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Model from: fr
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Birth Date: 1989-05-10
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Date: February 23, 2023
Nah, my wife is like that too. She makes me get up and brush my teeth if I want an early morning make out session.
And I'm fine with it. I'd prefer to not have to get out of bed, but I get it. We brush our teeth in the morning for a reason, because our breath smells in the morning. Can't really fault her for wanting that to happen before I stick my tongue in her mouth.
He has moved out before – he was out at 18 and since then there was a nasty divorce between his parents and fast forward to when they got this house together. They combined assets to get it and with her previously having a house, and him being a new home owner, they got a lot of discounts or whatever the right term is. Also she was looking to move out here from where she was as she had found a new job back then here so it was also a way to save money for them both.
It has a rental unit in it and long term plan is to turn their side also into a rental. It’s a good source of income – the rental side covers the mortgage. So then selling it isn’t going to be an option I am certain.
I talked about getting a place with an in law suite but again he doesn’t want to get a new house right now. Plus those here are well over 1 million around here (Ive looked) which with her being retired and me just finally getting a good job less than a year back it’s not an affordable option at the moment.
His side has about 60K repairs to be done like new kitchen etc before he can rent it out.
And no it’s not cultural.
Sigh. This is just all very disappointing and discouraging.
Your boyfriend is a lazy leech. You aren't going to change this about him. Do you want to be with a man like this for the rest of your life?
You sure she's “gaming”?
Yeh ignore some of the bitter bastards on this sub. It’s completely normal to have the reaction you had.
Any guy recognizes why that would make you uncomfortable. But you were also strong enough to recognize it’s not your wife’s fault and work through it.
People love to jump on men on this sub. It’s disgusting.
Not having a say in a break up is pretty common place.
You are 18. Find someone who wants to have sex with you. Don't waste any more time with her.
You need to see a therapist and talk this out.
A crush is literally that; a crush. You were into someone. You didn’t pursue it. It’s a non-issue. You’re not comparing your girlfriend to her.
Now, I certainly agree it was completely unnecessary to mention it, but here we are. If you did it in the interest of full transparency and honesty, fine. But is that why you mentioned it? Why did you? No one’s going to buy the explanation you gave. Just be honest with us.
Regardless, it really doesn’t matter. If you don’t still have a crush on this girl, then she’s irrelevant. “I wanted to be honest with you. That’s all. Nothing happened and I have no feelings for her. I’m sorry if you’re upset but that’s the end of it.”
Hold firm from there. She can’t just hold it over you forever and you shouldn’t allow her to. Good luck.
Next time you see him mention that you saw him on hinge and slowly work the convo to asking him to hangout outside of work
You deserve everything that happened to you simply for being the age you are and believing the pull out is an “effective method”. You would have to have a low IQ and a bag on your head your entire life if you truly still believe that.
The only appropriate advice to you is to get a new fiance.
The guy above is right. I went through the same in my twenties. I second his opinion: Go numb for a couple days, but don’t get stuck in the bottle. Get back in the gym, eat right, and focus on your future.
Yeah, the grief can take a while to fully fade, but there is someone out there who will faithfully love you back. I found her, you will too.
You definitely want him angry enough to respond to the accusations via text message. It's bait and if he's dumb enough, he will respond with more threats. That's the point.
In addition, she should go into hiding and block him on all other fronts, removing bed location information from her phone, while making sure to file a PPO with police.
call animal control and get the dog taken away. Sorry to be blunt but you are technically aiding in watching a dog be abused and doing nothing about it.
You not happy with how much you are making for what you’re doing?
Lmfao that boy ain't got out of no relationship
I'd advise you to NOT continue this relationship.
He raped you.
HE RAPED YOU.
I don’t want to use the word rape because other women have gone through worst and I don’t feel traumatized or anything.
What other women have gone through doesn't have anything to do with you. You say yourself I froze up and just let him do what he wanted. He was being rough so I started crying a little That's your body panicking and shutting down. Because you were being raped.
You don't have to feel traumatized to have been sexually assaulted or forced to do something against your consent.
Please get help to sort out what has happened, and concentrate on YOU, not him. Also if this just happened recently, and he did not use a condom (he didn't, did he?) get a dose of Plan B.
Reach out for help:
Planned Parenthood 1 (800) 230-7526
National Sexual Assault Hotline – Available 24 hours 1 (800) 656-4673
Do not hesitate to call, OP.
He was hypocritical when I mentioned me taking vacations and he said he would feel upset if I did the same. I did confront him afterwards and explained how the trip made me feel and he seemed understanding of that and I felt a bit better about the trip until he followed that girl on insta. And he had only one relationship before me where he cheated.
You're 19 years old, why are you planning on marrying already?
It wasn’t a me issue, he showed me the message in the first place because HE was uncomfortable. I was obviously uncomfortable too after that. His expression was that if he felt my male boss sent me a heart emoji, then he would think that’s inappropriate. So he applied that to his female boss. Or that a guy wouldnt send another guy heart messages for doing what their job is.
It’s definitely not a hill to die on for me at all! I decided I wasn’t even going to tell him to do anything. In the end, he explained to his boss it made him uncomfy and chalked it up to “cultural differences.”
Kudos to your son. He’s mature beyond his years. He will make a good husband and father.
When I got here there were 26 comments and all 26 of you are gullible morons. Jesus Christ, seriously, wise up.
Troll today, gone tomorrow
Cut your losses and cut them all off
Except the friend, I'm sure she already took care of that.
As I said in my other response, this is feeling like a mental health issue you shouldn't unload on your girlfriend, you should start with a therapist. Then from there you can work out what you should and shouldn't share with your girlfriend.
Do you not understand that if she hadn’t told him WHY she didn’t add him back he was just going to keep trying to get other forms of communication from her or keep asking her/reminding her to add him back!!!!??!!? For fucks sake.
I know all of that.
You need to put your child first even if you lose your wife. The child is innocent and needs you.
You’re spooky.
I hope this message reaches you as you are in the divorce lawyer’s office.
no, you can't read into it. he only accepted that you wouldn't have a romantic relationship. people decline relationships with attractive, smart and successful people for all sorts of reasons. depression, post-break up hangups, addiction, or they are just chill being single for a second. or any number of things. don't let this drag you down too much. it's ok to be disappointed but don't convince yourself it's your fault for any reason
Dude's projecting
Thank you for your input. Your second part has helped me view it from another perspective and perhaps the questions are a bit too dramatic and it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about me. During the past 8 years, I've talked about my parents bad marriage and express lack of trust to men growing under this environment, and he is always honest and open with his feelings when I speak of my past, but to marry me, no. Maybe jokes but anything serious or initiated by him? No.
I'm glad you were able to communicate in such a healthy way with each other. Wishing you both years of happiness!
According to his post history she went into surgery to remove a brain tumor. She lost sight in one eye, was extremely fatigued, lost her job and they struggle with getting help with the cost. They couldnt get everything out during surgery, and are monitoring if the cancer will grow again and become terminal.
Him posting on reddit two months later like he cant understand whats going on or what changed in the last six months leads me to believe that he is making fake posts, or that he is deliberately excluding very relevant context for whatever reason that might be. Regardless I dont find him to be a reliable or trustworthy narrator, and makes me wonder how supportive he is.
This is one of those – you made your bed now lay in it – something like that. Now you are whining about a dynamic you created. You made her uncomfortable and she told you, you did it again. Weird ass ole man lol
If you didn’t remember her birthday, how did you buy a gift for her?
Going on the info we have here, OP's BF is a selfish bully who sulks like a toddler.
Would you like to come up with a plausible account to justify that OP is completely in the wrong and the BF is a selfless caring guy who just can't use his words to explain what's wrong?
Count yourself lucky, instead of an expensive divorce, she decided to leave you right after a concussion. You were born again that day and you have not noticed yet.
No, I think it’s rude
It’s not a compliment of a guy can’t stay in the moment and has to look at other women to get off
I agree this could be the case although we can't just be “nice and casual” forever. Considering she would stay over in mine, and we were making dinner plans for my birthday lol
You need to worry more about how YOU feel in your body. What do you love about it?
It sounds like agoraphobia. He needs to see a doctor then. I think he can have virtual visits with everyone nowadays: GP, psychiatrist, therapist.. if not – drive him there.
He needs your help, not your contempt. Think about what would you expect from him if you were emotionally or mentally unwell.
Ask him to return the favor everyday and see what he says about that.
Yuk. This is not acceptable. He lies on the bed in his gross clothes after work?! Next him, honey.
You need to remove yourself somewhere you'll be supported (friends or family) and leave him alone with his anger. At the moment he's projecting onto you because he can't bear to feel the grief and loss that's inside him, and he needs to see that and get help.
I have had T1 for over 20 years and I work full time and clean and exercise and do chores and raised 3 kids (adopted – my kidneys couldn't cope with pregnancies). I also regularly babysit my partner's grandchildren. I don't get how she is at fully disabled status 6 months in.
There are coping mechanisms. You can’t just blame something and do nothing about it.
People with ADHD can benefit from really organised houses. So for example with the clothes. It can be overwhelming if there’s no system in place. But if you have baskets for dirty clothes that separates them, then you have a basket for clean clothes to go into to go back to the cupboards, and the cupboards are tidy and organised, it’s less overwhelming and easier to do.
She does kind of just sound gross though, so you can probably determine if these sort of systems help! And get a dishwasher so that dishes NEVER go on the side.
Hmmm. I see where you’re coming from. If she’s not topless, it’s unlikely he’s getting any sexual gratification from them though.
As someone who’s be involved with numerous sex crimes investigations, your partner needs help. It’s very nude to believe he’s never ventured into CP, but it’s possible. Many pedophiles become very interested in non-pornographic images of children. You’d be shocked at how many images are recovered of a relatively innocent nature (kids at the beach, clothing models, and kids doing gymnastics).
My suggestion would be to remove yourself from this relationship. If he’s 49, this isn’t a new endeavor, and what you know is likely the top of the iceberg. If you think you’ve stumbled across illicit images, contact your local law enforcement agency for help. If you truly want to preserve the relationship, insist he enroll in specific counseling geared towards sex offenders. My word of caution is this: pedophilia doesn’t have a cure. I wouldn’t expect these behaviors to stop.
Leave him and call the authorities.
Bruh, people lie all the time just to see shit burn, you naive bugger.
No. He wanted you out of his life, he ended the friendship. Leave it that way and respect his wishes.
In my country the employer has to match their contributions for a lot of programs. For example, if you have $100 held for EI, your employer also had to pay $100 into the EI program.
More info: I’ve been with her for 3 months, this is also a long distance relationship 1:40 min away, she also says this is her first ever relationship
Call her bluff
I'm not sure how your crush on Aiden would affect or really has anything to do with James' friendship with him?
He's being melodramatic.
Yeah, OP. You lost 60 lb, now you need to lose these additional 200 lb and it will make your life so much better.
Her response makes it clear that she is not emotionally mature. She didn't even bother having a real conversation with you that she was breaking up.
I'm certain it was confusing and frustrating for you, because she was not clearly and honestly communicating.
At least you have some closure now. I wish you better luck in the future.
I am 35 years old and I have never used those pills. I've also never heard of a friend using one of those pills. I think everyone just pretty much assumes they're a scam and snake oil. You can't just magically grow your dick
Consider researching up on coping skills like mindfulness. Practice understanding your anxiety through raising your self awareness. Take some time to enjoy being alone. Learn to be alone.
The other is not reaching out to him when you break up with him if the reason is you feel lonely. Let sleeping dogs lie as space heals.