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It’s ok if you go out alone sometimes. It’s might even help your relationship. I think you should say you’re happy for her to have alone time , as long as you can do the same some times.
I suggest you don't do it. I've seen it go wrong very quickly. Jealousy is a strange thing.
Excuse you, I married my high school sweet heart and we've been married/best friends for 18 years. Sometimes it just works out.
There is nothing weird or inappropriate about showering with your own 3 year old.
It's also no harm in not doing it.
You criticize when she doesn’t meet your expectations, and she criticizes when you don’t meet hers. You both have the same problem. Instead of share or ask for what you want and feels good to you, you both believe that the other is wrong for not doing what you prefer.
For you, if you didn’t like all her questions why go a whole year playing along with it? You do have a say. Google signs if conflict avoidance or people pleasing, see it that matches for you. And it could help you both to google how to turn a complaint into a request so you learn to ask for what you want and negotiate for it, so you don’t go immediately to criticizing others when you don’t get it right away,
Men tend to very much love their space and time and sometimes especially if you get a few hours every week being with your girl, it kinda gives them the impression that you don't value their presence. I'm a dude and personally this has sometimes got me into issues with my woman. I would sometimes come from work and all I wanted was to freshen up, eat and watch some documentaries. What I can advise is that you try and have a balance and talk to her. Plan specific days for just the two of you.
PS: I'm typing hurriedly as I want to get back to work. All the best pal
Make him feel appreciated, assert his value to you perhaps by cooking his favourite dinner or making a cake, watching his favourite movie or go out to his favourite place, and top it off with a small, thoughtful gift that aligns with your boyfriend's interest. It doesn't have to be an expensive or extravagant gift, just something nice will suffice.
For example, my boyfriend is really into cars and loves sushi so I spent a month trying sushi recipies and made a cake in the shape of a motorcycle. I top it off with a couple of tickets to a motocycle race. He was over the moon!
If you dont find anything, arent you the bad partner now?
Nope.
I get tested every six months and whenever I catch a new body as a precaution. Not commenting on this situation, but getting tested shouldn't be treated as an indicator of wrongdoing.
Damn we're out here being mean to randos today? Who pissed in your soup?
You're overthinking this imo. Your friend does sound like a jerk and you evidently glossed over it as just “his sense of humor” so you also played a part in not diffusing the situation.
With that said, your girlfriend should not have called him out in front of people. She definitely owes him an apology and you should not wait til who knows when to have her offer it. Even a text apology is better than letting it sit in the air for an extended period.
As for your gf being demanding, you need to shut that shit down. You're not her servant you're her boyfriend. You do nice things because you want to not because you're her servant.
Take the measures now to keep her in check to find out what kind of longevity this relationship has.
“I haven’t known [name] for long, but in that time I have found her to be the most [characteristic] person i know….” Then go into wishing her well in her marriage.
Honey. If he wanted to marry you he would have married you.
You shouldn't be in this stage no matter how old you are. Sex is a MASSIVE part of a relationship, most people will agree it's what separates a relationship from just being really good friends. If things aren't working out in the bedroom, then the relationship isn't working out.
Voice your concerns, tell them how you feel, find out how they feel. There's likely a cause for this. If they can't give you a reason, or become hostile or defensive, leave. You're young, you don't need to put up with that.
Congratulations, very happy for you! That giddyness is amazing, it will last a long time if you take care of each other!
It is great that you were able to be open and talk about it being new, both of you being nervous and so on. My top advice is – never stop doing that. Remember how you felt less nervous when you realized how anxious he was? I bet he was the same.
Tell him of your anxieties, and you will find them shrinking every time you reassure one another.
Oh, and don't get stuck on lables. It is hard enough to find a person that is special to you, without trying to fit into predetermined boxes. Know though, there are lots of people who will support you in the lgbtq community
He's in a mental hospital and you think that the main issues are communication related? That's some tip-top advice there tiger.
Unfollow & block the both of them on social media, you don't need to be constantly reminded of the heartbreak as it will stop you from moving forward.
Whoa there, Fat Tony. Relax, bud.
I don't know why you think he is earning more than the typical 23 year old -probably if you include students and people working for minimum wage. But whether or not you think he is making decent money or not is not the question here.
Re-read the post. His significant other does not consider $144K annually a decent income for a dual income household three years from now. I think she's right. You don't. But neither of us are going to shack up with this guy.
In the United States, depending where you online, his behavior likely violates data privacy laws, and he can be subject to punishment up to & including termination.
His superiors must be notified. And any documentation you can supply will help.
So you've been in love with your husband since 17, but also spent years getting over an ex before you started dating again? Getting over a high school relationship is not a feather in your cap that gives you some podium to lecture others about what it means to get over an ex they loved.
I think it’s probably similar to a girl using a vibrator, where it’s just a tool to reach the end.
That's your sister not your parents. Jesus dude you can't even sort out who in your family your wife is mad at. What did your parents do?
While you’re right, I think every relationship has personal boundaries and everyone’s different.
Just because someone doesn’t like something doesn’t mean they’re wrong, it would be wrong to force my girlfriend to change her behaviour but I wouldn’t do that.
At the end of the day if we don’t work, I’ll find someone else who works better for me. But this really isn’t a big deal at the end of the day for me.
everyone is entitled to boundaries and to decide who they want to date and who they don’t.
i, for instance, don’t date judgmental close-minded people who think my worth is solely defined by having had a sex life or relationship history prior to them.
also, “comes from a good family” and calls people she’s dated in the past “trashy” – let’s not call out the obvious class elephant in the room here why don’t we.
Let’s be real here: he had a thing for her in high school and didn’t like that she didn’t just give him what he wanted like his over privileged rich boy self was used to, and no one ever taught him how to deal with that.
Tell her if it actually happens that there will be no second chance and you're gone.
I’m sorry ur going through this.
Do not wait almost 3 weeks to break up with her. You know right now. The nicest thing you can do is be honest right now.
you’re manipulative and you are a predator.
I think so too but she said it and I was kind of shocked
Yeah shirt will be awkward if he doesn’t wear it or it doesn’t fit
Bro got fact'd and is now salty about it lol.
This dude is not your soulmate. He has no respect for you. Dump him.
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you keep saying “IT’s” not about this, “IT’s” not about that. what is IT, exactly? your issue?? so ITs not about a specific brand, ITs not about being real gold or not, ITs not about price… what is IT about?!
you keep saying “IT’s” not about this, “IT’s” not about that. what is IT, exactly? your issue?? so ITs not about a specific brand, ITs not about being real gold or not, ITs not about price… what is IT about?!
Thank you for the tough love, maybe it is best to end it before it becomes more
This is interesting …my best friend is a therapist I’m gonna read her you story and see what this could be and I will come back and update you !
What fucking 20 year old doesn’t know about discharge lmao. Leave him sis wtf
Please do not go back to this man. You could have died and he doesn't give a shit. You deserve so much better.
My girl.
For starters- no- that is not even close to normal Mom/son dynamics. Her calling him to come see her hard, and straddling him in bed is weird and creepy as hell.
Unfortunately, it’s gonna be on him to solve it, assuming you can even get him to listen to your concerns.
You definitely need to say something to him and if he doesn’t see a problem with it, then I’m not sure there’s a way to make him understand.
He is YOUR husband, and that should be his first priority. If it doesn’t wind up being so, then I guess you have a lot of thinking to do. I can’t imagine that any relationship he has will last all that long with his mom getting all horny on main and acting like his gf.
Good luck, friend.
I don’t get what’s indirect about asking for more information… some people don’t feel comfortable asserting something without knowing the background.
Um.. I don’t think you should use this car situation as a reason to break up with him. Sounds like the tip of the iceberg. This guy does not respect you or your property. Break up with him.
Oh, and never ever let somebody drive your car. Period. Ever.
Girl he’s 100% cheating
No they aren’t and no they wouldn’t. Time for a new boyfriend
Yeah I have always looked on Reddit but never commented, never thought about that if you get me? It’s like strolling through fb and not commenting idk
Dude I'd be so pissed if anyone did that to me. And!! You went behind her back to talk to her boss. So embarrassing. This isn't a movie. It's real life. Be considerate of her day to day life and if you're going to surprise her with something make sure it'll actually add value to her life and not detract from it.
This guy isn’t my boyfriend you’re talking sh*t about me but you can’t even read. Seriously learn how to read before trying to insult people online. Take your own advice and get a therapist.
Truth? I strongly suggest that you run. She’s manipulative and beyond needy and you haven’t even gone on a date yet. Oof
You probably have a sexy energy. Some people exude sensuality naturally, and he's not used to his gf being one of those people.
Babes easy to say not easy to do.
I have a feeling your wife meant flings when she suggested an open marriage (“get your needs taken care is”) and not that you actually start dating people; if this becomes a regular thing, you need to have a conversation at least with your FwB to explain that you’re strictly that— friends with benefits.
Why tf would you bring it up again? She was afraid/ nervous to outright reject you for whatever reason. Leave her alone from now on. On the off chance she was just nervous to say “yes,” oh well let her ask you. If she was just playing hard to get then move on. No one needs games. Just leave her be and don't force interaction unless you're doing a group event.
I'm puzzled. Why would you provide this for her? Child already has a father and she should look into legal remedies to sort out child support.
Why would you be someone's ATM machine?
M25 never should have provided the second chance, M25 should break things off now
M25 never should have provided the second chance, M25 should break things off now
This shit is satire right? Oh no an adult who decided to let down their hair because their partner who works away has the kids, how very dare she!! Let me put my pearls on to clutch them.
Please OP in comments bitched about having to deal with 1 fussy kid, they ain't going to handle doing what their wife does, get a grip.
Smart guy
Oh I am definitely stealing this.
have you ever sat down and talked about it to him. Not in an accusatory tone, just “I get that when you are sick you feel like you just want to roll over and die, I sympathize cuz when I'm sick that's exactly what I want to do. So here's the new rule, what is good for you is good for me. When I get sick I roll over and die, you get to do EVERYTHING in this apartment and when you are sick I return the favour to the same degree. I feel that's fair don't you?”
So now it's become a tit for tat instead of you being a bang maid and nurse.
If he complains tell him he is more then welcome to go back to his mother as you are his partner and expect him to pull his own weight even while sick because it's what he expects of you.
And just to send further chills down your spine, picture yourselves with 2 kids hanging off you crying because they are hungry/bored/dirty/he hit meee!!!!
Tell him what you expect, you expect him to medicate himself to control the symptoms and get shit done to the best of his abilities and then collaps on the sofa. if he wants to be treated like an invalid child then he can go back to his mothers.
Yeah. Makes me, and probably the wife, think he's trying to hide something and we don't know the full story here.
Yea, those are really kind of in line with my own thoughts. The most paralyzing thing is the thought of telling her and if it doesn't work out, that creates an awkward rift in our relationship. I only have a small group of friends that it'd really hurt to lose someone so close.
Nah you’re trolling and I don’t give a shit about your pictures. The name you already DMed on is your actual account. Should probably try to keep your stories straight.
You only do that when you are afraid. This SHOULD not happen in relationship. It will get worse in time.
Do you see him as father / authority figure?. This may be the case, deep down you feel inferior to him, look up to him instead of being as someone of equal to you.
He was in school so no, he wasn't using anything. He started because his job was really overwhelming, but he's changed a lot
Mold is toxic and can in time generate cancer. Also it is generating allergies. Which may be what makes you feel sick there.
Question is: what is her alternative?
Now that there is black mold pulling up tge heating won't help.
Nah, you’re clueless. You told him how you betrayed your girlfriends trust, and were trying to hide it. She deserves to know that shit. Put yourself in her shoes
lol and you‘re continuing to add details that were never mentioned. OP never said her partner having APD is news to her. We don‘t know anything about the argument the partner and her mother had.
You‘re speaking about ABUSE even though NOTHING in this post indicates there‘s any abuse going on. You need to stop.
I genuinely think this is the best advice given so far?
This is exactly what I think and his reactions and responses to things supports this. I want nothing more than to help him and shoe him he deserves more but I refuse to stay if it happens again, I just don't know what to do.
As someone whose husband has cancer, I agree 100%. The thought of leaving him makes me feel ill. That’s NOT to say that being a caregiver doesn’t suck — it absolutely does. I’ve fantasized many times about running away and sometimes catch myself thinking about all the dreams we still have for the future. But it’s still a future I want with him.
OP’s hurt is valid. Many of us don’t get to lead a life exactly as we planned it — would the husband also leave his family if it were his child who wasn’t able to travel? If you love someone, you want to share your life with them — all the ups and downs, not just the fantasy.
Are STIs and lack of honesty deal breakers? Work on developing self-worth, and move on
I online in the US in a state that doesn't normally take a woman's side if the man is like oh she's just crazy, so even with my paperwork and such he just says he doesn't have the keys and leaves it at that. Even though he fully does have the keys. So the moment he is like she's being a dumb b*** and I never took her keys they are like oh ok, well sorry he doesn't have your keys maybe you should go find them
How are you 26 and unaware what gay means?
Im honestly not getting what I want. He doesn’t like kissing either and isn’t very touchy. I thought he was just slow to catch feelings and would eventually like these things but no.
Leave this dead weight. How dare he. Why are you staying around someone you're afraid of?
Ask her about it man!!! Don’t let it kill ya! Is there any reason it bothers you so much in particular?
this is ok advice, but you shouldn’t do this every time with everyone. Personally I don’t enjoy continuing to have sex after I orgasm. I would very much prefer we orgasm at the same time.
Them kids won’t online a full life
They’ll get shot by a maniac
What a country
I understand your point of view She has me blocked on social media because she didn’t wanna see me moving on at least what she told me. I can still call her phone and contact her but yeah i guess just keep doing what i have been.
Do you spend any time with your partner?
She died a few months ago and you’re already going on dates? I’d need at least 2 years to heal and be by myself after that. I’d say give it some more time
She’s cheating. The only way to stay married is going to be some pretty intensive counseling and forgiveness and apologies and years of rebuilding trust.
Or you get divorced.
Anything halfway between those 2 options isn’t going to work out in the long run and you’ll be hurt again.
I see what you mean that is something that I totally want to stay away from doing. I’m not trying to impose, it’s just something we agreed on. I don’t view that as healthy but I do recognize that that is my opinion and does not reflect his own. He doesn’t need my approval to do anything. He’s not like “hey babe, can I please go out with the boys. I swear I’ve been good.” It’s more about the communication aspect of just letting each other know. Also, we were at that bar for a formal event for his sport.
We are both into outdoor sports and his location is convenient for us to enjoy them together
The justification she gave in your update doesn’t make her sound better at all.
One day or another your father will learn the truth about it, how you knew and let it go on. You were a kid back then but you’re a grown ass man now.