His post screams tho that he needs therapy. He isn’t ready to be in a relationship and he will drive mad pretty much any woman in his life unless it’s someone who wants to just sleep around
Yeah, do you think I have the right to be upset at her though? I do my best to be understanding and put myself in her shoes, however I don't let my past stop me from doing life, ya know ?
Your kids are in school for 8 hours per day. And have been for quite some time.
Sounds like it’s time for you to get a job, get your own bank account, build your own credit, and stop depending on someone who has left you in the position to have nothing.
You can’t MAKE him put the house in your name. So it’s time you start taking care of yourself
The image one intentionally projects can be and often is different from the one projected onto them by others. Is this “innocent” image one that she is projecting or simy what you're choosing to see? Can you identify specific, unambiguous examples of her intentionally trying to seem innocent to you? She said, with what sounds like no hesitation, that her friends wouldn't call her innocent, which makes me think she never actually tried to seem innocent to you and you assigned her that persona yourself.
Is a dead wife the risk you’re willing to take? Because that’s the message you’re sending her. It’s more important to you to have more babies than it is for her to be alive and healthy.
I’m sorry I don’t think that I was very clear on that comment. We currently have a home that is next-door to my parents in Louisiana I am currently working out of Texas, which is technically closer to her family so if I move my family with me where I work, she would be within two hours of her family as opposed to four hours. Where are we currently on-line in Louisiana. So in my mind, I feel like it makes sense that I could be home every day to help my wife with the kids and spend time with my wife and kids and she would be well within visiting distance of her family and not be right next-door to my family did she has issues with. I agree I am definitely going to have to make changes to make this work. I just want to make the right choices for all of our futures.
Sorry, this is one of those absolutes that if one absolutely does and one absolutely doesn't, the relationship absolutely won't work.
What are you going to do? Try and wear her down? Try and convince her? Promise you'll do all the work? Baby-trap her?
Do you want your future kids to have a mom who never wanted them? only had them to make you happy? will probably resent them?
Or will you go through life desperately wanting kids and not having them to make her happy? Are you still going to be madly in love with her at 40, 50, 60, when you're childless because you sacrificed that for her?
You're both very young. And minds can definitely change. Life happens. But only the two of you know how absolute you are on this decision, and if that's the case, then you need to look to how that's going to look for the two of you in the future.
All I'm gonna say is if a man said something rude to his partner because he felt entitled to sex, none of you would be defending him in the comments like you are her. Talking about “her self esteem” and needing to “reassure her you're still attracted to her”. Bullshit. A man is allowed to not want sex without it being the end of the world for his partner, she needs to grow up.
Dodged a bullet. He's probably going to phrase it as you broke up with him because he wouldn't give up his dog and probably sob story to your mutual aquaintances. I think it's important to have clear phrasing “no I broke up with you because of boundaries you refuse to set with your dog.”
It does exist on a spectrum, but some of us are still completely straight and frankly I’m tired of hearing that I probably just need to grab a boob to discover that I’m bi. I would never do that to anyone who told me they were anything other than straight. It’s rude.
Plus…my husband became my ex-wife several years ago, but before she did, I really considered whether or not I could stay with her. I did love her once, of course. But in the end, I have zero sexual attraction to women.
Congratulations on being married and a wonderful wedding! Glad that it went so well.
Well, yes. You just told him that you want a shiny rock to impress your friends more than you want to spend your lives together. Of course he's angry.
His post screams tho that he needs therapy. He isn’t ready to be in a relationship and he will drive mad pretty much any woman in his life unless it’s someone who wants to just sleep around
The tuna fart is wise. Sorry op.
Yeah, do you think I have the right to be upset at her though? I do my best to be understanding and put myself in her shoes, however I don't let my past stop me from doing life, ya know ?
Your kids are in school for 8 hours per day. And have been for quite some time.
Sounds like it’s time for you to get a job, get your own bank account, build your own credit, and stop depending on someone who has left you in the position to have nothing.
You can’t MAKE him put the house in your name. So it’s time you start taking care of yourself
The image one intentionally projects can be and often is different from the one projected onto them by others. Is this “innocent” image one that she is projecting or simy what you're choosing to see? Can you identify specific, unambiguous examples of her intentionally trying to seem innocent to you? She said, with what sounds like no hesitation, that her friends wouldn't call her innocent, which makes me think she never actually tried to seem innocent to you and you assigned her that persona yourself.
The way you're reacting to this just proves that George was right. If this is even a real post.
Is a dead wife the risk you’re willing to take? Because that’s the message you’re sending her. It’s more important to you to have more babies than it is for her to be alive and healthy.
I’m sorry I don’t think that I was very clear on that comment. We currently have a home that is next-door to my parents in Louisiana I am currently working out of Texas, which is technically closer to her family so if I move my family with me where I work, she would be within two hours of her family as opposed to four hours. Where are we currently on-line in Louisiana. So in my mind, I feel like it makes sense that I could be home every day to help my wife with the kids and spend time with my wife and kids and she would be well within visiting distance of her family and not be right next-door to my family did she has issues with. I agree I am definitely going to have to make changes to make this work. I just want to make the right choices for all of our futures.
Sorry, this is one of those absolutes that if one absolutely does and one absolutely doesn't, the relationship absolutely won't work.
What are you going to do? Try and wear her down? Try and convince her? Promise you'll do all the work? Baby-trap her?
Do you want your future kids to have a mom who never wanted them? only had them to make you happy? will probably resent them?
Or will you go through life desperately wanting kids and not having them to make her happy? Are you still going to be madly in love with her at 40, 50, 60, when you're childless because you sacrificed that for her?
You're both very young. And minds can definitely change. Life happens. But only the two of you know how absolute you are on this decision, and if that's the case, then you need to look to how that's going to look for the two of you in the future.
You insulted her and reduced what you had to like the mutual masturbation. I just want anything to do with you I’d leave her alone.
Tell him you’ll get a tighter vagina when he gets a bigger dick
I don't know that's the thing.. we both have full time jobs etc but I guess it's just a feeling…
All I'm gonna say is if a man said something rude to his partner because he felt entitled to sex, none of you would be defending him in the comments like you are her. Talking about “her self esteem” and needing to “reassure her you're still attracted to her”. Bullshit. A man is allowed to not want sex without it being the end of the world for his partner, she needs to grow up.
Is it over when you’re finished? Or do you keep going eventually, do you do other things until she’s done too, etc?
Dodged a bullet. He's probably going to phrase it as you broke up with him because he wouldn't give up his dog and probably sob story to your mutual aquaintances. I think it's important to have clear phrasing “no I broke up with you because of boundaries you refuse to set with your dog.”
It does exist on a spectrum, but some of us are still completely straight and frankly I’m tired of hearing that I probably just need to grab a boob to discover that I’m bi. I would never do that to anyone who told me they were anything other than straight. It’s rude.
Plus…my husband became my ex-wife several years ago, but before she did, I really considered whether or not I could stay with her. I did love her once, of course. But in the end, I have zero sexual attraction to women.