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You could try telling her ahead of time set times for what you want to do/need to do and then the clear times for number of meals/activities. This way it would feel collaborative to her rather than like rejection (you’re right, this is how she will interpret that and though her interpretation is not your responsibility it is a consequence that you can decide if you want to mitigate or not). This could sound something like “hey mom so what are you thinking for the week? Monday through Friday I have to be in work zone all day so I’ll probably be eating while I work but we can probably have dinner but maybe not lunch. I know you want to do special things with me so we have about 4-5 meals we could play with and make an outing of.” I think you probably also hate having these things sprung on you without warning and feeling the expectation to say yes so a little anticipation might help you too. Also for the food coma your breakfast is probably important so maybe you tell her about your super special breakfast preference and then she can buy the ingredients for that and feel like she’s doing a good job loving you and you get the breakfast you want. If you really want to go wild you can ask her to make some sugar free treats with you. My mom found a great cake mix that she’ll mix with lemon or banana depending on the kind of cake she wants to make. Collaborative problem solver/listener is something she’s good at and likes to be so even with the sweets you could ask with a voice of pure curiosity “what are we going to do with all these if I don’t finish them since I don’t eat that much sugar now?” That way she can start switching her mindset. Espero que estos consejos os ayudan
You could try telling her ahead of time set times for what you want to do/need to do and then the clear times for number of meals/activities. This way it would feel collaborative to her rather than like rejection (you’re right, this is how she will interpret that and though her interpretation is not your responsibility it is a consequence that you can decide if you want to mitigate or not). This could sound something like “hey mom so what are you thinking for the week? Monday through Friday I have to be in work zone all day so I’ll probably be eating while I work but we can probably have dinner but maybe not lunch. I know you want to do special things with me so we have about 4-5 meals we could play with and make an outing of.” I think you probably also hate having these things sprung on you without warning and feeling the expectation to say yes so a little anticipation might help you too. Also for the food coma your breakfast is probably important so maybe you tell her about your super special breakfast preference and then she can buy the ingredients for that and feel like she’s doing a good job loving you and you get the breakfast you want. If you really want to go wild you can ask her to make some sugar free treats with you. My mom found a great cake mix that she’ll mix with lemon or banana depending on the kind of cake she wants to make. Collaborative problem solver/listener is something she’s good at and likes to be so even with the sweets you could ask with a voice of pure curiosity “what are we going to do with all these if I don’t finish them since I don’t eat that much sugar now?” That way she can start switching her mindset. Espero que estos consejos os ayudan
Odds are you recognized the wounded woman that she is and wanted to save her. But if she wants to be saved, she needs to save herself.
I mean, I wouldnt want to live! there. Was just talking about the wage argument.