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So leave. What do you want from us?
Could this be one of those marriages where you basically buy a girl from the Philippines or Russia etc.where she has no real affection for you but needs to escape desperate poverty?
To be honest, myself and others are generally calling out infatuation to people who illogically think they’re in love when they’re not, not people who are level headed like yourself asking about the difference.
I’m honestly not even here suggesting that you just keep your guard up out of fear (in general), or giving advice based on your age. I assure you that in context I’ll usually give very strong age related advice. In saying that, I’m not saying that you’re incapable of knowing you’re in love because you’re 21. You’re absolutely capable of being about to know it. I just think in your specific situation it doesn’t make sense to push it.
You’ll more likely than not ever have to experience this, but I always say that telling someone you love them is the same as proposing to something; you should only do so knowing what the response to your statement will be. If you think telling him you love him will result in him saying it back, then go ahead and say it. If you’re unsure? Hang back.
Your wife is right. You are wrong. There is no reason for a young woman to call you crying after she fights with her husband. She is looking for male attention, not marital advice. If she just wanted advice she would call her mother, not you. Next time she calls, tell her she needs a woman’s perspective and give the phone to your wife. You will find she doesn’t need advice anymore. Do this a couple of times and she will find someone else’s husband to seek counsel. But you probably won’t do it because you like being a knight in shining armor saving a damsel in distress. But you will lose that good marriage you claim to have so don’t fool yourself. Your wife already knows what’s going on.
You haven't been this attentive because you are love bombing her after you cheated on her…
You dump him and move on.
You shouldn’t have to deal with this sort of bullshit…. And you can’t control people.
This is his choice. He’s CHOOSING fantasy over reality. Walk away.
Cuz every guy I’ve dated has cheated on me. My age group is shit. Everyone cheats on everyone. And he’s really good during the good times. But now it’s been changing fast. Really fast.
Pay him no mind. Keep moving forward.
I have thought long and nude about this, trust me. And while many of the comments such as yours have helped me rationalise and grounded me, I have realised that many comments are overthinking the situation just as I have been. I was writing exams, I didn’t have the capacity to go out and sleep around nor the time to see her, she was having fun. Nothing wrong with that.
A coffee for goodness sake… that’s not a first date. The coffee excursion was a test of the waters. For her and I both. Nothing significant. Nothing out of the world special. That came at a later time when I took her out for dinner, that is the point in which we both decided on each other, and it was something I could feel, something she could feel too, and something we both feel up until this very second. People may say I’m giving myself a confidence speech or hyping myself up, but I am not, when you know you know.
Next time the coffee excursion is brought up, I will explain that it has no significance to me. I have accepted the past, now it is time to forget.
Your comment is appreciated and I will probably delete this post soon. Because that I feel, will be the first step to forgetting.