I don’t know. If it feels right, go for it. Just know that if ever stops feeling right, trust your gut. It’s okay to be head over heels for each other. I don’t want to say be careful, keep yourself guarded because it would contradict my first statement but be careful and keep yourself guarded.
Agreed that the pull out method is unreliable and anyone not wanting another kid shouldn’t rely on it. BUT, they had an agreement about how this sex act was supposed to go down. She violated that agreement and him. She forced something that she knew he didn’t want to do. He didn’t want to ejaculate inside her and he didn’t want another kid. She knew both of those things and still forced him to finish inside her.
If she’d respected their agreement and got pg even though he didn’t finish inside her I would agree that this is just as much his fault. But she violated his trust and that’s all on her.
I don’t know. If it feels right, go for it. Just know that if ever stops feeling right, trust your gut. It’s okay to be head over heels for each other. I don’t want to say be careful, keep yourself guarded because it would contradict my first statement but be careful and keep yourself guarded.
Agreed that the pull out method is unreliable and anyone not wanting another kid shouldn’t rely on it. BUT, they had an agreement about how this sex act was supposed to go down. She violated that agreement and him. She forced something that she knew he didn’t want to do. He didn’t want to ejaculate inside her and he didn’t want another kid. She knew both of those things and still forced him to finish inside her.
If she’d respected their agreement and got pg even though he didn’t finish inside her I would agree that this is just as much his fault. But she violated his trust and that’s all on her.