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If you’re telling us the truth, I don’t see why you can’t tell your wife the truth.
That’s fair. We do all have a preference. I just find that the majority of women aren’t hung up on finding the rare massive penis like men think we are. The whole exaggerating your size thing tends to have more impact on male ego than attracting a mate. Like has any woman heard a man claim to have “5 lbs of cock and 10lbs of balls” and think of anything other than “elephantiasis”?
There’s no standard, and honestly it’s probably never a perfect fit. I like it once a day, two or three times sometimes if the stars align.
My fiancée probably prefers 1-2x a week. So not a perfect match. We’re in our thirties. Some weeks we do it once. Some weeks 10x. My sex drive is pretty continual, always want it (I love her, and she’s gorgeous, and I always want her); hers is more responsive – if I am coming onto her, and touching her, she’s generally there with me. Sometimes she doesn’t want to. Which is fine.
When you love and respect someone you get a feel for their rhythm. Generally I won’t come onto her if she’s not receptive; I can tell when she’s in the right place. Sometimes I’m in the mood and she’s not, and we have a mechanism in place for that too – she’ll kiss me and caress me while I masturbate with a toy. And I try not to do even that too often, because I never want her participating in my pleasure to feel like a chore.
So sometimes I just handle it myself. When you love each other, you find a way to make sure you’re each comfortable, but also fulfilled. It’s a balance. Requires checking in, seeing if you’re each ok.
And sometimes, life gets in the way. Family commitments, work, other issues… so this is all a long winded way of saying, even in one individual relationship, there is no “standard.” Let alone a standard across all relationships.
You just try to make it work. Sometimes you can, sometimes you can’t.
But “zero, ever” doesn’t seem sustainable when one partner has a sex drive, and the other doesn’t.