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So you are saying her body lost him 10 kilos ago.
Do you… do you have things to “come up?” Sounds like the people in your life are snooping because you're giving shady vibes. I've never known a partner to snoop through my stuff, and the one time I ever snooped on a partner was when he was actively cheating on me.
I forgot to mention that I always apologize to him for the stuff I do to him once I get sobered up
You don't have to ask for space. You're not obligated to hang out with anyone. You can back off hanging out at any time. Start hanging out with other people more often.
I mean, you sure sound like one. Just not in the direction you think.
Y’all both suck and it sounds like your therapist does too (if you are accurately portraying what they have said). If it’s her responsibility to deal with how she feels about your actions, and it’s not your fault, it is equally your responsibility to deal with how you feel (and how you cope with) her and her actions. It is obviously a problem if you tried to stop and you couldn’t. Having a therapist lie to you about that isn’t going to help anyone.
That being said, you and your wife sound totally incompatible and I’m struggling to understand why you would get married at all. Get a divorce and focus on yourself.
It's kind of splitting hairs because how is he supposed to react if he goes asking for a blessing for engagement, and gets an answer he didn't expect? It's just bizarre to me.
well the fact taht you guys have broken up multiple times within the last year shows that obviously your both mature enough to put you on the LEGAL PAPERWORK FOR HER FUCKING HOUSE. Bro shes nuts, that is such a dumb decision for her, because it opens the door for her to not own her house anymore, not be the sole decision maker, who would give up that control over their most prized asset, unless they know they are going to lose that asset without help and want to trap someone else in the paperwork. IF YOU SIGN ONTO THE HOUSE AND YOU BREAK UP, LEGALLY YOU ARE ON THE HOOK FOR THE MORTGAGE AS MUCH AS SHE IS. USE YOUR HEAD
I mean, they’re a married couple and he’s not the one who posted. If either of them are over drafting it’s a mutual problem, because, ya know, marriage.
Why don’t you offer to meet with a financial advisor and let them run the show?
Lol now I know you're not 56 if you don't know who he is
You should build a relationship with someone independent of your child before a person meets your child
He’s not found religion he’s found a cult
You’re not going to be able to talk him out of it, and trying will just drive him in deeper.
Honestly, I’m a very non-traditional person, and I can totally sympathize with you on both fronts. I absolutely despise receiving gifts, especially from people who are just giving “stuff” out of obligation. It’s a 95% chance to be something that I never wanted and now am burdened with the decision whether to keep it or get rid of it.
I get it.
But it’s a WEDDING.
You’re pissing in the wind here, there are very very few points to a wedding, and giving gifts is like, pretty much the first thing listed after the actual marriage.
Put it this way: it’d be less weird to forbid dancing. It’d be a LOT less weird to have no alcohol. It’d be almost normal for the times to have no sit down meal.
If you’re that incensed about receiving gifts, just don’t have a wedding. That’s literally the only way to avoid making it weird.
You either have a wedding and expect a few gifts, or don’t have a wedding at all. Those are, societally, the only two choices.
It’s perfectly acceptable (and not unheard of) to declare no gift giving is necessary. Your fiancée is off base with that being tacky; it’s not tacky to expect people to want to give, what’s tacky is telling people how much to give, or making demands about effort. For instance, you should not decide that the friend who owns a vineyard must gift you wine. Or a friend who owns a stable must give you a horse.
Telling people to keep their money? Not tacky.
You need to get some perspective, and your fiancée needs to unclench a little. You both need to do some research and get back to your actual priorities.
i will find a way to leave ;(
Then he is seeing a Dr that doesn’t understand his issues. There has been alot of medical developments since then. His reactions are definitely not normal. I do not think by the way you described that he is over reacting because this reads like it’s touch and sounds mostly.
((HUGS)) Men get PPD too, talk to a therapist!
Start with the BLOCK feature on your phone. Set alarms if you want to not completely cut him off- time it so that you have blocks of time you JUST DONT DEAL with him. He’s an enormous bully, but you’re a GROWN @$$ woman,and you don’t actually have to deal with this if you dont want.
If he’s not, he’s giving you an absolute valid reason to suspect that he is.
If you want to be stuck in the sunk cost fallacy and?can't bear the thought of ending the relationship, then the only other thing you can do is tolerate a cheater. By tolerating a cheater, you will 1. be lied to often, 2. you will be constantly paranoid about her and which do workers is she out playing with now 3. While living in the state of distrust you will always be spying on every thing about her including phone checks, etc. In other words, this will turn you into someone you never wanted to be and shouldn't have to be.
Why would I lie about my situation? I`ve been on reddit anonymously for a while but never had a reason to make an account up until now. I made this account specifically to ask for advice on this.
Tell her to come home if she needs to and you’ll support her. Sticking it out might be the wrong thing to do.
Am I the only person wondering why the friend would charge their phone in the bathroom? If it was my friend, I would bring the charger to the area we were sitting so they could use it nearby. Wet areas aren't exactly known for being ideal spots for using electrical devices unnecessarily. It seems very odd to me.
dumb her asap
in her mind she is still 10
you are her new daddy
No there would be strings. Like wake up. This isn’t her family gifting her a car. This guy fully intends to use this gift as a way in. If he hasn’t slept with her already
I wouldn’t accept a car from a dude. Unless I’m sleeping with him.
And once he comes over with your mother not being around:
never let him in!
Well let’s see, brand new account and is asking if kissing someone is cheating. Either you’re stupid or a troll.
bingo
Is she Anna Delvey?
“There is nothing we need to discuss. Coming here to discuss this is inappropriate. Direct your questions to your son.”
Completely agree, I've never done anything to push her any sort of direction.
If anything I've been trying to answer her questions from a neutral standpoint, I just understand where the intentions are coming from.
Advice after being shit on… Yeah that comes from a place of compassion huh.
I dont mean delete them for your ex. I mean delete them for your new partner, or current partner.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this, it must feel really scary to have someone threaten to harm themselves unless you do as they say.
I agree that you either contact her family and/or call authorities for a wellness check, and then block her. It is probably a baseless threat to play on your empathy and compassion, and it is not ok at all. It can be effective tho, because the “but what if” feels very scary, and what do I do if she actually does something and I didnt stop it. Contacting her family and/or authorities are a good way for you to stay out of it and not be roped back in with someone who is willing to do something like this, while also doing what you can to make sure your consience is clear and she gets help.
Good luck!
I realize now that it seems like I wrote that brother SA him, I’m sorry! I meant that to say his father SA his brother too
I have no interest in trying to control your body and I'd appreciate you paying me the same courtesy.
Or deep down she feels guilty about how bad they bullies him when they were younger. Op’s comments are disgusting. Doesn’t make his behavior good by any means but they’re both toxic
she doesn't have her ducks in a row.
the point is not to look thin. the point is to avoid her to die from a complication due to her overweight.
i have lost 26 kg in the last six months. i have not be as light since i was in high school. I do know that it is a question of mental state. i was not ready before, as she is not herself. i have not been ready before i had medical follow-up, counseling and a metaphoric kick in the crotch from my partner.
you don't love her because she is fat or thin. And you don't want her to suffer from a cardiac accident or an infection from diabete. if she had a goddamned cancer, you would react the same way. and no, you won't catch a cancer so she can neglects hers.
A week doesn’t seem long enough. We have a new kitten who is doing well overall, but still is skidding around our other animals and it has been only 2 weeks. We have introduced other and it took a good 3-4 weeks for the animals to walk by each other.
It seems important to her, so I would consider one more try.
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My fiancée friend has ADHD (and potentially an allergy to cleaning up the kitchen after herself lol), so when she cooks (which is often, and she is amazing at it – like, “gourmet chef” amazing), it looks like a fucking tornado hit the kitchen. Cleaning just isn’t part of her creative process, I guess(?). I dunno, I love her, we all have quirks and things we do that don’t make sense. Being a culinary Tasmanian Devil happens to be one of hers.
It’s a mild annoyance at most. Since I can’t imagine your wife leaving a bigger mess than my fiancée (because honestly, I just don’t know if such a thing is physically possible), I am led to believe what you are describing is actually a larger imbalance and source of friction in your overall relationship, and this thing with the dishes is just a symptom of the issue, but has become symbolic of said issue to you – that it’s not really about the dishes at all.
It sounds like in general you feel like you’re shouldering the majority of the chores in your relationship, on top of working a lot more. Add a few kids, lose a few hours of sleep… yeah, you’re tired and overworked. This is pretty normal.
First off, I think just talking about it with her will help. Go in with an open mind and listen to her as well. There may be an imbalance but overall two adults can work through these things.
Second off, the best money you can possibly spend, if you can afford it, is a cleaning service. We pay like $125 for a maid service to come once a month – that reduces so much stress and friction in our relationship, and gives back hours and hours a month that would be spent on those activities. Obviously that’s not an option for everyone, but in my experience, it’s one of the best spends for reducing stress and improving quality of life.
This is so warm and wholesome ? congratulations on a wonderful adventure together.
Also 4 min isn't short for a first time at least IMHO ?
I just may have worked at unusual places, but I’ve never had an employer where the company parties banned spouses/significant others. They were always enthusiastically included. To me, the whole no-spouses, pay-for-hotel-rooms-for-everyone policy raises more than a few red flags – sort of a “what happens at the company party stays at the company party” ethos.
IF you tell her you want to see her phone, because you think she is cheating, and she refuses, it is because she is in fact cheating.
I am sorry it has come to this, but I think you should simply break up with her. She has cheated on you ,and therapy will not change it.
You told him the truth and the truth sometimes hurts, the same way he was hurting you by being a disrespectful asshole. He might be a good lover, but he's a shitty friend. Either those are narcissistic tendencies, either he's just an inconsiderate asshole, who takes you for granted.
You got a crush on him, he doesn't reciprocates your feelings as he isn't over his ex. You two aren't on the same page to be in any kind of relationship. Just try to get over him, I know it's naked, but theres plenty of fish in the sea.
If one is in the US, it's very difficult to buy antibacterial soap these days as the vast majority of consumer antibacterial soaps have been banned by the FDA.
I was thinking the same thing. This is the kind of thing 15 years panic over. OP it’s just a social media follow. If it bothers you that much just ask her but you’re making a mountain out of something that’s currently a molehill
I was raised in a Catholic family, I was just talking to my very religious grandmother about weddings, as my partner was raised Protestant. She says in our church mixed marriages are allowed as long as the other partner is baptized Christian. However we will not be having a Catholic wedding, as I do not practice my faith strongly anymore and would prefer to be married outside the church. At the end of the day, a marriage is between two people, many couples elope for this reason. You shouldn’t have to compromise for people outside outside of the two of you even if it’s your family. You and your partner should come to a personal agreement about what ceremony works best for you, whether it be a private elopement if the family is deciding not to attend or elsewhere. Whatever is the best solution for everyone
Its too late. Once a woman gives up on you its next to impossible to win her back.
Unpopular opinion: women stay home with the children with full access to all the money the husband goes out snd earns. Depending on how many children, this is potentially hundreds of thousands of dollars she is given for that “sacrifice”. Meanwhile the man sacrifices his relationship with his kids and witnessing milestones to support his family.
Realistically both make sacrifices and both earn their keep by performing very important roles. That's why husband and wives are a team, not individuals competing.
No way, what he did was wrong, I agree but keeping nudes of an ex is not okay. She says she forgot about it and she needs to tell him the same. Marriages would be over like that if people had the right to keep nudes of an ex.
Irreconcilable differences happen in a relationship. Can you see yourself being in this same situation for the next 50 years? if you sre not happy in your relationship, you should leave and find someone who you are more sexually compatible with.
If she was lying abiut one thingthen she lying about more things. Perhaps not even only about that friend.
I don't think you should stay with her. You will be lied to many times in the future, anytime future may be inconvenient to your gf.
Your a young guy why are you putting up with this? There’s a reason she is with someone 20 years younger you don’t need to take any of her BS
Who cares if she is like you understand that humans can be totally in love with and attracted to their mate and still think other people are good looking right? Thinking someone's naked doesnt mean instant bang I think all kinds of dudes are very hot I would never do anything.
Ik that could be the only possible reason but it hurts to find out about it from somebody else
Dude she is not the one. She is the type to cheat when it suits her and then blame it on you for not giving her enough attention. Dump her.
Babe, you are absolutely NOT an idiot. I’m glad you are free now, though.
May like younger women because he can get his way more.
A bit curious:
Do you know the primary reason as to why they don't want him living there anymore? What they said (you're all friends), not what he said. And how long did he stay there for?
Assuming that they let him stay there to allow him get back on his feet, its a bit strange they are kicking him out the moment he got a job. Usually someone would need an extra month to get a couple paycheques in.
For that reason, makes me question why they're in such a rush to get him out… Is there potentially other issues going on that are not being mentioned?
Also, how long have you been together for?
I understand that you want to help him out by giving him a place to stay, however… that is a naked thing to undo once settled in.
Personally, I think couples should be moving in together for the right reasons, and here it would be jumping the gun.
Obviously I feel for your want to help him out, who wouldn't want to help their partner? But to me, it should be a last case scenario (him staying with you).
Does he have other friend places he can crash for the meantime?
Listen to this woman^
It is SCARY to move across the country with a guy with no commitment. It's fun for a while, but when the reality sets in you'll realize that you're in a sticky situation.
I moved across the country with my boyfriend, and things have been great. But he also is a bit iffy with commitment. He is firm on not using the words “forever” or “always” or anything that would GUARANTEE that we'd be together in the future. I understand that he is a realist and REALISTICALLY we won't be together forever, but him not being able to tell me these things SCREAMS at my gut telling me to leave. It feels like he's telling me non-directly that it's not going to work out, if that makes sense. Even though, day after day, he proves himself to be a man that wants to be with me, his words make things feel different.
All I'm trying to say is, don't go if you have doubts. Wait a while until you're sure. But also, see what his actions say. Does he plan for things for you guys' future? When he talks about things he wants to do, are you included? If so, maybe he's just had situations in the past that makes him really want to establish his independence in relationships. That may just take some time. Either way, do what is best for you in the moment. Don't sacrifice yourself for a relationship :).
HE IS TOO OLD FOR YOU
Why not?
It seems like he’s applying the same logic to his job as staying with you. He isn’t happy with his job or you but stays because he’s afraid of the unknown. Luckily, YOU aren’t afraid of the unknown so fuck it! Break up already. Stop wasting your time!!!!!!!
To be frank, be sounds like a short sighted idiot. For one, who's going to sign on for that plot? For another, that's a fraudulent marriage and shit will hit the fan if the military catches wind.
Ask yourself if you want this level of stupid and inconsideration in your life.
Very valid feelings.
I got my son, won’t be alone 😉 ?
she is crazy, just leave
He didn’t laugh. I think he was happy to learn I still had feelings for him. But now he has started something with this other person.
You need to run. Call your local DV hotline, a shelter might be able to figure out a situation for your pets.
So he lost a job, is going to lose another one that's only part time and doesn't get nearly enough help for his issues. And he isn't doing crap live because if he can't get up for work how can he possibly pass a class? He isn't the one OP.
You already filed. So isn’t this all too late? You don’t file accidentally. It is a process.
The question is which gets you closer to that goal? Happiness is a little subjective. Given the difficulty, it may be what decision makes you less unhappy.
What is special about the marriage counselling he wants? What does your therapist recommend?
You don’t think she should pay a bigger share if she also has a baby? She and baby will consume more utilities than you. Where is the baby’s father?
WHAT? Is he racist or something? That's like saying he dated a blonde or brunette in the past and you can't get over that. Lol. It's silly. I'm sorry you are dealing with that.
Yep. He won’t take responsibility for his actions. Which means he will likely make a “mistake” again.
Does she have money issues?
You’re going to have to rip the bandage off quickly here. Please don’t let this go on longer, as it will just make things worse… you’ve already been thinking about this for a long time, and you don’t want to make this hurt more than it needs to! Your girlfriend deserves your honesty, whether she likes it or not. I would say to her that you’re unhappy, the two of you are not compatible and it wouldn’t be fair to either of you to continue the relationship. Be careful not to assign blame to yourself or to her; it’s not going to help at this point.
As far as her mental health is concerned, as much as you want to be careful not to disturb it, her mental health is not your responsibility. All you can do is show kindness in the way you deliver your message. I’ve been with someone for 20 years who blamed me for their depression and anxiety (which was there LOOOOONG before we met). And I really questioned myself when he put the blame on me. But I didn’t cause it, and I did my best to try and be kind and helpful through tall those years together. Likely I wasn’t as helpful as I thought I was, even though I had good intentions. But now I also carry the memory of being told I caused someone to be depressed. It wasn’t true for me, and it’s not true for you. So you will need to let go of the feeling of responsibility.
I hope that the break is clean for both your sakes. Remember to look after yourself, your own boundaries (likely go no contact for a long while after in order for you both to heal). And as long as you are kind to her while being firm for your own sake, it’s all you can do.
This sounds me to like he really doesn't want you to play. He purposely picked at your character back story. he knew if he pushed and was being a jerk about it, that he could upset you. he did the same with checking your work, because he didn't want to be bothered.
Your husband sounds like a crappy DM and a disrespectful partner. I wouldn't play with nor let him be that disrespectful.
I am sorry he did that to you. the bottom line here is i think he feels DnD is something he doesn't share with you and he doesn't want to share it with you.
No problem man. You are already doing an amazing job with her as is. Just keep it up and you both will pull through.
It's only been 6 months. Not worth continuing it.