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Date: October 27, 2022
I'm sorry for the poor kid that got an idiot for a father that's clueless on genetics. So you treated him like crap because he doesn't look like you? You'll get a shock when it comes back he is your son and you'll get the worse father award.
I never said I excuse her behavior. It was absolutely wrong and her husband does have a right to be upset. Mental illness isn’t an excuse for doing someone wrong, only a explanation. Managing mental illnesses means taking responsibility for whatever you/we do, even if it’s hard.
I’ve had to apologize for my behavior during a psychotic manic episode before- even though I was absolutely not in my right mind at the time, I still did wrong and needed to take responsibility. Likewise, OP needs to do the same.
What did upset me is your comment implying that her husband should run just because she’s borderline. (Which she isn’t- I confirmed that much via dms.) Like other commenters have said in this comment section, borderline doesn’t make someone a monster. Many of us regulate ourselves and live successful lives with minimal/no harm to others.
If he's that sexist, there's no way that it doesn't leak out and effect you. He might do it to you in small ways like nitpick the things you wear. Or downplay your intelligence. Or even point out things he hates about other women that also apply to you – like saying that girl looks so dumb and basic, when you're wearing essentially the same outfit. Odds are he doesn't see you as a person or really respect you. He probably makes fun of other women for just existing. Or maybe he even blames some of his misogynist remarks on how an ex scorned him. Regardless of the specifics, I would run if I were you. That's how he is, and there isn't anything you can do to change him, and you shouldn't have to online like that. He needs to be single and go to therapy. You don't want to be with a guy who hates you.
I don't know about that. I was taught all my life that I was worthless, might be beaten for any reason or without one, and that I was completly helpless to change anything about my situation. I spent quite a long time in therapy as an adult, but I can absolutly empathize with her. Not so long ago, I might have reacted the same way. I would've known it was wrong of BIL to complain about his wife and praise me, but I would've been too uncomfortable and low key scared to say anything. Responding just with a thank you was the course of least resistance, and the best way for her to get this situation over with the qickest and with the least likelyhood of backlash from BIL. Freezing up is in line with that behaviour, if you have internalized that you must never instigate conflict or never learned how to handle conflict, it's again the path of least resistence with the least likelyhood of getting hurt. And not wanting to or hesitating to tell on BIL is also in keeping with this behavioural pattern.
OP never said that the husband’s swimmers were slow. Or where exactly the issue was with his sperm or fertility.
I simplified for brevity. The problem in fertility is apparently with the sperm of husband. Most likely candidates here are spermcount and -motility. But it is clear from the story that the sperm that's used is otherwise fine as viable embryos are obtained. If viable embryos are obtained there is no reason to use the brothers sperm in IVF as the chanche of success is likely identical. The whole reason to use a sperm donor for OP would be so IVF isn't necessary anymore. Inseminating with donor sperm outside of IVF is the obvious route. This possible route should be known to OP as they're in a fertility treatment program. Their healthcare provider would have already explained to them their possibilities even before starting IVF with the husbands sperm.
OP said that his excuse was not wanting her to go through more pain and also their finances have taken a hit. Just because he suggested it at this point doesn’t prove that this is a false story.
While it is plausible that a person could make all this up, what if they aren’t. And they’ve been through this horrible experience and they come out and share, reaching out for support and they’re met with a stranger calling them a lair. I’d just move on if it seemed like a lie to me, rather than call anyone that’s been through rape a lair. If she is telling the truth, this is a messed up situation.