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Date: October 7, 2022
Zako, 25 y.o.
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She is never having sex with you. You need to make some decisions.
I applaud you for trying to fix things but for myself, a year and a half is too damn long for someone to willingly cheat with someone else. I think maybe you might need closure—no trust, no future. I would say call her, “as a woman” type of call. If she says yes she is still involved, then it’s pretty easy to decide what to do. If she says no, then you have to look inside yourself if you’re able to mentally and emotionally stay with that guy. But a man who “loves you” wouldn’t lead you on for a year and a half.
He's a guy and sometimes they don't think like that.
They aren't his family.
Financial?
He can't read your mind. You need to talk to him about it. Ask him if he wants to buy your family gifts. If he doesn't then tell your family not to get him gifts.
You also don't need to buy his friends gifts.
Easy thing is to make a gift list.
Fuck this answer. Priority #1 is her safety & the safety of her kids. PERIOD.
Don't you dare put a potential relapse on her.
Alexandra Cohen, the lead author of that study and now a neuroscientist at Emory University, said the scientific consensus is that brain development continues into people’s 20s
Why are you mad at your gf instead of the girl Who sent her a lying text? I mean, your gf’s response is TOTALLY normal given the information she received. Like, if some dude sent you a text on your gf’s due date that the baby was actually his, how the heck would you have felt? As far as you’re concerned, you should feel lucky she took you back at all. And having a kid isn’t like buying a used car; it’s super weird you’re worried about how many people held him before you, and why do you think the child should get your last name? You guys aren’t married. Normally, in situations where young, unmarried kids have a baby, the baby gets the mother’s name, because there’s no guarantee the dad will stick around (evidenced beautifully by the fact that you’re planning on leaving her). My advice to you is to get a grip and get a therapist. Your number 1 concern right now should be the well-being of your child, and the number 2 concern should be the well-being of the mother of your child. Instead you’re on here whining about having your feelings hurt because she reacted in a totally normal way to fake information.
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Nope. Sometimes they're afraid. Been there, done that out of fear.
It sounds like this relationship is dead.
One thing that sticks for me, is how you are resentful that you've done work on her crappy house and you see that as an investment, and won't get any return on that investment if you leave.
But presumably the stuff you've mended, you've enjoyed the consequences of mending it already. OK if you leave, she will continue to benefit from that and you won't. But it is not such a huge investment right? You haven't been rebuilding entire walls have you? more like putting in wiring that won't short-circuit or replacing a broken stair?
Because if you've been rebuilding the entire house, well you should have both paid for the materials.
If, as I think, it's just modest repairs, then you should reframe that as your contribution. The house is hers, and you've been living rent-free in it, it's only fair that you should help out with repairs and maintenance.
If it were me I would probably just be direct and say that you were taken off guard with the sexual questions because you wanted to get to know her and arent looking for a quick hookup (if that's the case). But that is strange behaviour… it's also ok to not go forward with the date at all.
Your husband is absolutely right. You do not bring your baby into that house. Ever.
Why can't your parents travel to your home to visit their grandchild?
Also if you return to your home town, why can't you speak with your in laws and ask them to please invite your parents over for a visit?
As the spouse of someone with a mentally ill sibling, I struggled with this for decades and had to fight tool and nail for every boundary. It is the only thing that ever posed a real threat to our thirty year marriage. Eventually the sibling did so many horrible things to my husband and eventually his parents who pressured everyone in the family to deny the problems, and now this person is banned from all aspects of our lives.
Please don't put your husband through what my husband put me through. It was a living nightmare.
I’m sorry, but you aren’t mature enough to be in a relationship.
My friend, there was another post not 24 hours ago from someone who had been coerced into an open relationship. This is not going to end well for you.
For one thing, it's much easier for women to have casual sex than it is for a man (as in women will find a casual partner more easily). The likeliest outcome in your situation is that she'll be off having a rare old time, and you…won't. Not because there's anything wrong with you, but because statistically women are far less likely to be up for hook ups than men are, so it's a far tougher landscape for you.
It might not be nice for a while, but your best bet here is to cut your losses and concentrate on yourself for a while. When you feel better, you can start dating while setting firm boundaries (e.g telling them upfront that an open relationship is a deal-breaker for you and always will be).
He may have some loose ends that need to be diplomatically tied up. Worry if it takes too long.