I have a child who is recovering from an eating disorder. You can easily look up papers or research that will get your point across far better than you could. Have you offered to get your daughter into therapy? A dietitian? The worst thing is what she’s doing. Monitoring and shaming. Recipe(excuse the pun) for disaster. Chances are your daughter is depressed along with disordered eating. She needs help.
UPDATE: we talked again and I explained further, my desire to provide for myself and my daughter should I need to dance again. He said that whatever I needed to do he supports me and loves me
Honestly, I think this is just a fast track to resentment and an eventual breakup. If he was actually okay with it, he wouldn't have been so upset. He may not want to lose you but he obviously isn't comfortable with you stripping. I think you need to really sit with yourself and choose between your relationship and the money from dancing.
I'm not telling you which choice to make as there is no one right answer, but you probably cannot have both in a healthy way.
It’s ok my wife’s boyfriend also gives me a tough time sometimes, it happens.
I have a child who is recovering from an eating disorder. You can easily look up papers or research that will get your point across far better than you could. Have you offered to get your daughter into therapy? A dietitian? The worst thing is what she’s doing. Monitoring and shaming. Recipe(excuse the pun) for disaster. Chances are your daughter is depressed along with disordered eating. She needs help.
UPDATE: we talked again and I explained further, my desire to provide for myself and my daughter should I need to dance again. He said that whatever I needed to do he supports me and loves me
Honestly, I think this is just a fast track to resentment and an eventual breakup. If he was actually okay with it, he wouldn't have been so upset. He may not want to lose you but he obviously isn't comfortable with you stripping. I think you need to really sit with yourself and choose between your relationship and the money from dancing.
I'm not telling you which choice to make as there is no one right answer, but you probably cannot have both in a healthy way.