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Model from: ru
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1990-10-17
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorGreen
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: October 31, 2022
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Nah I’d guess closer to college aged for sure. 18-28 is my guess
Honestly I hope you’re able to give him the same support he game you when you needed it. Put all your efforts into supporting him and being there for him. Ask for forgiveness but also work towards it. And if he does take you back, he the best wife he could’ve ever asked for. The same way he was the best husband to you when you needed it.
3 years is a lot of support……. I love my husband and he loves me but even then I don’t think my husband would be this patient and compassionate for three whole years.
Now I don’t know what you’ve been through, but I can tell you that I’ve been through two rapes, multiple SA and I recently lost my brother which was also my best friend and was only a year younger than me. With all that pain and suffering I still try my best to do everything I can to make the people around me happy. I cook and clean and on days where I just want to lay in bed and stay, I do that. However when I feel I am able to provide for the house ( cook clean, bake do the laundry ) I always do. I make it my priority. I don’t go out when I’m feeling better especially if I haven’t done things around the house. I also haven’t worked for a few months now due to my brothers recent passing. I’ve developed ptsd ocd anxiety depression the list goes on and on and since I haven’t been able to work, I make it my duty to do everything I can around the house.
Now your husband is a total gem for cleaning cooking AND working supporting the household. You really can’t let that slip away, put in effort no matter what it takes. Whatever you’ve been through might’ve been tough and draining however you can’t take it out on the people around you. And you can’t use it as an excuse to do absolutely nothing.
I’ve recently also got surgery and I’m pregnant and I think this is the first time I haven’t cleaned in a few weeks or washed dishes. My husband is on deployment and he said he will take care of everything once he’s back. It’s okay to be taken care of, for a few days, a week, a month, even a few months. But doing absolutely nothing for three years? You have a whole Angel by your side. No man would deliberately go through that. Your husband isn’t a normal husband. He’s a one in a lifetime type of guy so please do whatever you can to take care of him and be there for him. Show him you love him you prioritize him and that you will do everything in your power from now on to be the best wife he could have. And if after a long time of you putting in effort, if he’s still done. Then I guess respect his choice. Good luck
Also the fact that she told OP to her face that her boyfriend is nude & even to the BOYFRIEND!! Nah. Cut off. Bye. Idgaf however long we’ve been friends!
haha i think you used a bad example. post different ones lol
Just sounds like you hurt the husband's ego and pride as a “man”.
That's really what this boils down to.
A lot of comments here about car insurance and the size of the gift. But what it comes down to is that the husband feels upstaged (according to OP). That's the husband's problem to deal with; lots of toxic masculinity brewing here.
Giving gifts is not a contest. It's about Camilla, not about her husband and not about OP or anyone else. If she's happy with the gift, then there's nothing wrong.
Before pulling the plug completely, you could try to make a standing sex date to get back on track. Pick a night, throw a pizza in the oven. No excuses. Hopefully after a few weeks, you’ll feel more connected and wanting to bring more fun/intimacy/spontaneity into the bedroom.
Thank you. That's what I mean, the effort…It is possible to put effort into this, but there is zero effort in stating, “I don't know. Do it for me, please.” That's not asking for help, that's asking me to do the task.
You refused her the experience of a nice meal *with* her partner, celebrating her achievements, which she was more than in a position to contribute to, through nothing but misplaced pride.
You seem to think that her sitting there eating while you ate nothing would be the same experience as you both eating and celebrating. It isn't. It's embarrassing and awkward. You prevented her from having a good experience through pride.
It really isn't the flex you think it is.
Ngl this kind of reads like a fanfic or something, I would say to try and talk to her first
Eh. I was a nanny for a year (3-8pm, Mon-Fri. So not live-in but def not a casual baby sitter like in the OP, also not through an agency). I mostly interacted with the dad and we had a friendly working relationship. He knew basic details about my life and we would always have a chat about weekend activities, sport, family etc. He did tell me about their marriage problems but even that was 100% work related. Any communication outside of work was work related. So, if I think about our relationship person to person, I'd say “acquaintance” is probably an appropriate characterisation. No different to how I interact with my colleagues now in a standard job.
I can see from a parent's perspective why they might want more because a “friend” is generally more trustworthy than an “acquaintance” and trust is the most important thing when you are leaving your kids with someone in a private setting.
But to present an alternative perspective from the view of a carer: I am here to do a good job. It's different to most other jobs but it is a job nonetheless- I was “the nanny” not a mate. The requirements are passing a police and WWC check, meeting parent requirements/schedule, and being responsible, trustworthy, patient, kind/loving, and fun. It is obvs my strong preference to be friendly with the parents but that is in the context of my single responsibility being the children. It was a lot easier to do this, from my experience at least, by maintaining a very, very small degree of distance especially cos the kids were a handful.
I'm not saying this to be any sort of way, just providing a different perspective. To my ears OP seems defensive, it sounds cold in the context of a car crash, but it's in the context of OP suspecting cheating. Idk, I'm just glad the babysitter is OK.
Soz this comment ended up being way too long omg.
You have to work with her over this, and the easiest way to do that is by talking to her. Be honest and talk about your own needs, and trust her to do what's right. Trying to manage her emotions by selectively managing her access to the truth is folly. Short term tactics that lead to a failing long term strategy. You have to be true to yourself too. You're speaking from a place of concern for her well-being and she'll respect that.
She's trusted you enough with this deeply important personal experience, you should return that trust by being honest with her now
He almost certainly likes you.
If you like him just ask him to get a drink with you or something. Even if you're wrong, no big deal, he will probably be flattered.
honestly this post does not give a lot of information and she’s too early in the relationship for him to atart testing the waters with abusive tendencies, if he were to do that thing. im absolutely going to go with the opinion of the trustworthy experienced adult in this scenario, which is her mom. if mom is catching creepi vibes from this dude, i’m going with her gut bc i dont know him.
LMAO i agree completely
Probably not, if this grown ass man is willing to fuck over another guy's girlfriend (now turning into wife) empathy and rationally is not on the table, God, I can't wait to read an update on how his life crashed and burned in a few months! Fingers crossed guys!! ???
Doormat lol
My joke was that she doesn’t think I’m as funny as the other girl… her joke was that if I’m so unhappy with her that I should just go and fuck my friend
He seems to see you, and I expect others, as his servants. He has been handing off his garbage all of his life and seems resistant to change. You need to think back and realize that there are probably dozens of things he does or does not do based on what he chooses to do, rather than what he should be doing for himself. He seems to be acting like a large child rather than an adult. When he encounters a task that needs to be done, does he do it or pass it off, or just simply ignore it? When a mature person sees an issue, they then address it as need be.
If he acts childlike with his garbage, where he gets irritated on being called on it, there are likely other childlike traits as well. And realize that every time you bring up something, he is likely to respond in the same fashion. He doesn't like being admonished by someone that should just do as they are told.
This is sexual assault. Consensual sex requires informed consent. You consented to having sex with a condom without holes poked in it. He tried to secretly have sex with you with a condom that he poked holes in. That is not consensual sex. Your husband tried to have non-consensual sex with you. Do we know another word for non-consensual sex?
If that had happened to a friend of yours, what advice would you give them?
I agree with this too. I would be very turned off if my SO refused to talk with me about what's bothering them.
Maybe she doesn't feel like she's good enough for you if you don't trust her to open up. She's not just a regular person, she's your partner. You're not going to go too far in your relationship if you don't know how to communicate what's bothering you, because yes it is that important.
I've personally never met a woman who was turned off by their bf crying. We all agree how healthy it is and honestly super attractive that our male counterparts open themselves up to us, obviously I haven't met all the women in the world or your gf but yeah don't listen to what guys say about not crying in front of women.
*Though. Not thinks
She take my money when I'm in need Yeah, she's a triflin' friend indeed Oh, she's a gold digger way over town That digs on me (uh) Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger But she ain't messin' with no broke nias Now I ain't sayin' she a gold digger But she ain't messin' with no broke nias Get down girl, go'n 'head get down Get down girl, go'n 'head get down Get down girl, go'n 'head get down Get down girl, go'n 'head
Talk to her!!! 99% of the relationship questions on this sub can be cleared up with a conversation!
Because there is an opportunity already so i grabbed it
Anecdotal emotional narrative to detract from actual suffering be like
What? No, he's probably not “saving it for someone else”. Maybe he masturbated previous, but now wants to wait for the real thing? Who knows. But this isn't weird at all.