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Yeah I hate how the top comment is ignoring his very real feelings. Going off the assumption that she knew his reason for buying it himself, she sucks for completely ignoring his feelings, and in that moment she was only thinking of herself.
Gifts go both ways. If you’re gonna do it, then best make sure it’s something your partner is gonna like and presented in a way that they like.
This is such a difficult situation for both you and your partner. I’m so sorry. It sounds like you’re trying to be as compassionate as possible, and you’ve done literally everything you can. And now this.
My grandparents were in a similar situation to yours. The details are different, but the financial revelation was almost identical. My grandmother had racked up something like 30,000 USD in debt and had kept it a secret for about 10 years. Like you, my grandfather wanted very badly to keep the relationship together when he found out. He didn’t want to end it. She had a long-term disability that prevented her from working as well.
What ended up happening was that they had a long argument that ended up with him giving the ultimatum: Either I manage the finances alone, or it’s over, because with that kind of debt, practically speaking, it will be over anyway.
I’m not going to say it was easy, but it worked out because they both loved each other very much despite their deep personal flaws. He always used to tell me that he trusted her – and when it came to money, he trusted her to be herself, which is a nice way of saying he knew she lacked the self control to manage it responsibly.
As a kid, I witnessed all this. I used to feel a strong sense of betrayal toward my grandmother for what she had done. But the thing is, she used the money for her family. She didn’t just spend it on expensive handbags, shoes, vacations, stuff like that. She just wanted to contribute more, wanted us to have a better life, and she didn’t know how to do it without going into debt. She was, to this day, one of my favorite human beings. They both were.
So while I know that story is far from identical to the situation you are in, I hope it gives you some solace and makes you realize that you are not alone. Many people would probably tell you to break up given the situation you’re in, and if you do, I wouldn’t blame you. I don’t know the right decision for you. I just wanted to give you a story of how it worked out for one pair of people who found a way forward.
I don’t have a problem with it but if he’s going to call me dad and I have to be okay with it then I should be allowed to adopt him. It can’t just be my wife’s child when it benefits her and she makes all the decisions. I want all the same rights and responsibilities for me to feel comfortable
You know what you did wrong. Why do you think you deserve to ask for forgivness for some shit like this? It seems like just another part of the same story. Drunk isn't an excuse, you are a piece of shit boyfriend.
looks like you need to clearly state your expectations to your BF. he is conveniently daft. do bring it up a day after. and tell him very clearly that this will be the last time you will tolerate this and that your birthday is really important to you, and he he needs to take note and act. if he still doesn't, well what you do next is your choice.