tell him to open it in front of you on the spot. If he doesnt, then you need to call this relationship over. If he does and its just x rated stuff, will that be a dealbreaker for you? I use my secure folder but its pics of my gf. Thats it.
From your description, it sounds like you might have lashed out with criticism because you were feeling insecure but didn’t want to acknowledge the insecurity. This is something you work through with a good friend once you have some perspective.
They made you physically ill you were so upset and they don't know or don't care. I just recently went into inpatient therapy for a few reasons. The restrictions are difficult but the support was amazing and you have to focus on yourself not what your fiancé's wants. When you get out you may want to talk to him but I wouldn't.
Is there any particular kind of body language/nonverbal cues you recommend I pay attention to? Things I have noticed thus far are: her smiling and waving when we pass by each other, smiling and interrupted eye contact when talking, feet point towards me, not standing or sitting with arms crossed. But it’s true that I need to see if she is even open to the idea of meeting up outside of work.
tell him to open it in front of you on the spot. If he doesnt, then you need to call this relationship over. If he does and its just x rated stuff, will that be a dealbreaker for you? I use my secure folder but its pics of my gf. Thats it.
From your description, it sounds like you might have lashed out with criticism because you were feeling insecure but didn’t want to acknowledge the insecurity. This is something you work through with a good friend once you have some perspective.
They made you physically ill you were so upset and they don't know or don't care. I just recently went into inpatient therapy for a few reasons. The restrictions are difficult but the support was amazing and you have to focus on yourself not what your fiancé's wants. When you get out you may want to talk to him but I wouldn't.
Is there any particular kind of body language/nonverbal cues you recommend I pay attention to? Things I have noticed thus far are: her smiling and waving when we pass by each other, smiling and interrupted eye contact when talking, feet point towards me, not standing or sitting with arms crossed. But it’s true that I need to see if she is even open to the idea of meeting up outside of work.