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Divorce is a good option.
So, the first girl just sounds like she's just not that interested in your friendship. That doesn't make her mean or rude or anything like that. You're coworkers and she (maybe) just already has a full social calendar and isn't interested in intermingling with her coworkers. That's not uncommon: it happens, it just sucks to be in your shoes when it does.
The second friend, is an odder situation. Sometimes feelings can be weird with people who tried dating, even if he was still hung up on his ex. He might be busier but, maybe pursuing 1-on-1 hang-outs with you is still weird for him. I've tried this with people that I've gone on a few dates in the past with too, and it always just kinda fades away until you don't chat anymore, IME.
Real advice though, find a social hobby like a sports club: join a fencing club, or a social hiking club, or table tennis club, learn to sail, pick up some old HS sport again (like volleyball, gymnastics, or basketball). Join a board game group, knitting club, or book club.
Honestly, make friends by doing something interesting with people who have like interests. As an adult, who is nearing the end of standard college age that's how you meet friends and develop a healthy social circle. From this point onward you're only ever going to be less likely to gel with people like coworkers and random people at the bar… It's easy in HS and college when everyone around you is the same age and doing the same thing (school). Now, is the time to find who your group of people as an adult is. Figure out where your community is and you'll find friends.
Sounds like she has abandonment issues because her parents. Poor girl. Sadly you can’t take responsibility for how she acts just do it the right way and don’t move on so fast you need to heal as much as she does when you’re in a toxic relationship you both need to detox and get your mind right before you move to the next, it took me literally telling my ex that I had started dating apps to get him to leave me alone, but it worked and here I am working through all these feelings alone. Therapy helps recognize the feelings, and I have learned to sit and appreciate them.
Uh, yes? If they’re willing to say it to him.
I’d say groomed for sure, if you just stayed on-line friends I’d say it’s harmless but meeting up after he started talking to you at 16 while he was 27 is for sure sketchy
So she was informing you, and that would have been the time to say that makes you feel uncomfortable. She also can talk through that type of camera, which is probably why she went with that brand, so she can tell her dog off.
Waiting on the results from his covid test. He can even take one at the last minute, so you didn't lie.
Leave, save yourself.
It's been a week, of course it's naked. But she will survive and so will you.
You did something unforgivable and don't really see it as a bad thing, you are judt willing to stop because it hurt her. But she is telling you she can't be with someone that doesn't believe it is inherently bad to use that language. So you clearly are not the type of person she wants to be with.
She feels so bad because she thought you were different. Just because she feels bad doesn't mean she should come back. You are not a person she wants to be in a relationship with
“I accept that a trans woman wouldnt lie but what about a straight man?”
I understand that EITHER could lie and believing that one wouldnt is in itself biggotry. Also good luck to them with that question.
She got dumped.
Having a college degree isn’t necessarily going to motivate him to get a better job. There are tons of people who have degrees and never went anywhere with them.
She stayed with me through a year of meth induced psychosis where I was seeing and hearing shit that wasn’t happening and accusing her of the most… she distanced her self at that time and cheated but I was being a complete weirdo psycho about everything now that I sobered up and been out
Are you using again?
But being mentally ill doesn't excuse him leading this woman on for 20 years! If your mental illness makes you do this and never in 20 years it crosses your mind that what you do is utterly unfair to the other person you might as well say that his mental illness makes him evil
Plenty of stones to go around!
Verbal abuse is an extremely valid reason to end a relationship. You have described several instances of verbal abuse, as well as some emotional mistreatment. If your wife has told you that this behavior can never happen again, you sure as shit better believe her. Mental health ans stress are not acceptable excuses for being abusive.
This post is icky to me. I’m sorry, OP, I know you genuinely feel like you’re doing everything you can and she doesn’t see or appreciate it. I hear that. But. BUT.
Have you ever asked her if she wants the things you’re doing…? I’m with a lot of other commenters, love notes and love poems and flowers and daily phone calls would drive me insane. You involve yourself in her hobbies—does she want you involved in her hobbies?
Some of us need space. You’re not telling us what your wife has said and she’s not here to speak for herself, so the best I can do is explain how I’d feel, and how I would feel is completely suffocated and as if all your “affection” is a performance to which I’m meant to respond with a (sexual) performance of my own.
Also, weeks between sex is not that long for a lot of couples.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself, good lord. You’re not a victim. LISTEN to your wife. Don’t have “the last word.”
Oh please don’t even….with the “treats me well” phrase. This is how it translates when you say that. “My boyfriend is a liar, a cheater, a drug addict, sneaky, and behind my back uses me for bait hoping that one guy says yes, then I get to be pimped out to stranger so my body can be violated because my boyfriend clearly does not respect me, or see my body as anything but a fleshlight for him to entice men into bed with him. But oh I am so comfy with him and he treats me well. Umm……no, he does not. Not in the slightest. A real man that treats his girlfriend right would not be doing things that have her sitting here all broken hearted over his infidelities.
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She already has high cholesterol and her blood pressure has gone up as well as these run in her family. Diabetes also runs in her family. I am concerned about my future partners health just as much as I am not attracted to the overweight look. Wouldn’t it make sense to diet and exercise to prevent those and possibly reverse those issues to on-line a happier longer life? I’ve never seen anyone with diabetes scarfing down sugar cubes because it makes them happy.
It is a stupid rule. Imagine a partner telling you that masturbating is cheating. It’s controlling, and it’s gross.
But he agreed to it, and that’s on him.
You let go of it an move on.
It’s pretty obvious right?
did you just ignore all the context of this post and why i might have come to that conclusion before you made this comment?
Honestly? No. A good relationship isn't like this at all. A good relationship feels easy, because your foundation, trust, and communication are strong. You don't have to fight if you can listen to each other and talk things out as they come up. You don't have to bicker if you can negotiate fairly. You don't have to hurt each other if you can both respect each other and build each other up. A good relationship feels like an unbreakable team, and a safe place to be vulnerable. It's joy and excitement, security and peace. Yes, there will be issues that arise, but small things only become big things when they aren't properly addressed. A mature adult manages themselves, they don't force their partner into contortions to soothe their insecurities. If you do have toxic traits you work on them yourself, in therapy. You do NOT unleash them on your partner. You are self-aware of what you need to work on, and actively seek to be better.
The more you cater to him, the more he will understand that you will bend over backwards to do whatever he wants you to do, and he will never, ever, ever change. Your soulmate? Girl. Girl. You're falling for the idea that you can be this perfect angel in his life that will “fix” him. But that very notion, that there is more that YOU can do for him, is flawed at its core. Nobody can change another person. Nobody can save them. They have to choose that and pursue it for themselves. If they don't, you will stay trapped by their need to control you, trapped by the limitations they put on you, trapped by the life you feel like you can't escape, trapped by your own fear of rocking the boat. You may not be shackled physically, but you will be locking yourself in a cage. You've only been with this loser for a few months. Get out now – while you still can.
If he can’t come up with a compelling reason as to why you can’t have access to literally any part of his life at this stage of the relationship, you need to call it. Either he’s hiding something (a wife, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, whatever) or he’s concerned or embarrassed about what his family’s reaction will be. There’s nothing else that it could be.
Which cheek?
End it, focus on yourself. This girl is not going to let you spread your wings, and going all the way with her, will let you end up asking for permission to just grab a drink with a bud.
She'll also tell the next guy, that she wants to be only with him, don't worry about that.
You need to do some real honest self assessment. First off – your partner said she doesn't feel safe with you. Why?
Demand an answer and don’t take “I don’t know”for one. He knows. He has to admit what the answer is.
That’s messed up and not normal at all. There is no reason for your boyfriend to be doing those things besides his own sick amusement.
Herpes can stay in your body for decades without you knowing. There's absolutely no way to determine where you got it from. It's unlikely that the brief contact of a kiss would be enough to catch it though. You two however, need to run fast to a therapist, as your boundaries are a mess and you haven't reconciled your pasts. That's the problem, not where you got herpes.
Is this your gf or your mom?? Why are you even entertaining these ridiculous “rules”?
I’m still confused. Seems to me all genders cheat.
aftercare is for after shit like bdsm. Its not on him to be at your beck and call after having vanilla sex. if you want him to get you warm water, ask him. its on you to ask, not on him to predict. it’s not like you do any of that for him either. why should he give what he doesn’t get?
They were all over the place. From that she’s been asking me to make a doctors appointment (nothing wrong just haven’t been in a while), to that I don’t do dishes as much as she does. She even said she didn’t feel like I was as committed to the idea of getting a house as she has been and didn’t think I was saving money for a down payment (I have been). She said she felt like she was “taking care” of me.
ok thank you so much I will then not do anything??
Whenever I ask him on what I can do. He tells me just me talking to him helps
Just do that. Try to push normalcy since it sounds like that is what helps.
You do not deserve this wtf. Some men truly feel entitled to say whatever is on their mind and think that’s okay. Find you someone who loves your body exactly as it is and tells you how beautiful it is. Cuz baby he AINT it!!!!