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Waiting when you know you want to break up with him isn’t kind or respectful to anyone — don’t be a coward.
Hell, maybe he wants out of the relationship too and it will be a relief for both of you. Just do it. No point in waiting.
Am I misreading this post or something??? What does her father being a dick have to do with suing a company???
This response had me dead ?????
You enforced a boundary and she is trying to apologize.
Sucks that she puts so much energy into another person and not your relationship.
You sure she isn't just emotionally cheating? Time to start digging.
Thank you ?
Dating comes before being boyfriend/girlfriend and you dont bring someone you are dating to Christmas.
Tell her. Let her decide if she wants to stay or dump him.
Updateme!
I’m confused why you can’t go all out for her bday the night before or after or whatever ? Why can’t she go to the Xmas party with you as well?
I get that you’re sad and feel all the feelings. But he is playing you, he is keeping you around for this sole benefit and you need to ditch the guy.
I know you know this and I'm not trying to be callous. But you ended your relationship with him rather impulsively over your perception of his actions.
I don't know that you'll have another chance here because I'm pretty sure that specifically is why he isn't wanting to gamble on this further. “What happens next time?”
Why would she give him her number? Married women shouldn't do this, IMO. I would personally confront her without accusing and ask her to call him in front of you with him on speaker, and find out!
If I may I'd suggest looking up the “The 5 Love languages” it might shine a light into why ypu are so different in regards to occasions. Hope you guys have a great vacation ?
I remember a post from a while back involving three siblings, all of which had children. They were planning their yearly vacation and decided on Disneyland. One sibling said I can’t afford that. Other two said that blows and planned the vacation without her. So many people in the comments were like NTA, if she doesn’t have the money it’s not your problem. I literally can’t imagine excluding one of my loved ones like that. Me and my sisters would have had the whole family pool some resources to make that experience possible for them if one of us couldn’t afford it. Or not been an asshole and gone somewhere cheaper.
And do what? Rape your gf? Or tempt her so much she dumps you? I've been in countless situations where I knew my partner was around people who were interested in them. I trust my partner to make the right choices. My partner trusts me too not go and screw around and I never have. If I don't trust my partner, then there is no relationship. If you want to lock your gf up because someone else likes her and prevent her from interacting with them, I have news for you – that behavior is toxic and controlling af. If your gf was here in this thread saying “my bf tells me I can't hang out with my friends because they MIGHT be into me and he is jealous” I'd be telling this woman to run.
Honestly – its none of his business.
BUT hes always going to wonder so I'd just put it out there and if hes not comfortable then hes got a decision to make.
Its a shitty situation but if he thinks that you are somehow tainted because you had a little fun while single then you need to bounce anyways. You dont deserve to be in a relationship like that.
My gf told me about a 1 night stand she had 2 years before she ever met me and my heart sunk. The thought of her ever being with another man destroyed me. I had to do some soul searching.
She had heard me joke about all my fun in the past and told me it bithered her hearing about it so I told her to share a story. No matter how much of a dog I had been before – shit still hurt to hear that the person you think is gods gift to earth had her moments too.
Now I just laugh but I had to change my thought process about it. Its never easy hearing about any of that stuff.
So he loves you but isn’t in love with you. Kind of like friends.
I don't know about 80%, but yes confidence is important. Of course things like emotional and physical connection are important too, but it's harder to get your foot in the door to grow those connections without confidence.
The change in behavior is what’s concerning. He used to and now he doesn’t. It sounds like he doesn’t feel he has to put in anymore effort for you and he’s settling.
Mine loves to tell me how he’d massage his ex but he won’t even rub my back for more than half a minute, stopped drinking for her but gets worse for me, buy her things and paid for her rent but won’t do any of that for me and embarrassed me in front of his friends when I needed a LITTLE help with my portion of rent that we AGREED ON for the first couple of months we lived together while I still paid other bills and bought all the groceries….generally be around and involved with her but he hides in the garage and his office with me…he used to be so different and nice to me before we moved in together. His entire behavior with me abruptly changed and I’ll never forget when I found out and confronted him about talking to other girls and his exes but clearly refusing to talk about me even though he was talking about ME…like the new place HE moved in and all the gifts HE got for Christmas including the baddass real metal Zelda sword I got him (you know, strategically omitting the part about me being there or being the one who gave him those gifts but promptly moving in and telling her what his mom got him)…I was hurt because I’d always mention him…later on he was super drunk and finally came at me and told me flat out that I was irrelevant, and then promptly acted like he forgot he said that but then said it again to me another time halfway sober. He always says his truths come out when he’s drunk but of course tries to backpedal to my face when I call him out on the mean shit he says to me.
You should never have to beg someone to treat you the way you want to be treated!!
Take it as you will, but it shows so much disrespect and laziness when they stop putting forth the effort they do clearly did to others when he can’t even say a single nice thing about them…I can’t wait to be able to afford to leave finally. He can go beg them for help for all I care.
This is a sad story and painful to read. This is not what a relationship looks like. Please listen to all the comments telling you that you are in an abusive relationship. It might that seem as bad as your home life growing up, but what’s it going to look like in 10 years? Don’t confuse love with dependence and comfort. Forget couples therapy, if you aren’t in individual therapy, you owe it to your self to start going.
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OP…from all your responses..it is not that you are opposed to a second child..just not now, hence the reason you dont want to get the snip. Your gf who has been with you for 8 years and have told you she wants 2 kids wont be having a high chance to get pregnant safely since she is already 40. You being so narcicistic dont believe her when she said she will get another way to get pregnant if you're not on board..you thought who would want to impregnate a 40yo woman?. You want to wait a few years for a 2nd child, well obviously she WONT be a candidate for the mother of your 2nd child, isnt she?. You just dont see yourself being with her for the rest of your life is what I think. You said you have emotional issues, but she stuck with you for 8 years so you should be able to manage it. You say the 1st is unplan child, but you said you love your daughter still. Why oh whyy didnt you break up with your gf before you got your 1st child..you're stringing her along with her thinking you're on the same page with her all these years. You are.quite selfish OP.
Have you thought about asking him what “trying harder” looks like for him? Because if he had been trying, it’s possible he thinks he’s doing a really good job but blowing it because he doesn’t understand that his efforts are going unnoticed. (And from my experience boyfriends have a totally different idea of what relationship effort looks like to girlfriends)
If he doesn’t have anything to say, then it’s proof that he isn’t and hasn’t been trying harder, which means that your wishes are not important enough to him to make you happy.
I find in a lot of hetero relationships girls who are generally chill and low maintenance (sounds like you’re one of these) tend to end up unhappier in relationships for the exact reason why they find it easy to get relationships in the first place: there’s less effort required from the guy.
If he’s attracted to this low maintenance part of you, then it makes sense that he’s pushing it further by not even doing the basic maintenance. I’m not blaming you at all! I’m not saying you’re teaching him how to treat you. I just think that there is potential that part of the reason he is attracted to this relationship is how little you require of him, and that’s shit, and he needs to realise that your bar is already low and he’s still not measuring up.
It’d be easier if you just admitted that you’re doing it to be petty instead of putting on this white knight act. You never did and still don’t give a fuck about his feelings. You’re just avenging yours. If I were you I wouldn’t do it. You chose to tango with a taken woman. Stop being a baby and grow the up dude. Get over it and move on. If she sucks, then why do you want ANY involvement with her?
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I don’t think OP sounds quite in the state where that’s likely – they definitely binge-drink and drink to excess, but unless they have symptoms they’re not describing it doesn’t sound like they’d be in huge detox danger. They should work with a professional either way, though, for support and for safety.
May the fleas of a thousand camels inhabit your filthy crotch.
I’m going to be honest here.
I have known some models. They started at around 13 years old. Some of there girls also got big deals with famous luxury brands. They’re very beautiful girls, but by 22-25 they were “too old”. It’s disgusting, but that’s how it is unless you’re a supermodel or instagram model.
Stick with university.
I’m sure you’re beautiful, but the age you’re at… Normally model agencies target young girls. I think getting “older” girls to pay for portfolios is a source of income for them, not a way to realise a dream in the future for you.
Go to therapy if you can afford it. You’ll need to work on these issues eventually in life, and the earlier you do it, the better. I am 34 and lost a lot of opportunities and went through a lot of pain because I didn’t have the wherewithal to do therapy beforehand.
Focus on you and do it for yourself.
After a bit of time, revisit perhaps getting back with the girl.
Your mental health is more important than your boner.
But also mention this side effect to your prescriber. It is common, and sometimes they will prescribe Wellbutrin (Bupropion) to help with sexual side effects of Lexapro
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Please see a therapist. This pattern of not being able to stand up to your mom will show up in your other relationships. It will either destroy the ones you are in when you let her control you, or you will gravitate to someone controlling like her to get them to liberate you and you'll just end up with another master.
You are 27 and capable of making your own choices. Including choosing to on-line on your own, if that's what you want. Don't jump from your mom's place to your partner's place before giving yourself the chance to stand up for yourself and make a space of your own.
I’d guess a bored teenager with an over-inflated opinion of their story-telling abilities who got wrapped up in their fictional world.
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Yes I live alone. I have an apartment at 15 min drive from my parents bec they need help with groceries and stuff. I moved in briefly but moved out again as soon as I get a job.
Happened to me when I was 14 and he was 24. Surprise! Even though I went after him he should have said no because he knew better while I didn't.
*maybe grow up and focus on being an interesting and well-rounded person instead of talking about your ex all the time?
Once the lease is up pack your stuff and your son and leave. He definitely doesn't care about you or your son and obviously doesn't take care of his own dog. This is not someone worth being around especially since you have a dislike of dogs due to past trauma.
I've been attacked by dogs myself but can handle a small to medium size dog. So I get it.
This is good advice. Unfortunately your choice of genre is probably making you see things through that filter.
It sounds like the good thing is that you're starting to realise that a lot of stuff you see on-line is fantasy and can be very harmful if it happens in real life.
Mom of 4 here. You weren't surprised, which is why you took the pregnancy test so fast.
Your wife shuts down when she doesn't want to hear the truth? How does she still have a job? That is not how a responsible adult behaves.
I wouldve done the same thing
Actually we don't have kids, luckily but if we did, I wouldn't even be within sight of him, let alone the same house.
At first I told my wife I refuse to be in the same house as him but when I realized that she still intends on seeing him (at least that was her intention 2 years ago when we last talked about it), I told her I'd never let her be anywhere near him without me.
Once again I am asking women to understand that men who support “sex work” (and sugar baby is just the light version of it) are misogynistic. They don’t see women as people.
Leave him and find a better man.
How is he being manipulative?
Don’t lie and say you’re in a relationship or gay. Tell her you aren’t interested in dating. If she doesn’t respect your boundaries, go to HR
guess you gotta hoist her on the applebee’s bathroom sink then
Don't retract it, but airing your dirty laundry on TikTok is weirdo behavior and you should probably avoid this in the future even if the guy isn't breaking into your bank accounts
Buy her flowers, and say sorry.
In the future if she ever asks “do these pants make me look fat”? The answer is always No.
I think this is the definition of incompatible. Go find someone who is. You’ll be much happier. I promise from experience
You have every right to do what you want in any relationship, it’s your body etc but a successful relationship takes two people. Your failed to take your partner’s feelings into account before you made major changes and want to force home to accept it. That’s not how successful relationships work. While we are free to choose our actions, we are not free to choose the consequences of our actions. I’ve been married forever over 40 years and everything I do I consider how will feel and if I’m not sure, then we communicate and she does the same. It’s obvious that you are too young to be in a serious relationship. End the relationship and stop trying to get validation from Reddit for your choices that you made to upset your relationship.
Yuck. I wouldn’t even want to share air with him ever again. You do you, but the trauma of what you witnessed will pop into your head every time he even leans in for a kiss. The hurt from him keeping her around and not even getting her out of your home and the disrespect from that behavior will never leave you. They are both garbage.
Go to therapy if that is what you want. Heck maybe you two will work it out but I do think you might struggle with trusting him
Thanks you very much for your answer. It’s very thoughtful. I did try to have a conversation but it ended up in a « well maybe we should breakup then », then I came crying to his house and he changed his mind.. So I’m afraid to bring it up again, seems to make things worst.
I’ll try to do that if I call him yes, thanks.
My instinct doesn’t push me in a direction more than an other, and my feelings tell me to stay no matter what (which I know isn’t a good mindset).
Thanks, yeah it’s very nude not to feel like a worthless parasite hahah..
Tks!
No I work full time
If you went through the trouble of going through her phone, I hope you screen shot everything. And sent them to yourself.
What you do is you ask her how her night was and what she did. And you ask her why she got home so late after saying she was getting a uner around 330.
If you can explain the time gap and mentions Harry, your fine. If she can't and doesn't mention him? Then you break out the screenshots
Oh someone came, OP while writing this.
Op is delusional and not listening to shit.
Case closed.
I saw those links – I’m home from work and I’ll be reading them a little later.
It’s nude to explain that you don’t realize this stuff is happening or that it’s bad or whatever. It’s naked to put the whole thing into words so other people understand.
I’m just glad I will learn and be able to be more aware if anything happens in the future. I wasn’t even aware of what a narcissist was until a friend (Bee) of mine was telling me about his ex husband.. who ghosted him. My “friend” had been drilling into my head that I was a narcissist & I told him that I’m a narcissist, my friend tells me all the time. Bee said, “I’ve known you for over a decade and a half.. you are far from a narcissist. A little self centred, but far from a narcissist.” That’s when I found out what a narcissist is, what they do.. etc etc which put more insight into what was going on with this person and their behaviour.
Thank you again!!
What was the argument about, was your apology genuine, and why are you so convinced he's upset if he says he's fine?
I told her ages ago and we reconnected and we had a serious talk about it but we also laughed about it to lighten the serious mood.
Also idk why you’re so nude on the feelings being involved being my own. Obviously I have vested interest but only person who’s feelings actually matter here are my partners. I’ve even shown them this post and conversed with them about some of the other comments. It’s wild to me that you’re directly assuming my partner has no personal feelings towards being misgendered or having to be around people who might have the capacity to act civil but still very well may still think down on them for simply existing. That’s an uncomfortable situation for THEM. The issue I’m having is AGAIN let me repeat- my brother being dismissive of my trans partner. Does he have the capacity to learn and grow without changing his fundamental belief system? I think so… but what do I know, I just personally know him.
I've got some advice for you. If you don't want kids, then wear a condom.
Oh, right, it's a little late for that advice. Just do whatever you want to do, but make a decision and do it quickly so everyone else can plan accordingly. Stay and be a husband/father, bail and let her do it alone, or try co-parenting but make the decision and commit to it.
Maybe do some work on yourself to figure out why this bothers you so much?
There is nothing wrong with posting bikini pics on a 24hr snap chat story, not even on her feed, come on. This sounds more like you are SUPER insecure.
The horror, a woman revealing her skin to others. How daaaaaaaare she!?
What isn’t.
She has broken the trust in the relationship.
You need to know how badly.
The decision to continue the relationship is yours and yours alone, and only someone stupid would make that decision without the information.
And her cutting all contact and communication with her affair partner is the least of the consequences of her actions.
And your kids deserve to either have 2 loving parents together, or 2 happy parents separated, not 2 parents who resent if not hate each other.
Tell him to go down on you or whatever, and that you'll tell him when it's time to move to something else. He might be getting bored but that's selfishness and laziness, not adhd. It's time to take the reins. I agree with everyone saying get yours first. Too many men think sex stops when they cum.
It doesn’t appear that you are over reacting. There seems to be interest there and a lack of full disclosure. Decide if you want to wait and see or be done. Id say talk it out but this unwillingness to be open about their conversations make me feel that would not work.
Lol everyones advice is always leave like yep leave clearly the simplest and obvious choice just pack up and leave…makes me think they've never been in a relationship.
the bait is so strong here it is nude to resist…I am giving you exactly what you want. hopefully you will give me what I want next..
well look at it this way…you meet someone and they show you and tell you exactly what they want. Have ok sex. Get on fine and then when you go to tell them you want them to stop and only focus on you, they do a line and tell you to move on as they have other things they enjoy..then they go do another line, have some amazing sex (trust me sex is not amazing when coked out), get on great, do some more coke and party..
How many people do you know that do that.
well bing I worked in bars/clubs for decades I can safely say I know a shit ton of people that do that…You might need to throw in a missing detail as the bait is getting kinda dry.
How confident are you that he is really separated from his wife? And if this were to be the start of something, are you prepared to be perceived as the homewrecking mistress when it comes out? Just stay away from married men
Info: what is he doing on the weekends? I get that weeknights can be hectic but he must have time on the weekends.
Time to have that conversation, before moving in together!
Just tell him!
Didnt see anyone else say this in the many comments \s, but he needs to see a doctor
You’re not paranoid if you’re right.
That said, I see very little evidence in here that you are right. The messages are weird, but I’ve done that before for non-illicit reasons. Her going into the other room to talk makes perfect sense if she wants privacy from you. Which is not evidence at any wrong doing! She’s allowed to not want you involved in every conversation she has.
If she is cheating, then fuck, that sucks. If she’s not, and you push too nude, you’ll push her away. I’d get a lot more evidence that’s a lot less circumstantial before leveling any sort of accusation
She is lying. She wanted to hurt you as much as possible, and calling you “b@tch” didn't upset you enough. So she got creative and said what would be the most hurtful thing for you and that you couldn't verify.
Block her. Let her drown in her own venom.
I am sorry for your loss.
I recently proposed to my girlfriend last year. These are my thoughts to help you out:
my girlfriend's father is very traditional, southern gentleman type, and really really respects this sort of tradition. He is a nice guy – just very old school and kind of sentimental in an old-fashioned way.
This is enough to try and ask for his blessings.
My girlfriend has also mentioned off-hand (half joking, but not really joking) that her dad would be incredibly offended if I proposed without asking for his blessing.
You should really ask for his blessings UNLESS she would really get mad at you if you did. Get a feel for it. I know you said that she seems against it because of stereotypes or whatever, BUT if she isn't going to get mad about it where it ruins your relationship, I suggest you do. I asked my now fiance's parents for their blessings and even though I wasn't all for it or against it, I wouldn't have done it any other way and it was what they wanted as well.
Is this a joke??
We have always been open about what we want in bed.
So these are your words. Time to start being open.
I have to say too-you don’t seem all that eager by the sound of it. You say you’re content with just him, but at the bottom you say something different. You don’t have to do everything he wants in bed, it’s totally ok for some fantasies to stay fantasies.
If you really do want to, that’s fine, but I want to warn you, if you’re forcing yourself to do sexual things with him that you don’t actually enjoy, you have a very good chance of not only not wanting to do those specific things, you can become completely sex-averse, or even end up with physical issues such as vaginismus (closed vagina that cannot be penetrated) or other things as your body and brain try to protect themselves. And let me tell you, it fucking sucks when that happens.
I did a lot of things I didn’t want to do with just about every partner I’ve ever had. I don’t enjoy rough BDSM, but most partners requested it, and I was worried about coming off as immature or silly. So I let them all abuse me.
It caught up to me though. It took 40 years, but now I can rarely even have an orgasm and any feelings of arousal are almost always accompanied by crippling anxiety.
We've been together over a year.
Yall really got stop entering relationships with these alleged “platonic” friends of the opposite sex. I mean at the end of the day you do you, it's not impossible for a relationship with that dynamic to work, but they rarely come without headaches.
Uh. I hate to tell you this, but he is just not that into you, and never was. He said what he did to let you down easily. He never wanted you, and was probably never actually attracted to you, he just didn't want to hurt your feelings. I have a feeling that despite what you think you have not actually been first in his life. I would alsp caution to guess that you've already crossed one too many boundaries, and the wife has had enough. He's choosing her because he actually wants to be with her, not you, never you. Leave his family alone, and move on with your life. You go to his family, and you will lose them too. Although I'm betting that is coming soon any way.
Obviously he has a drinking problem, but I’m my experience men who speak to their girlfriends / wives like that while drunk don’t respect women at all, even when sober. They can just hide it when they aren’t drinking. I’m sorry you are dealing with this, but the best you can probably do is leave him.
Thank you. I appreciate you much
OF COURSE your WIFE should come first.
“Friend” doesn't sound like a very good friend if she's complaining about that.
He’s crawled back into the closet. Feel pity for him but you are better off without him.
He’s too insecure and possibly turned around by his religion to be who he really is. That’s sad.
Go off and be happy without him. You’ll find someone else who will want to hold your hand and kiss you in public. Who will be proud to call you his bf. Who won’t cheat on you or say nasty things about you to other people.
Block him on everything. Delete his number. You’ll be amazed at how much you were hurt by this breakup once you are in a really healthy relationship.
You could always start off by telling if you're looking for marriage, which may result in him telling you if he is/isn't looking for marriage. If it doesn't your followup would be “what about you?” Or whatever
Alternatively just ask him straight up
He's gf's lack of self preservation and sense is quite alarming! This is definitely a deal breaker.