If you pass on this for him, every time you struggle with your career or finances afterwards, you will resent him. It has a good chance of destroying this relationship no matter what side you pick, so pick the option that gives you personal growth.
Tell him you want to take it. Discuss whether you’re each willing to do a LDR for longer or have him relocate with you. Talk about amicable separation when the time comes to move, if the other options aren’t going to work.
If this job pays well enough, you can fly instead of drive. You’re already familiar with LDR planning, this just gives you a different hurdle to plan around. It’s only whether you’re willing.
Are you his first relationship/ sexual experience?
Can you stay with a friend until you find another place? If you need a roommate, there are some roommate matching sites for you to use.
I’m not sure if you’re joking or serious but if he thinks it’s a waste of time I would like to know so I can move on from him.
If you pass on this for him, every time you struggle with your career or finances afterwards, you will resent him. It has a good chance of destroying this relationship no matter what side you pick, so pick the option that gives you personal growth.
Tell him you want to take it. Discuss whether you’re each willing to do a LDR for longer or have him relocate with you. Talk about amicable separation when the time comes to move, if the other options aren’t going to work.
If this job pays well enough, you can fly instead of drive. You’re already familiar with LDR planning, this just gives you a different hurdle to plan around. It’s only whether you’re willing.