, but her part-time job might be paying for her school expenses plus maybe phone or other things. You genuinely can't expect a broke student who lives with her father to pay for your expenses like she's living there.
One thing you should definitely do is stop bringing her grocery shopping. The other thing you need to do is consider dating women with jobs from now on. However, before you do that, consider that someone you've been seeing for three months that lives elsewhere even with a job will likely tell you she won't help with your living expenses since she doesn't live! with you.
I wish you luck because I think you're going to need it, OP.
Is she moving his stuff? Is she providing first & lady month’s rent? What about increased utilities? Why should his rent increase at when he gets a roommate? Would you pay more to have a roommate?
Same gf that cheated on you on hinge a year ago..?
Haha! She sounds awful! You like this kind of stuff? What a psycho she sounds like, as if she's a child.
Secure your accounts. Derek Lambert, Mythvision on YouTube, struggled with addiction. He was able to get through it, finally, after years. His wife stayed with him and now he's clean and sober and has a great internet community of serious academics.
You're not stupid for staying. Best to you.