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Date: February 16, 2023
xX_bxby_Xx, 18 y.o.
Location: Daddy, ‘s House
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I think the best thing to do at this point is to initiate seeing a couples counsellor together. They can help both of you process this and help you rebuild trust. I truly think this is the best choice.
I always wonder if partners who are opposed to the other partner watching pornography or reading romance novels (those Danielle steels are spicy) if they have an issue with the material or if they have issues with the fact that the other partner is masturbating. And itβs more an issue of control rather then the partner engaging with material for the purposes of masturbation. There is a lot of resentment sometimes that builds up when a partner has a higher sex drive then the other.
At the very least if you take the initiative to get a couples therapist. In my mind that shows that you are actively committed to working on this and your wife should have no reason not to go with you. If your wife does find a reason not to go.. this whole thing was about control.
Honestly, I believe that closure is something you can and should get without having to talk to the person you hurt/hurt you. You have all the information you needed to move on. HE had all the information he needed to understand why your relationship fell apart. The “I care about you as a friend” angle strikes me as BS. You were in love, he hurt and betrayed you, and you haven't talked to him in years. HE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. YOU ARE NOT HIS FRIEND.
In your position, I would write/text back and say, “Hey, thank you for the apology. There's no need to clear the air, we both know what happened and why our relationship ended. I've moved on and I hope that you have too. You deserve to find happiness in your life. Wishing you all the best.” And that would be the end of communication.