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He not going!! ?
Cheaters always deflect blame, don't they? Let him stew in his own ego and self-importance.
OK, so our son will usually get most of his chores done in the morning before school (tidy up the lounge and kitchen, put dishes away and make his bed). He realized that if he does that in the morning, he has more free time after school. When he's home, he'll relax for an hour, then he'll put any more dishes away, vacuum and tidy anything that's been out. He helps with his little sister while dad gets anything else done. He'll help with folding washing or washing dishes if he wants extra cash too. In total its always less than an hour unless he's trying to make extra money or unless he decides to half ass the vacuuming. He is always paid for his chores. We always discuss any changes with them too. We all chip in on housework. While he does the day to day, I do the bedrooms, bathroom, toilets, mopping and any deep cleaning.
Total assumption so take it with a (couple) grain(s) of salt—if he is as great as you say he is he probably gets a fair amount of attention from the opposite sex. This might give him a skewed view on relationships and love. I’m sure he doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong so I wouldn’t take it as a red flag, but I’d be prepared to not initially see eye to eye on a couple of things. He could see a very romanticized version of love
Just one though. Once you get to 2 professional helps, it doesn't work anymore.
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I suspect when you hear somebody talk about something they want, it gets etched into your brain forever. For me, i go “oh that’s cool” and it returns to the ether. If you want to have a functional relationship with someone who is like me, you need to be completely direct. If you want to be with someone who is like yourself, you need to leave your relationship.
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I don’t really need a “this is why you don’t do that”. That not what I was asking for.
Depression is a beast. It'll suck the life out of even the strongest people. He needs to talk to his doctor, and you need to support his efforts when he makes them. If he's just content to drown, he'll pull you under with him. He needs help. Whether counseling, or medication, he can't do this on his own, and you can't save him from himself. Some need to hit rock bottom in order to have their epiphany. You need to tell him that though you love him, you are not equipped to save him. You can offer support, but only if he's doing the work to get out of his pit. He needs a job. You cannot sustainably support the both of you. Nor should you. That would enable his depression.
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Then how do you know she's mad? I just don't understand, walk me through things. She opens the bedroom door, you are butt very hot on the bed with her dildos out, what does she say? What does she do? Obviously there was some indication she was “super mad” or you wouldn't have written this post. Either that or you were contemplating doing it and are testing the Reddit waters to see if your half baked idea would be received well. Spoiler, it wasn't.
Lol same here!
Appreciate the advice, but you didn’t really give a solid reasoning. IMO a kind message is alot better than getting hit on by a random guy in a bar
You realise you've been speaking to an old obese catfish, right?
And you're a cheater who doesn't deserve your husband
Maintaining your mental health while be cognitively aware of your partners.
Possibly maintaining any shared martial assets.
Rebalancing of budgets, future planning for illness and retirement for two people. Etc?
Do you not have friends or family over?
OP is a raw dog king
That isn't how I read it, it sounds like you want to breach those boundaries, and not respect his wishes, even as little as just not going out, you want him to come to you anyway?
Like I’m not trying to get in his pants.
Anymore?
Thoughts of your significant other are always relevant, especially during intimate times. The dude needs to divorce his wife and also do a paternity test on his kid bc there is a chance it ain’t his. Also he needs to find a new woman who actually lusts after him, unlike his wife (hopefully soon to be ex-wife).
I'm really not that interested in the subject.
Thrilled ?
The thing is… your boyfriend should WANT to pay you for your talent, instead of mooching off of your kindness and expecting things for free.
10000% you concentrate on your studies. Prioritize your studies because this is the time that will help shape your future. If she was really a good partner for you, she would realize that in the long run, it's beneficial for you to be successful instead of immediate satisfaction to her.
Being honest, the chances of you working out long term with a girl friend from high school is really low. The risk-reward here in sacrificing your grades is too low. Bet on yourself.
Dude is way too old for you and moving way too fast. Trust your instincts and run away from this one.
I doubt there’s any legal repercussions. You’re just being annoying
What do you get out of this relationship?
You could try to set a boundary of no talking about relationships. But why do you feel like she’s worth it? What does she bring to your friendship, is she someone you go to with your problems?
Question: Does your fiancee still have her ex's last name, as in do she and her son have the same last name? A generous read of this situation could be that she doesn't want to take your last name when you marry and then have a different last name from her son. A solution to this could possibly be that you all (you, fiancee, and her son) hyphenate your last names after you get married.
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Can't control who someone chooses to have in their life. You can only decide if you want to accept it or move on to another person.
Boundaries are not so much about dictating another persons behaviour, they're about dictating your own.
Here, your boundary should have been as:
I don't like it when my partner has a friendship with someone they used to be intimate with. And for that, I will take my leave and find someone more suitable for me.
Bi but it's just masturbation. I dont see any issue with it. I'd even use toys during sex if my partner thought it would help.
Someone who explores themself and is able to communicate what they like can make sex better in the long run
If you valued your girlfriend enough, you wouldn’t seek out visual stimulation from other women live because it causes her pain. Saying that you have tried makes you sound like a teenager. Seriously. You’ve tried? You just can’t control yourself? She should find someone who respects her.
You need to work on your independence. That's gonna be the only way she might ease off. But as long as you're living in her house, it's her rules.
Mexican here and there is some safe parts of Mexico and some not some safe parts. I have family that lives in Mexico. So yes his fears are correct. Many have asked you what your plans are and you can’t answer that? You could simply volunteer somewhere in your community and do it more often. You could send money to TJ instead of going there. There’s other ways to help that doesn’t make your life partner uncomfortable. My own husband does not like the few times I go to Mexico where I’m always met by family that is local.
I completely missed that! my apologies. So some things off some things right general consensus is right that you need to lay it out for him that you can't continue this way. You also have to prepare yourself to leave him, if you don't give yourself that option at all times you will tolerate things you have no business tolerating. Set a timeline I think ~6 months is achievable and if he's still like this then on to different pastures. If you can be a functional man you can find another one!
Try not asking questions. At all. People can live in mystery. He doesn't need to give answers. Buy him some aftershave you think he might like. Or a tie. Or something else like a sweatshirt in the color he likes. Drop it off and make it casual-like. No big deal. Saw something and thought of you. Then walk away.
Just ignore the rest of the change and pretend he was never a girl at all.
I think that's how you should treat him and I think that'll help the relationship, but I do not expect this will be easy. I have a transgender friend whom I have known as a man for years and he is now becoming a female and it's hot as hell for me to remember the pronouns and understand how to let go of the original identity. I can only expect it would be so much harder for a parent who raised their kid as one sex only to now have the other gender. What. I believe I would have a really very hot time letting go of the fact that I birthed a girl and now have a boy. It would take me time to adjust. So, while I believe you should do the above, I am also thinking that if you or anyone needs it, maybe a support group could really be helpful.
I also accept that maybe it’s just me taking things too personally.
I am leaning towards this.
Its completely reasonable for a couple to establish the rule of +1 being significant others only… A lot of people don't want strangers at their wedding. That is completely valid.
Not sure what other accommodations you're looking for.
Obviously them tagging you as the loose cannon alcoholic, that shit sucks and is insulting. Should be discussed… but hey, if that is her perception of you, why not take advantage of that and prove her wrong?
Beyond that… what special treatment do you want?
How conflicted I am about the bachelor party being in Nashville, with all the transphobic activity going on
Are you actually expecting for them to change the location of the bachelor party to suit you?
Hmm, well you can’t make him more motivated. That comes from within. However you can be a good influence and say “I’m going to study every day from x time to x time you’re welcome to join” but other than that I’d just focus on your grades.
I’m more mad that he didn’t tell me and lied in front of my face this kind of sneaky behavior is not good as I’m completely honest about what I do especially if I’m traveling without him.
You won’t come across as a “white knight” for calling this guy out on his racism. You come across as complicit when you don’t. It’s not your fault he’s a racist fuckwad but you can stop hanging out with him. There’s no reason to keep someone like that in your life, especially if he’s going to continually say hurtful things to or in the presence of someone you care about. Are you in a position to kick him out of the apartment? If not, I would pull him aside and let him know that you’re not going to put up with talk like that any longer. It’s offensive to you and genuinely upsetting for your friend. If you can get your other friends to back you up on this, I would.
I mean…he’s been married and divorced 3 times before you that should have been your first red flag.
Well she’s in pain bc of something he said. So it’s not all equal here.
I’m sorry but you’d be better off in the long run dumping him. The way he treated you is not okay. A good guy that chooses to be with you CHOOSES to be with you in situations like that. My husband would never walk away and go off with other people leaving me behind like that. You need to look at each of those situations and apply how’d you have acted. You would have stayed for him. You wouldn’t ignore him. When someone treats you differently than you would have treated them look at that as a sign the relationship is not equal. He turned you into a third wheel. You deserve better by your own BF. Find a new one. This guy sucks.
If you carry on with this idea that it’s “different” for a woman to fuck/get fucked by another woman, oh boy…. You’re gonna lose your girl. Because as a lesbian… I’ve seen it l before, and I’ve got to tell you this will only end in tears if you don’t take it seriously.
As long as everything is made clear and you both agree then go ahead
I’m talking what is bro not what is “suppose to be” in your idealized world, there’s posts about this very issue every day of the year on here
Absolutely not, I would never criticize something that is out of their control and I don’t think it’s fair that OP’s bf did just that. There’s some things you just keep to yourself. I don’t judge my partner’s “tightness” or how wet they get, everybody is different and frankly it’s not important. Feels good either way, the “tightness” just isn’t important imo.
My guess is OP is jacking it a little too much, and has become desensitized.
You told him straight up that therapy is the only way you could see your marriage surviving and his response is – naw I'm good. He just showed you how little he values your marriage.
Now you get to decide whether he spends that therapy money having fun with other women or on divorce attorneys.
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we can't help you
I found a vase with pictures of my boyfriends brother in law, a lightbulb , a rosary, and liquid bottle
I'm not saying it's a 100% dealbreaker, but you have to tread very carefully on this. Political differences are not like differences in superficial interests such as food, music, and hobbies.
Politics is not just debates on TV or articles in blogs. It's decisions that affect our daily lives and the representation of our values.
For example, there are many men who showed themselves to be pro-birth conservatives after Roe v. Wade. Are you sure that your partner will have your back when there are more policies that affect women like this? Are you sure that your partner who supports Trump, doesn't share his values of racism, misogyny, and other bigotry?
You should ask questions to make sure about this. You've been dating for 11 months, it's best to make sure your views align than to waste more time down the road. Though, do keep in mind that he might be hiding his true extent of conservative views to prevent you from leaving, which is unfortunately what a lot of men do.
Maybe we should just use our genders as descriptors rather than a sort of prescription of moral worth.
Yup. It's one of my pet peeves. A man who is an asshole or a shitty human being is still a man. We don't do the same for women.
What if I said “real women suck dick” as a counter to “real men eat pussy.” It's stupid and attacks someone's gender identity when the same doesn't happen for women. If a man says a Trans woman isn't a woman then it is Transphobia, but if a woman says a cis-het man isn't a man then apparently it's acceptable.
1st relationship
6 months
5 year age gap
Yet you're pretty set on your entitlement to a vacation in Mexico
Why?
You’re having a baby with a man who is decorating a nursery but isn’t actively seeking a place for you to both move in or is asking you to move in to his house.
He’s never going to marry you girl.
Either take his butt to the courthouse for a marriage TODAY so you are his WIFE, or STOP doing WIFEY things for him while getting NOTHING in return. You’re going to be stuck with a BABY soon. He won’t come by everyday. He won’t help you. It’s going to end in disaster.
I'll just beat everyone to the punch: what's the business?
This! It’s only weird that you think it’s weird… or try to spin some weird connotation to it