I think this is the answer. Maybe she was doing it to save face in case I saw on social media, but she is essentially trying to end the friendship. The text felt very clumsy and oddly rude coming from her. Also I ~ did~ see a picture on social media and it was a pretty large group with mutual friends. Didn’t know we had a falling out, but I guess she thinks we did. And I’m way too busy with a newborn to ask why and work through it with her.
Disclaimer, I know virtually nothing about the care of dogs. So unless I'm missing something, I'm not sure how you are at fault.
I think the bigger issue at hand is how your gf handled this situation. First, these were her friends and she dumped all the responsibility on you.
There are a few things that I find a bit concerning.
“Day 3, my gf said she misses her mom so she left.”
The fact that these were her friends and she ditched you, and the sole responsibility for the care of the dogs fell onto you is troubling.
Unless her mother has limitations and is reliant on others for assistance, I would consider this a red flag. In general, does her mother have much influence on your gf and your relationship?
I am also concerned that she threw you under the bus so easily.
I doubt she will respond to that when she doesnt care about anything
I think this is the answer. Maybe she was doing it to save face in case I saw on social media, but she is essentially trying to end the friendship. The text felt very clumsy and oddly rude coming from her. Also I ~ did~ see a picture on social media and it was a pretty large group with mutual friends. Didn’t know we had a falling out, but I guess she thinks we did. And I’m way too busy with a newborn to ask why and work through it with her.
Disclaimer, I know virtually nothing about the care of dogs. So unless I'm missing something, I'm not sure how you are at fault.
I think the bigger issue at hand is how your gf handled this situation. First, these were her friends and she dumped all the responsibility on you.
There are a few things that I find a bit concerning.
“Day 3, my gf said she misses her mom so she left.”
The fact that these were her friends and she ditched you, and the sole responsibility for the care of the dogs fell onto you is troubling.
Unless her mother has limitations and is reliant on others for assistance, I would consider this a red flag. In general, does her mother have much influence on your gf and your relationship?
I am also concerned that she threw you under the bus so easily.