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Date: February 13, 2023
C-word is abuse.
Retroactive jealousy is a high indicator of future abuse too.
You two are toxic for each other.
I just want to do the right thing for my kids
I mean you did give consent, it is weird but wierder is you let it happen and now are like wtf happened lol. I mean….make better choices???
So there are two relationships you're needing advice on:
Daughter
Wife
For your daughter, take things gently. Be prepared for things to be awkward. Know that you will mess up. That's okay; don't be afraid to apologize and discuss it. It will take time for her to adjust. Typically, children adjusting will be timid to start and then begin to test boundaries. Try to think about things she might start to push and how to cope. For example: bed time, desserts, brushing teeth, general hygiene (she may need reminders on some of these things; she may not. Every child is different).
You need to figure out what you deem to be a fair punishment for common transgressions. My suggestion is to make sure the punishment fits the crime. This may take some trial and error; know that that's okay.
Figure out what kind of relationship your wife wants with your daughter. Some suggested topics to discuss with your wife: what child related things is your wife willing to do? Is she allowed to punish your child or should she tell you and you handle punishment? Will she be expected to have quality time with her? What lines does she not want crossed (if she has a “hard no” list, such as no animals, her not sleeping in your bed, etc)? What are finances going to look like? What things does your daughter need? How would you both feel if she eventually wanted to call your wife “mom” (do not expect this anytime soon, but having a plan is best)? You're planning children; how does she fit into your plan for the future?
Do not expect your wife to “play mom”. Your daughter needs to heal from the loss of her mother and may reject the idea, which could damage their relationship long term.
Constant communication is important. Have “family meetings” to discuss things. Don't be afraid to ask your daughters opinion on how she's feeling (if she's comfortable and what things you could do to help make her more comfortable). Keep things light and up beat. The same thing goes for your wife. Discuss everything. Touch base with her at the “meeting” and privately. Talk. And when you get done talking, talk some more.
Therapy might be good to look into. You'll need a referral from PCP, so that's your first step…
Don't be afraid to shop around for PCP/GP and specialists for your child. It's expected from providers that you take your child's healthcare into your own hands (I only learned this working in peds.) Ask questions, do research. Reach out to your insurance. Push.
I cannot stress this enough: you will mess up. That's okay. Keep your head up and keep trying.
I mentioned the divorce of her parents to explain his words “I feel the need to see who she became now that months have passed and major things happened in her life”. Basically he said that he need to know what he’s letting go of. English’s not my first language so I probably worded it wrong.
I just want to give an update and say I finally broke it off with him