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Date: October 17, 2022

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Yep. You're me and I'm you. 41 here until I took a good naked look at my OWN behavior and saw the massive role I played in these situations.

I currently have TWO close friends. One is in another state.

But these people have demonstrated healthy relationship skills and boundaries. And they respect mine. Are all 3 of us perfect? HELL no. We all have our respective faults. Me? I can overthink and get stuck in a negative thought loop in my head sometimes and that even leads to talking out my ass sometimes.

But these friends will LOVINGLY TELL ME I'M TALKING OUT MY ASS. As I will them. They don't use MY struggles to “save” me to make THEMSELVES feel good.

We've argued. But in HEALTHY ways. And about half the time have agreed to just disagree and drop it because there's no resolution and it's ok to be different people, instead of some dingleberry turning into a copy of me to keep me around (and then getting resentful and BLAMING me).

We respect we can make our own choices. We respect we sometimes need time and distance and it's nothing to do with each other. When I say “I'm having a naked time, I just need some space to work things out” I GET IT. Not someone steamrolling that boundary with what THEY think I need or unsolicited advice.

When I zoom out these friendships are 50/50. Sometimes I do or need more. Sometimes they do. But it levels off over a reasonable period of time. It's not 90/10 like my previous “friendships”.

I've found that HEALTHY people of QUALITY are rare. I don't expect perfect people or perfect relationships. Just whole people who understand they have to give if they want to take, they are them and I am I, they have a responsibility too. They're FAR rarer than they ought to be.

I think we have to do what our brain commands. I understand it is stupid sometimes to intervene, but I try to when there is a crowd of people who might be inspired to join. I think you did right, that poor woman must have been frightened.