Sounds like she’s been withdrawing from this relationship. Checking in is the basics for a relationship that lasts for a while like yours, if she’s refusing to check in and have no consideration for your worries then she either wants out or too immature to understand that partners should be worried about each other when they’re out drinking, let’s not say cheating or whatever is involved but a lot can happen when it involves alcohol and unable to fully control themselves in bad situations.
Being in a relationship for 3 years and living together already says your relationship should be solid to begin with and now she regressed to the point where she want no intimate interaction with you such as hug or kiss means she wants out. The fact that she’s been distant since November already proves that.
Plan accordingly, she’s already got a foot out the door so don’t let her screw you over one way or another.
Oh my god, just end this sham of a relationship! Seriously. You have never met him and you don't have any plans to ever live together, so of COURSE you don't feel connected to him! Why would you?! He is a pen-pal with whom you have zero future. Stop wasting your prime years.
As for your fear of never meeting anyone else. You sure as hell won't meet anyone being tied to a computer screen. You should be afraid of staying WITH this guy. Being a 40 year old with nothing to show for romance except a computer guy you barely like should be your greatest fear.
Sounds like she’s been withdrawing from this relationship. Checking in is the basics for a relationship that lasts for a while like yours, if she’s refusing to check in and have no consideration for your worries then she either wants out or too immature to understand that partners should be worried about each other when they’re out drinking, let’s not say cheating or whatever is involved but a lot can happen when it involves alcohol and unable to fully control themselves in bad situations.
Being in a relationship for 3 years and living together already says your relationship should be solid to begin with and now she regressed to the point where she want no intimate interaction with you such as hug or kiss means she wants out. The fact that she’s been distant since November already proves that.
Plan accordingly, she’s already got a foot out the door so don’t let her screw you over one way or another.
Oh my god, just end this sham of a relationship! Seriously. You have never met him and you don't have any plans to ever live together, so of COURSE you don't feel connected to him! Why would you?! He is a pen-pal with whom you have zero future. Stop wasting your prime years.
As for your fear of never meeting anyone else. You sure as hell won't meet anyone being tied to a computer screen. You should be afraid of staying WITH this guy. Being a 40 year old with nothing to show for romance except a computer guy you barely like should be your greatest fear.
That is literally so stupid. No one takes a year break no contact. You’ve broken up.