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Unfortunately, your kids are old enough to see, and internalize, the things your wife is doing. You are not doing them any favors by staying.
Ummmm… Y'all need to quit being toxic
Don’t settle for her. You’re not married don’t let it go that far. That’s not normal behavior and you should tell the boyfriends of her friends
Welcome to being married life hun, you'll probably never get the answer you want
I’d also only be reporting him because, you know, karma and pay back. It goes against my being a grass ethics but in this case I’d happily make an exception. He’s only grovelling to you because he’s scared you’ll dob him in.
You leave. That’s what you do. She cheated and lied about it for years. It is what it is and apparently she cheats for money which is even worse in a way.
You might regret it in the short term but you won’t in the long term because you’ll come to grips that it’s the right decision to make. Good luck
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Did you skip over the part about him also wanting tattoos of people committing suicide? Or the fact that he has a graphic tattoo of someone on a medieval torture rack?
BDSM itself is fine. But it had to be understood in its context. If I saw OP's boyfriend with tattoos of women getting tied up and whipped, with the added context of the rest of his tattoos, I would not assume it was BDSM. I would assume he was a sick person who enjoys the pain of others, and not in a consensual or healthy way. I can absolutely see why a reputable shop would refuse this guy's piece.
Reluctantly sent the images…
That seems to be what she's feeling upset about? You seemed to sense it wasn't something she was very enthusiastic about, so she's rethinking your level of sensitivity and adjusting her perception, fairly or unfairly.
Idk, honest conversation and being open to her pov and sharing yours with sensitivity is probably yr best bet if you want this to continue. And offer to delete if that would help.
I believe there are three main ways to find ideas for nice dates; 1. Look for the most popular restaurants, attractions etc in your city and pick one. You can use TripAdvisor or sites like that for lists.
Listen carefully to your girlfriend and take note of her interests, eg she mentions she'd like to try Chinese food, make a note of that and find a good place to take her to.
Pick something out based on your own likes/hobbies/life. This might be a little nude based on what you said but you can try. For example, take her somewhere you loved when you were a kid. Tell her your memories of it, too, that could help you bond.
Lastly
I'm fine with doing anything and nothing is in my mind in particular.
I know someone who would say almost this exact sentence and it turned out he had been criticized a lot as a child and was afraid to air their opinions. Might anything like that be going on with you?
He's now stalking you in an attempt to manipulate you back into a relationship. Do not feel for him, He's trying to control you. Contact law engineers to report his stalking, contact his family to come get him, contact your family to come protect you. Make as much noise as you can now, because letting this slide is how people wind up murdered.
Medication is not the end all of treating mental illness. You say you want her to continue therapy, what are her reasons for not wanting to go?
You can’t cure self-esteem and abandonment issues without some sort of therapy process. You may need to sit down and have a very serious conversation about her seeking therapeutic options. If she’s this reactionary to such a minor conflict, there’s way more for her to unpack and she needs a professional to help with that.
Thanks everyone. Myself and my partner have had a terrible two years or so. I had mental health issues (depression, anxiety, suicidal) and clearly wasn’t myself but she’s used this against me. No sympathy whatsoever. My mum died a year ago, my partner had money issues with his business and they didn’t support him in the way they’ve supported my BIL in the past. My partner also had long covid whilst dealing with a failing business and they just didn’t take it seriously. It’s been the worst period of our lives but things are looking brighter now fingers crossed. BIL/SIL travelled back up our way last year for 3 days but didn’t let us know and clearly didn’t want to meet up. They then accuse us of not inviting them but they never let us know they’re in our area. I’m just so bitter that they continue to thrive when I want repercussions for their behaviour. I guess life’s not fair and arse holes always seem to get ahead. I need to work on myself with some therapy
I didn't post here to have argumentations , please let someone else who may help to answer and don't comment anything else, all the best.
I used to think I was spoiled because my sons father loved cooking and was also a clean freak like me.
I wasn’t spoiled, I was just in a shit relationship prior to it. There are TONS of partners who are exactly like you and know the basics. Don’t stress anymore and be freeeeee!
Snooping isn't strange in relationships. Best policy is being open about your live activities.
With that said, everything you have seen is pointing in one direction. You can decide to close ypur eyes, but it will not change the reality of situation.
If he lies about one thing, it means you can't believe him unconditionally about anything else as well. What he has done already is enough to just break up. There is no need to dig for anything more. If you stay you will just waste more of your life.
Or he's put on antibiotics and she throws them out and tries to treat him with some weird ass tea or herbs.
Well you could tell him this that you have told me.
Two things will happen if you can trust.
He will say he had a change of heart or you can both have a laugh about how bad he is at reading the room.
She will hurt your children. Don’t fucking kid yourself my man.
Sounds more like he has given up on the traditional relationship and is more into FWB / sugar babies
Quite rare two women will happily share a man unless there is something they want.
If you really believed there was nothing wrong, you wouldn't need to keep her age out of the discussion.
Well if he was expected to pay it back in the first place then I would expect it back. I wouldn’t believe he will pay it now because y’all are broke up. So he probably isn’t going to pay it and it’s not worth going to court over. So mom will probably have to deal with it or you pay for it since he’s your ex.
Right comment. Probably pushy because he’s looking for a place to stay. OP showed some interest so he thought she might fall for his shit.
Well, Is it the first time he deadnamed you? If so, it maybe just the heat of argument that people tend to throw whatever that hurts the most. I know, everyone has this type of tendencies. Just let him know that it is off-limits going forward to see if situation improves.
If it isn't,… remind me why you are still married to him.