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Date: April 27, 2023
As hurtful as this dynamic is, I understand that he comes from a very un-emotional upbringing and has 0 communication skills from his past relationship. So I try to be patient.
What makes you think that your communication skills are any better?
A relationship involves two people, does it not? An argument also involves two people, does it not?
I’m a sensitive, romantic girl
Yet here you are complaining that your relationship isn't working out and you're both cycling through major fights and break ups.
Btw He will never go to therapy
Interesting that you write about him going to therapy, and neither you both going to therapy or you going to therapy.
Why do you think anyone needs to go to therapy at all? Therapists are there for individual trauma and serious issues. It's not their job to deal with melodrama.
Has anyone been in a similar relationship and tried anything that worked?
How about you try what many people do and just end the relationship and move on? This is what many people do when they find themselves in a relationship with someone that's not working out.
You see you cannot just say that he's a this type of man and you're a that type of woman, because together in a relationship you both become different people when you're with the other person. We all have various people who bring out the worst in us and it's not intentional, and it's not because they're bad or we're bad. It's simply because we're not compatible with each other.
I get that you're physically attracted to him, and he may be physically attracted to you, but physical attraction isn't anywhere near enough in a relationship. How you communicate, interact with one another and resolve issues together is also incredibly important.
I don't know.. Maybe that's where the romance comes into it in your relationship. Maybe somewhere deep down you have this belief that despite the fact he's bad for you and you're both incompatible that he will somehow change for you and everything will somehow even out. Maybe that's why you're putting up with all this melodrama.
But if that's the case then just remember that you chose to be in your relationship and you consented for things to be this way. But see life is all about relationship, and people generally don't change willingly, because we're all living on the basis of memory and what works for us against what doesn't work for us. This basis of living starts when we're 8 or 9 years old and I'm pointing this out in case you think he's going to change or that there's some fix to this – there isn't.
Just because you’re a couple doesn’t mean that he owes you an explanation which I think you understand. I’d just leave it be. Family stuff can be complex and it sounds like he just doesn’t want to go there with you.
The game is relevant because a lot of people would be upset that she chose it over hearing your news, the fact that you aren't and yet she is angry at you for calling someone else when she wasn't available speaks volumes about the dynamic of your relationship.
One rule for me, another for thee. Why does she get to be objectively rude, and yet expects you to not only wait for her to finish, but also not share it with anyone else in the meantime – your agent no less!
She's being a bit of a dick. It does beg the question of whether she is always like this?
I don't sulk. That implies I look mad or whatever. I'm just quiet. I have to think about things before I say them which is why I asked for space.
It's not, I've seen plenty both ways. That's how a healthy relationship works, give and take on bith sides and communication on what is best for you as a team. If that's been your personal expiernce I'm sorry.
Always best to ask, it could have been fun to go to a adult store together and shop around. Next time you guys are doing foreplay ask him if he wants to use the toys. Trust me toys are a game changer and at some point in your sexual relationship, it's necessary to add new things to the bedroom.
I know that but its very nude for me bc i see every day if i want or not…
Well, it sounds like he’s going to do it. And it sounds like having children will not deter him from this. Which is totally valid and his own choice. But like… I guess you have to decide if it’s a big enough of a deal for you to be a deal breaker.
It sounds like you have to not make the mistake anymore
Definitely visit your OBGYN, could be something as minor as a yeast infection or an off balance PH level that’s gone unnoticed.
I think your boyfriend is gross
He is far to old for you, dont date daddy.
He is leaving his wife because he is sick of his life. It has little to do with you, though he thinks you are his life raft
I was about to walk out right there and then and completely cut him off from my life
Do this
If you want to be nice to him tell him to take his evidence to the cops, she needs inpatient psychiatric care.
She can feel what she wants to feel. It's not your fault, enjoy your meal and let her suffer. That's her choice, not yours.
It’s very obvious she puts herself above you in any situation. You deserve better
Age isn't an indicator of experience by any means. Give the guy a chance, by at least telling him exactly what you want and expect during sex. You both are adults, just sit down and talk it out. Honest feedback is very valuable, and any decent person would appreciate it.
He says repeatedly that he had to “bully” and “push for” sex, and that, when they do have sex, he is fully aware his partner isn't enjoying it and wants it to be over.
This is grim. He's allowed to want sex and she's allowed not to without anyone being the bad guy, but what he's doing is getting towards being an actual crime*.
*In my country. I'm aware the laws may be different where he is.
You need to go with her to the ER. Tell the staff there that you can no longer provide care for her and that your home is not a safe discharge plan (use those words). Then go home and pack up her things, drop her things off with her family. You really will have to say the above multiple times. You cannot say “OK just for awhile”. From home, call the ER and get in touch with the social worker there. Repeat all of the above.
Why is this person still your friend?