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Please explain why you're still with him? You can end all this. You know how. You don't need permission.
You completely rearranged your comment to try and make me seem like a bad person when off this comment alone you clearly didn’t read a detail of the story.
Read my replies to this post
What a tool
This is probably better suited for r/sex but be sure to read their community guidelines before posting because I’m not 100% sure. Regardless, this forum is for requesting advice and this post doesn’t fit.
How though? When you been with a girl for 2 years and it was the most defining thing about being with her.
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But she's asking my cousins about this stuff all the time. She wants to see their TikToks, she's asking about their Tindr matches. I think she's loving being one of the girls and is loving living vicariously through them.
Meanwhile I worked as a NASA intern this last year and nobody wants to even ask me about the freaking rocket that just went to the moon that I helped out with.
You need to move on. End of story. Block everything not out of spite but to delete her from your mind. Find the courage to delete all pictures or transfer it to a USB, password lock it and ask someone you trust to keep it. Or upload to onedrive and password protect it by the person you trust.
The more contact you keep, the harder it is to move on. You still think you have a chance to win her back. No you don't and you cannot be friend until you truly moved on.
Not to mention she doesnt want to remain friends.
The reality is often there are other situations stupid stuff like this happens too. It’s rare this is a once in a relationship type event.
I mean tbh neither do I lmao arguing with my partner though? I will 100% feel nauseas, need to catch my breath, shake, etc. i get the most anxious when we’re fighting. But fighting with people at work? My mom? Nothing. I work in a field where clients get snippy with me often—and nothing.
My anxiety just happens to be legitimately worse when my partner and I arent doing well. I don’t bring it up though out of fear of being manipulative—-we do talk about it after, but I never bring it up during arguments because I don’t want my partner to feel invalidated.
You also have no idea what someone is feeling about xyz. No matter how much you know them. I lived with my mother until I graduated college and she still has no idea about my anxiety. My partner sees it first hand cuz we on-line together and obviously speak…ive also been with him for 4 years. You guys are only together for 3 months, teens and around that age where you may not be able to manage your hormones/anxiety. You need to step back and stop immediately accusing him and take into account that specific situational anxiety IS legit and a possibility. Its also only happened 3 times, which means there are other arguments that he has not done this yes?
Or maybe youll waste years trying to change something thats not going to change. Who knows.
This is why children shouldn’t get married. You should never resort to divorce papers unless you’re serious. She called your bluff.
Your dad’s right, GTFO of there!
Yah, TikTok is such a personal website. My husband gets comedians, I get women complaining about their abuse, and dog trainers, and I'm trying to get more dancers, and comedies and my son gets political stuff.
You need to nope the fuck out of there ASAP. It’s all good when now but wait until you’ve got a baby crying in the middle of the night. He’ll lose his shit. You don’t need that in your life. Protect yourself and your baby and GTFO.
It is reasonable for him to want a partner he is sexually attracted to. It sounds like breaking up was his last resort after trying to motivate you to change.
Comments about baby weight are not necessarily true. I don’t know him but it seems like he is happy with you as long as he knows unattractive changes are not going to be permanent.
She’s not a colleague, she was just asking him for career advice at points. They arent in contact in real life or on-line near each other.
Ask for a threesome to make up for it
I always think it’s a bad choice to combine finances unless you’re married and even then I’d still advise having separate accounts and one for joint expenses.
This doesn't go as far as emotional abuse, quite, but it has some similarities psychologically.
Rats in a cage experiment.
If rats push lever, they get food. They learn to push the lever. Turn the food off, they very quickly learn to stop pushing the lever.
Now make it so it's every 3 times you push lever, you get food. Rats are slower to learn it, but when you turn off the food, they're just as quick to unlearn it.
Now make it so it's random: could be 1 time, 3 times, 5 times, 10 times, 20 times, and the food comes out at random. This is much slower to learn, but, almost impossible to unlearn. Rats will continue to push the lever even after you turned the food off, even though they've pushed it 100 times and food hasn't come out.
This is what happens in relationships and what I think of every time someone says “when it's good it's great.” That's the random-lever-reward in effect. It's what makes it so nude to let go.
if that’s the case and he knows it, then why should he answer any questions?
sounds like you want a commitment that he is unwilling to give
he is comfortable as things are
i don’t think he will change unless he stands to lose something, like you, or having sex
Time to start dating your partner again.
Well, sharing the photos on-line is kinda odd. I'll give him that.
The rest, not so much.
Maybe do some research on it, and if possible talk to someone who indulges their partner's foot fetish without getting much pleasure out of it themselves. Sometimes things seem less threatening, once you learn more facts about them.
As fetishes go, this is a pretty tame one – but if it grosses you out, that's a legitimate reaction and you should never feel forced to please him against your will, any more than with any other use of your body. It will likely mean the end of your relationship, but if the LDR isn't working out, maybe it would be easier to just walk away.
You should be questioning their intentions instead
I love horror movies too, but I hate gore movies. It scares me so much. She shouldn't forbid you to watch gore movies alone, but you need to understand that she just doesn't like them. Maybe it scares her. We don't know how you react towards the movies. Maybe you come off as creepy to her while watching them. We don't know.
But this is a thing you can talk about.
I can’t speak to most of that, but I can say with fair certainty that ADHD meds can lead to some heavy stim fapping. Maybe he’s also simultaneously embarrassed at this sudden and frequent spike in his pants and is ashamed of it in a way. Idk that’s just a theory, but I’d also recommend reading a bit about the effects of stims on certain people which lead to absurd amounts of fapping. Not even kidding, check out r/stims
No I ended my pregnancy at 23wks bc is my RIGHT,. & why surrender my remaining life time to unhappiness with someone who's shady af, about whether it was a boy or a girl… if your that unwilling to care. I can match the energy as well
I think you need to suggest he sees a therapist
I really hope he did. His other comments make me sick.
He also did his masters, so I also support him at the same time. I adjust to him the last few years, and ended up having study delay because of it. Because he was not happy in this city, I adjusted my life around him, because he told it would be different after I finished.
There is nothing natural or biological about employment in the first place, so it's absurd to say it's gendered. And I don't work to increase my value to a man. Why do you refuse to acknowledge women as individuals?
There are multiple ways to raise a family. One partner can work while one stays home. Or both can work and share the duties at home. Both working usually means they can each work reasonable hours and have time to spend with their family as well. When if only one works, often they have to work so many hours they barely see their children.
I carried my daughter because I'm the one with a uterus. And I did breastfeed as well. But other than that there was nothing I could do that her father couldn't do also. I will not be told by some stranger who knows nothing about me how to run my life or that I must sacrifice to everyone in it while I don't matter at all. You literally said the father should have a choice but the mother should not. That is such garbage.
If we were made on-line that way then nearly all of us would be happy to naturally. So there goes your biology argument.
You on-line how you want if you can find a partner who agrees. But the day I let you tell me or my daughter how to on-line will never arrive.
UpdateMe!
And there it is.
Don't stay with someone (and especially don't have kids with someone) who blames you for their actions when angry. Being able to fight fair and have productive disagreements is the #1 skill to having a good long-term relationship.
Dude. F ur ex opinion on this. I feel like more is going on
He doesn’t need to know or be there to these convos. Talk to ur kids. Go to therapy. Let them know they can talk to u and express themselves and they DONT have to be forced to do shit with the gf
It’s really disappointing when men don’t pressure full custody in these scenarios. It’s what we need to do. Now, there’s a long, nude, expensive road ahead. Hopefully it works out for you.
He just wasn't thinking. I seriously doubt he actually thinks your lady parts look like ww3. I might be stunned by the skin irritation, but that passes in hours or a day at worst. Write this off to mouth engaged before brain.
Yes, the calmness and quickness of the answer was what made me believe this is the truth.
You really can’t flush wipes. They have plastic. They are the main cause of sewer blockages here in the U.K. so much so that the government is planning to ban wipes that contain plastic (which is nearly all of them).
Maybe it’s just me but she’d be blocked on everything. I can’t stand people like this.
No fighting, no shading, nothing. Just blocked and moving on with my life to find better friends.
Then he should be able to draw firm boundaries with her and hold her accountable to them. His unwillingness to hold her accountable directly and negatively affects you. His moms behavior should not be yours to address.
I knew he was aggressive and what would be considered an “alpha”. He was intense and confrontational.
Why would u pick him knowing this?
I was name calling.
Toxic relationship.
thought I could help him too.
Men arent projects & ur not a rehab center
We had been drinking.
I swear alcohol is the worst. I havent drank since 5/2020 & was never a fan. I dont even want to date drinkers.
if I didn’t react or engage, he wouldn’t have done those things
Nah, he wouldve.
Now I look and feel like the abuser.
Ur not.
hate what I did.
It was defense.
afraid to charge him.
Would that even happen being u didnt report to police at the time & u were in Mexico? When he wants to get his stuff, call police, they will come & monitor so that there is no violence. I had 2 times where they lived with me & I left their stuff on the porch.
You’ve been in a relationship for seven months your 2 and half months pregnant And your boyfriend wants to prostitute your. Do you think this is healthy?
I’m sorry that happened to you but TO THE STREETS SHE GOES
Was it always like this or did the communication falter after you moved
You’ve only known him for a month, you can’t love him, and in turn, he can’t know he’s going to marry you and put you on a super fast timeline like that.
He’s probably super controlling, abusive, dangerous – and wants to trap you into marriage and family (before you’re ready).
No go – text him its over, and stay around people that are safe.
Personally I would be pissed if my SO had asked my parents. I know it’s not everyone’s take but I am 100% in control of who I married and (even though my family loves my SO) I didn’t give af if they didn’t. He’s a good person and I loved (still do) him. We didn’t need anyone’s permission or approval.
Rant over. Tend to feel strongly about this ha.
Woah wait a minute. Explain the ‘Talibans’ comment. That’s very specific.
Yeah no she's actually a keeper. She's not like a thirst trap.
My problem is that she has a great body and she also has several of her exs on Insta. We had a particular problem a while back with a guy she thought was a friend but he was the typical orbiter type. Just waiting around until something went wrong so he could fill any void I left. They slept together once in the past but left it as friends, or so we thought.
He got weird when I came into the picture so she cut him out quite dramatically, which I am grateful for.
Problem is now he likes these bikini pics on insta and naturally I hate it. I don't have instagram but she shows me what she posts and who likes it. Him and whatever other ex.