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Date: October 30, 2022
Are you the girlfriend…Lol
I’ve messed up so much, everyone here things I’m a fuck up and idiot I’m not tho. I wish I could show up on time and be a valuable person
I ask only because im so broken up, the car wreck totaled my life. She probably doesn't want a cripple…
Eh….remember the part where this is a “crush”?
Enjoy that little burst of emotion for what it really is and move on.
Nothing to see here…….
Blue balls? What? No, he is fine. If he needs to he can take care of himself later. He sounds like a respectful dude — he knows you're not ready and he's not starting anything he can't handle. Speaking as someone raising a toddler, if my husband was gonna collapse in agony and suffering every time our sex gets interrupted I'd be a widow.
I was in a similar situation. Never dated, Christian background, had recently decided I didn't need to practice abstinence. My then-boyfriend-now-husband had dated several people before and had had plenty of sex. (Well, plenty compared to zero.)
I was open about the fact I wasn't ready, but was also upfront that I wasn't planning to wait until marriage either. He was perfectly fine with it. Every new “boundary,” he asked about. If I wasn't ready for something, he waited until I let him know. Took me 2 or 3 months to feel ready for sex, I think.
Just keep an open stream of communication. Talk about sex. There's plenty of things you can slowly introduce to build intimancy without jumping straight to full on sex. Talk about your anxieties and residual guilt. Get your contraception plans sorted. Take your journey day by day.
Personally for me I would like my bf to tell me bc if I glance at his phone by accident or see it I wouldn’t want to be caught off guard or surprised. Plus we tell each other everything
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I agree he shouldn't be forced to choose but he's a bit of a shitty son if it gets to the point where the mum makes an ultimatum, as a kid it's fine but as an adult you'd expect the son the go Low Contact/No Contact with the cheater.
He even called himself a “nice guy” ?
Your relationship is dead. Act accordingly.
“A break” pretty much never works.
You are both 21, you're only 9 months into this. Dating is supposed to be about figuring out who you're compatible with. If you are having this much trouble resolving conflict this early on, it will likely never get better. Do you want to live with this level of struggle for presumably the rest of your life?
Fine. Use a condom you puss but remember to squeeze out the condom jizz on her face afterwards like a man.
Unfortunately I met him over a year ago.
This doesn't scream black-and-white cheating but something is definitely up and my gut says it's very possible, without any other context, just by the language alone.
1) Deleted/unsent texts from him… on TWO occasions during the convo, which seems very intentional and less likely to be accidental. 2) Him placing “too much” importance on her schedule changing. If it were just a friend or acquaintance they would likely say something like “that sucks” or “bummer” and move on. 3) He references a conversation and not a bad joke. 4) The way she responds to that, her formal/firm wording and insistence on denying it was the conversation. 5) The way she continues “I didn't want you to think anything was up,” usually something is up within the context of awkward situations. 5) “I felt any type of way”… again, seems relationshipy/emotional and not something friends or acquaintances would typically say.
Again, none of this is naked evidence but without knowing anything else it seems kind of damning. You know him (and possibly her) better than anyone else here and are in the best position to assess… your gut is clearly telling you something. Good luck.
Part of that may be in your control to advocate for yourself with your employer. I am aware that medical residents are abused to hell and back for time, but you are finding yourself as a sudden single dad. Asking your employer to scale back to merely a full time job should be reasonable.
I second this. Nightmarenoob sounds like he got burn from it And is bittered.
They also let you know who’s a creep (videos intimacy) and they help do intensive research for you about a dude.
He’s an abuser. This type of language is unacceptable, as is the inappropriate age and power gap. No man in his 30s should want anything to do with a woman in her early 20s; huge red flag and indicator that they want someone to control and manipulate who will be scared to leave them. Reach out to your support system and make plans to leave him.
Exactly. I wouldn't care to me thats not cheating. But everyone is different. Have a talk to her about it and make some boundaries.