It is not “your job as a female” to keep the house clean. That is some really deep internalized misogyny. He’s used to hiring people to clean, cook and help with the kids and wants that level of help in his life and house. What you could have done is ask him to move the cleaning up a day if possible, but overall this is his lifestyle.
It is not “your job as a female” to keep the house clean. That is some really deep internalized misogyny. He’s used to hiring people to clean, cook and help with the kids and wants that level of help in his life and house. What you could have done is ask him to move the cleaning up a day if possible, but overall this is his lifestyle.