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Alice in Wonderland , ?, 18 y.o.
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Date: October 25, 2022
Alice in Wonderland , ?, 18 y.o.
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How exactly did he let you know? Did he actually get diagnosed? I’ve met a couple people who just assume they are sociopaths because of some shit they saw on TV like Dexter without actually even going to a doctor.
Wow what a hilarious joke. It’s so funny the way he makes you cry and hurts your feelings on a regular basis.
You should tell him a super funny joke that he should get the fuck out and then he can tell his abusive comedy routine to himself. Alone. Forever.
Is he a libra ?
There has to be more to this story. I dunno what your relationship is normally like, but my partner and I have been together almost 10 years and have never had an interaction like this. Learn to communicate with each other and treat each other well when things are stressful.
How do you all behave so casually around him after what he did? He is a monster. He should be locked up never to see the sun again. Yet, all of shoved everything under the rug and pretend like everything is dandy? How can your sister be so careless with the safety of her child? I am sorry, but I totally see where your wife is coming from. It’s like having an anaconda on the loose and pretend it’s a side pillow.
> I actually have a MS in cancer cell microbiology but heavy US medical bills are the absolute worst
That's another reason why you should leave the USA. And I'm very happy to have left.
i get that. it still stung pretty bad since she was very blunt in her choice of words rather than the way you are describing
And honey, please seek PERSONAL therapy. Abuse change the way we perceive others and ourselves and predators have the ability to perceive your fragileness. Don’t just leave this horrible man, heal yourself so you never EVER fall for a guy like him.
So you think that cheating is okay sometimes?
Wow I did not think someone else with an autoimmune disease would see this and respond! I’m so glad because although the different diseases vary I’m sure you probably can relate to the stuff I talked about. You know the struggle and how tough it can be. Thank you for validating my feelings and assuring me I made the right decision. These comments seriously have lifted a weight off my chest. Also, I’ll 100% take your advice about not responding to him or being in contact. He keeps asking to call me so he can “finish all he needs to say”, but I think it’s best to just cut off all contact at this point. Thank you again! ?
That's exactly what I think, but he manipulates me in a way that makes me wonder if what I'm thinking is actually right and I'm the one in the wrong side?
Please, wake up. How badly damaged is your self-esteem? You can and will do better with the next SO. And you're so young!
I'm not saying that a safeword itself causes more problems (I wasn't clear, my bad). But telling people to get a safeword without suggesting anything else, or pointing towards resources, creates problems. Op's relationship is already borderline. Not sure if the BF is just clueless or deliberately abusive. There is a LOT more work to do for the relationship to be healthy, and putting in space a safeword is very low on the list if priorities, and should not be the only measure.
Please stop being naive and take a good look at this guy. I’d be running for the hills. He’s seriously lacking in character, and that matters.
Very astute observation.
My wife has insecurities about keeping the house clean. She’s a housewife and whenever I talk to my mom I’m usually doing some sort of chore, cooking/cleaning/ baby duties.
my mom is old school Mexican, she’s come a long way at being progressive but sometimes there’s a slight hint in her tone when she asks why I’m doing the chore, or she’ll ask what my wife is doing immediately after I tell her what I’m doing, she’s asked on more than one occasion if my wife cooks for me and respond with “we both do”. I think my wife feels a bit judged even though my mom hasn’t explicitly said anything about what she expects out of my wife, it’s only been implied in her tone once in a while but she’s very friendly to my wife.
My wife has been incapable of doing a lot lately, she’s lost her father who she was really close to and I can’t blame her for not cooking/cleaning while I’m at work or not doing baby duties when I’m home. I try to accommodate to her needs, I think she needs the support right now, especially since we have another on the way.
Why even stay with someone who treats you like crap? Ditch her.
idk, he felt like he needed to drive the point home. and I get it. a calm discussion isn't likely to overcome years (generations even) of cultural conditioning. OPs husband didn't seem to be lashing out in anger at all. it was more like, he thought about it, and he did what he thought would be effective in delivering the message loud and clear – if you hit OP, this is the consequence. and I think punching him in the face and breaking his nose yeah was a bit excessive. breaking the arm was adequate IMO
OP, if you want everybody to get along, try asking ur parents if they'd be willing to attend some family therapy over zoom with u and your husband (and the parents in-laws if u want). that way, y'all can talk out feelings and boundaries going forward without actually having to meet up in person, with a professional to guide you through it and prevent anyone from getting carried away in their emotions. then, if you end up making progress with that, hopefully in time everyone will become more open to the idea of getting together in person sometime in the future. fyi this won't be a quick fix. and if any of them refuse to attend zoom conference family therapy, that's a red flag that they aren't interested in compromising or getting along bc they don't want to change their ways
good luck
He’s being unreasonable and you’re enabling him. Box up all his games and throw them in there and see how he reacts.
Sis – lets flip this. You are reluctant to burst his bubble but the fact is your husband is actively manipulating you and your housemate into doing something you have specifically said you do not want to do.
His behavior is INCREDIBLY disrespectful of you, your marriage vows and his friend. His behavior is incredibly selfish and potentially dangerous to you.
I'm sorry Sis, but him pressuring you and trying to orchestrate this whole liason behind the scenes when you have explicitly said no, that is WRONG on every level. Like, in my book, divorce grounds.
Please value yourself enough to put a NAKED stop to this and leave while you figure out if you want to stay with a man who is this manipulative and disrespectful to your boundaries and feelings.
Sis, let me put it this way – it could be something as simple as oral sex. If a partner says NO, it means NO. It doesn't mean brow beat them into it and then try to manipulate them into a situation where they can't say no. If a partner says no, it means no.
Your busband is bad news.