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I wouldnt use the word fear but its just not normal and I feel like she's really isolated from society outside of me. Sure she reads news and has casual conversations in public but being alone any time I'm not around feels weird.
And it makes me feel guilty for when I leave her apartment or want alone time. She doesnt do or say anything to me to make it be that way like hanging on my leg or something, but knowing I worry about it. All of my buddies I've talked about it with thinks its weird too. And I still havent met her mom or any of her other family, not even a phone call. Its just like she separates herself from everyone Idk how to explain it any more than that
i wouldve stopped the car and not moved till he got tf out and thusly our relationship would end because absolutely tf not and under no circumstances are you kidding me
I honestly didn’t even think about that first point you made. Thank you for your comment — I appreciate the honesty
Well I don't know about your girlfriend but I would want to know.
Drying out your phone when you get it wet. Better than rice—that’s what desiccant is for—keeping things dry. I keep the packets in my “battery” drawer and they keep the batteries from freaking out due to the humidity. I also take a baggie hiking for when someone inevitably drops their phone in a water crossing trying to get that perfect selfie. ?
Haha yeah i know. But i learned to forgive. His brother is still a great guy and I know he didnt mean it. He just thought he could make everyone laugh. But I was the only person paying attention to him bc the others were also drunk and having fun by themselves. (I dont drink so I know what I saw)
Good luck to you Sorry I use voice recognition.
Is attempted RAPE (and previous coercive sexual assault) grounds to break up??
Ummm… yes.
OP i don't have much to say except get out girl. He seems unstable and manipulative. Don't stay with someone like this. You sound like a lovely girl this isnt a dude that loves u bt one that wants to control u. No one should ever put their hands on u. EVER!
there is no excuse. None at all. Stay with ur friends. Keep them posted aswell as family incase he tries to contact them. Dump him u dont even need to do it f2f. Block him and get as far away from him as u can.
Being bisexual does not mean that she must have the experience of having intimacy with women, though. It just means she wants to. I expect there's other men she's attracted to, too. (I mean, there always Tom Hiddleston, right?) But just as her desire for another man does not spell the end of her relationship, her desire for intimate knowledge of women doesn't have to either.
If you're bisexual and monogamous, it doesn't matter what gender the folks you're attracted to are. They're all off the table anyway.
A crush is literally that; a crush. You were into someone. You didn’t pursue it. It’s a non-issue. You’re not comparing your girlfriend to her.
Now, I certainly agree it was completely unnecessary to mention it, but here we are. If you did it in the interest of full transparency and honesty, fine. But is that why you mentioned it? Why did you? No one’s going to buy the explanation you gave. Just be honest with us.
Regardless, it really doesn’t matter. If you don’t still have a crush on this girl, then she’s irrelevant. “I wanted to be honest with you. That’s all. Nothing happened and I have no feelings for her. I’m sorry if you’re upset but that’s the end of it.”
Hold firm from there. She can’t just hold it over you forever and you shouldn’t allow her to. Good luck.
Next time you see him mention that you saw him on hinge and slowly work the convo to asking him to hangout outside of work
On the context of if my partner who I have a sexual relationship with is sat on my lap and I touch her there it's perfectly normal and certainly doesn't deserve a response of violence either way.
Future you wants you to dump this guy right now. Don’t look back. When it comes to most decisions, but especially marrying someone if it’s not a “HELL,YES!” it’s a no.
I am a strong woman, it’s not my responsibility to do that. It’s his. I was kind enough to even offer an Uber.
OP, it really depends on the person. Some people, no matter the gender have very high sex drives, and some people, no matter the gender have little to no sex drive. Yes, sex IS important to many, many people. It's normal, and that's ok, just like it's ok for you to not find sex in a relationship to be important. It's just a matter of incompatibility between you and other people who have high sex drives
As for the future, you need to be telling people that you don't have a high sex drive and that you don't want to have much sex. You need to be disclosing this information earlier on because, again, sexual incompatibility is a thing, and it's usually not going to work well if you stay in a relationship without sexual compatibility. You absolutely CAN find people who have a low sex drive like you, and you NEED to be upfront with future potential partners in order for you to find someone who has a sex drive that is compatible with yours.
Your ex dealt with this in a very healthy way by not coercing you and choosing to break things off instead of doing something possibly traumatizing like cheating.
I am also very white, but I can see some of where he's coming from because I can see a parallel in the way women relate to men.
Women have, statistically speaking, really good reasons to be afraid of men. A lot of us are, to some degree or other. We take precautions when we're going on a first date, we pretend to know strangers in public if we think they're being harassed by a guy, we warn each other about the guys we've heard bad things about, we watch each others' drinks in bars.
Not because we believe every man is a threat, but because any one man could be a deadly threat, and we can't reliably identify which one until it may be too late.
This doesn't stop women from falling in love with men. It doesn't even stop women from loving men who also scare them.
You specifically haven't done anything to him, or that indicates you've weaponised your whiteness against someone, which is why he can date you and appreciate you and even love you. It doesn't mean he's not aware of your whiteness in comparison to him at all times. You have a power in that whiteness that you could use against him, and no matter how sure he is that you won't, he can't ever forget that it's there.
If anything, the fact that he wants to be with you makes me think he cares about you a lot. Despite his reasons to be cautious, and the challenges you both potentially face in a long term relationship, he's willing to give things a try.
But this is just my reading of what you've told us. You haven't given us details of his past (which is fair enough), so there may be more to the situation than I'm aware of. Sit down with him again and ask him if he can explain more, especially about why he wants to be with you, given this fear.
Try to put aside how his comment made you feel for long enough to really listen to his explanation. I know that's a very hot thing to do, but I think it'll help you get enough information to make a good decision about how to move forward.
You set boundaries with each other, and then she broke them and is now trying to say that it wasn’t a big deal and that you’re the problem. That is denial and refusing to accept responsibility. She’s not ready for this relationship if she’s doing those things.
What trip is she on?
He picked at what he knew was an insecurity and a vulnerability of hers, and he did it to hurt her.
That is unacceptable behaviour from a spouse.
It’s gonna hurt. It’s sort of like breaking your own heart. He may apologize and try to get you to stay. He may say the things you want to hear. You’ll want to try again. It hurts. It sucks. You won’t be able to make sense of it or understand his how’s or why’s. Just run. Start saving for rent. Keep quiet. Don’t let him know your plans and sneak out with no notice.
I had to explain to my husband that because he CONSTANTLY tried to turn kissing into kitchen sex or blowjobs, it made me hesitant to want to initiate affection.
A back rub should be a back rub. Not something to push you into a mood.
Jesus christ. Please, Google the power and control wheel. (And then clear your browser history.)
I’d never talk to him again if he attacked my wife
Just felt like it’s weird almost like he’s embarrassed or doesn’t want them to know. They are there all the time?
I mean clearly he’s playing me.. he’s 40.
I probably went too far.
he does and he did by proposing a poly relationship
We really don’t know his point of view, Its a bit pushy to remind him several times and then to force the issue by saying she will help. I just get weird energy from it. Now in her defense he did say he would do it a couple of times. He should have made his case after the second time she said something and they could have discussed. So it’s def not just a “she” problem.
My insecure statement was more of a musing of what I would tolerate and think of someone that pushed me to delete them. Moving them to private is ok after thinking on it a bit. I get her wanting to be number one in the pics that share going forward.
Could always go find the guy and ask to see his texts with your wife.
I hope not, I mean I'm making it pretty easy for him lol
Considering your chances of getting pregnant when having sex without contraceptives is about 25%, I'd say the rythym method is about as safe as using no contraceptives.
Bahaha. So do i.
It doesn't sound like you have a strong relationship at all. It sounds like your bf is a spoiled brat and your relationship worked because you were doing everything he wanted, his way.
Your attention now, is rightly focused on your brother and your fiance doesn't have the emotional maturity and life experience to handle adversity. Unless he wants to grow as a person, he won't. His attitude will just get worse.
It sounds like you're doing all you can. He has to decide what kind of partner he wants to be. Therapy would help.
? it is sexual. Tldr
Have the child, you deserve it.
DO NOT FUCK WITH YOUR JOHNSON !
You know that people don't always know that right?
Stop it. Seriously. As a man twice your age who’s had kids with the wrong partner, just stop it. You’re young. Build yourself up. Build a business, build a career, establish yourself first. Then worry about marriage and kids after. You’re not in your prime yet. She technically is, but you are not.
Yes it is. Hurt feelings because she say pp too small. Fucking communicate and work it out. Quitting is biggest pussy move ever over honest words of a drunk person. His dicks probably small to most people . If she isn’t satisfied she would have left.
op your family is trash. i understand that it can be very hot but cut that shit off you'll feel so much better after a while. also, they are stupid too because their argument is both “so you're better because you weren't abused” and “you hid the abuse how dare you!” …. so which is it? … anyway. get ye some therapy, some good friends, hobbies, and you'll feel ok in no-time.
DONT DO IT BRO YOU DONT WANT TO SEE THE PERSON YOU LOVE ENJOY SOMETHING SO INTIMATE WITH SOMEONE ELSE YOU WILL REGRET IT BRO PLEASE SAVE YOUR SANITY
That this other guy being upset that she didn't go with him is an arguing point for her would tell me everything I needed to know. I'd let her know she can go do whatever she wants because she's not my problem anymore.
Check out Mr Jason Wilson on Instagram. He talks about this very thing.
Stop the flea medicine and see what happens. I guarantee she won't like it.
Of course they know and they are doing the same.
I like to stay in touch with people I like. Even if a relationship doesn't work on an intimate level anymore, you can still be friends.
He is now telling me that the name is no problem, that I have the right to choose. Idk what to believe, we talked on the phone for more than an hour. Ended up with me having to apologise
But but…but…. His lizard brain!
Him being a player when younger lol. When he was a teenager or minor?
Wouldn’t be surprised if this kid ruffied ppl prolly or took pleasure when someone said “stop”
Yea this is a huge red flag.
I’m sorry for your loss.
He is 22. I could just leave it there and it will make sense to anyone else 30+, but as you’re 22, I will elaborate.
Most lucky people your age have not experienced mental health issues or death. They do not know how to manage those situations or what is expected of them necessarily.
Hinting around at what you want is not going to be effective. You have to ask for what you want and differentiate which things are important and which aren’t. Everything can’t be priority 1.
In your example with your mental health—he got compassion fatigue. You were leaning on him too much. He’s not a therapist. He’s not equipped to help you in that situation UNLESS you tell him what you need.
As for your Gma’s funeral? Did he know how important it was to you that he be there? Or did you just assume he should know? There are a lot of people who aren’t comfortable going to funerals, don’t realize it’s for the living not the dead as support, don’t know how to behave, feel anxiety about it, etc. this isn’t limited to young people. Some people just don’t know what to say or do. Again, you sometimes have to ask for what you wanted.
He had plans and changing those plans would impact other people. And I get the impression he didn’t realize how important it was to you. Probably didn’t think of all the other options to get back to support you.
I dunno. The first funeral I attended was when I was 14 and my Gpa passed. I gave the eulogy. But I really didn’t understand “all the things”. My mom and dad had to explain a lot to me. By the time I had my next family funeral, I was 27 and had attended others for friends of family and knew what was going on. Now in my 40’s, I just laid my last grandparent to rest. I asked my partner to join me as I had joined him for his grandpa the year prior. This time, I was the one organizing the funeral out of state and I knew the drill:
So much of this just comes with age. We aren’t born knowing how to manage death.
Again. So sorry for your loss. I think you and BF need to improve communication and be less assuming.
OP, as someone who lost my long term boyfriend to drunk driving, I can relate to your bizarre reaction to seemingly mundane things. Grief is a weird thing to traverse and this kind of lose is so complex. That said, you owe it to yourself, your late wife, your kids, and the girlfriend to go to therapy. It will help you learn tools to be more stable and rational. I speak from experience. Not just like two months of therapy… until you’re better. It may be a while.
I think your only valid concern here is how it would affect his (and your) career/reputation – but that is pretty easily solved if he's not planning to publish it under his own name. If that's true, then you probably do want to discuss the potential issues with that. (You'd also have a valid concern if the game had really messed up themes or something, but it doesn't sound like it?)
A lot of people publish erotica live! under a pen name, or make sexual art, or stuff like that. It can be a (shockingly) profitable hobby and creative outlet. It's fair for you to feel kind of weird about it, but this sounds like it's not actually a problem, especially since he's being honest and open about it with you from the start. If he starts dedicating too much time to the game to the point where it gets unhealthy you can reconsider the issue, but you'd be getting way ahead of yourself to start worrying about that at this point. Especially because when it comes to huge creative projects like video games, you don't even know if he's going to actually get around to starting (let alone completing) it.
Hes straight up lying to you. End of story. What more explanation do you need?
Yeah I will
He is a child and this is just the beginning. Who knows what else he lies about. Leave him. Your breasts are beautiful and so are you. You deserve better, someone who will adore you and every part of you and not have unrealistic fantasies they got from growing up on porn. He's immature and a liar. He doesn't deserve your attention or love or time.
Also, he lied and told his friends he was dating your sister… he NEVER wanted to introduce you to them.
I forgot to add that he's American and living in Taiwan (I'm Taiwanese) so all his friends are back in America, so that's why I never met them.
But yeah, everything else u said is right and I'm gonna break up! Just planning how to say it lol
Piano teacher here. Banging students is not part of regular lessons. I have zero issues with age gaps in relationship but this gives me the ick. There is already a power difference in a teacher/student situation like lessons. Do you know his other students? I'd ask them if they get the same attention or vibe. As to his family… letting them know may save another student from predation. Either way, get a new teacher and focus on the music.
She gave a pretty good explanation herself. What else is there to say?
She's talking about her family's ancestry and culture. You're talking about her skin color and and hobbies. She sees your position as racially ignorant and doesn't want to be with someone like that.
I definitely would listen to the doc who posted above on this. Yes obviously vaginas come in different sizes but if you’re not enormous it should be ok. I would guess this is vaginismus related to anxiety caused by her upbringing or possibly even assault. Has she ever mentioned anything about it?
In the meantime, I’m wondering if she’d be comfortable with non-intercourse sex. That might help her a bit. And you know, set the mood, maybe give a massage, ease into it.
in the uk i doubt he'd get surgery the first time the surgeon saw him at all. if anything, this would be a consult.
Cool. But you also have to think about the fact that phones might not be a boundary in their relationship. It certainly isn’t in mine. ??♂️
do not take her back.
Wow. You’re a fucking numbnut. Take the L and learn the lesson. If drinking makes you that stupid stop drinking.
Find his stuff and give it back and draw a line under this. You are still young and you'll learn soon enough that cutting ties completely is the best thing to do in this situation. Don't leave him with a reason for contacting you.
Find his things, put them in a box. Agree a time for him to collect and put the box outside your house 5 mins before hes due to collect and send a picture of the box to him to show where it is.
Then go out and leave him to collect without you there. Once he has done so, block him on everything to allow you to completely cut contact.
She’s in the wedding dude. People will wonder where the F you are and ask her all day where you are. I would fully support you if She was ok with you bailing. Turn this around, if you were looking forward to her coming to your best friends wedding so you can make those memories together- and she cancelled just before for a sorority sister , how would you feel? Honestly . If you must go to your friends wedding just prepare for back lash. Nobody takes relarionships seriously anymore
It's Tuesday here and I agree, the week is young and Reddit never fails to surprise. I'm sure someone will top this by Thursday
Don't ask questions that you can't handle the answer too.
If you feel better with the support of your parents, then I would reach out to them.
There is nothing wrong with not wanting your partner to lust after other women.
With that said, he's going to continue doing this regardless of how you feel.
You know what you need to do.
Dude you are 22, this is middle school level drama. Move on from this shitshow.
“I have been proud of my achievements” keep being proud of them. They’re more real than an IQ test score, IQ is well documented as being narrow and biased… keep going with you’re achievements. And once you realise you’re far better than someone who needed you to take a test to feel superior to you, rather than wanted to be proud of your actual achievements, dump him and find someone who values you, and not your result on a test that doesn’t contribute to your future achievements, is designed to favour him over you (it’s biased towards men overall).
“Vile” is an interesting word choice here. How is it that when she has sex with you, it is ok, but when it is with anyone else, it is vile?! Or is it vile with you too? In the nicest and gentlest way possible, you definitely need therapy. We all onboard ideas about sexuality from sources we don't even consider when asking ourselves “how do I think about sex?” I apologize if this sounds lewd (or vile), but I once dated a gent that, during our first instance of intercourse, I tried to throw one of my legs over his shoulder… he made some weird ass comment like “wow, even smart/sophisticated/professional women want to get fucked.” [I don't remember which two he used, but it was something along those lines]. That should have been the warning shot that sex with him was going to whack, but my point in bringing him up is that somewhere along the line, he onboarded that certain “types” of women don't want to be pounded from the side because they have certains jobs and/or outward presentations. He also classified any discussion of sexual organs as “gross,” which made improving our sex life all but impossible. My point is maybe start writing down all your thoughts about sex (with her, with other women, her with other men, her with you, etc) and check your word choice, because it may indicate some idea you'd onboarded about sex that will help you break past this fixation.
Really weird people on this planet lol
The friends
Horrible behavior toward you. He couldn’t kindly ask you what was going on, or tell you gently that you seem to be having an off week? So many other options yet he takes it personally from the get go?
He’s not worth it, the selfish prig.
I hate to put numbers to people’s attractiveness but if a “6” was with a “10”, most people don’t consider 6 ugly (it’s above average) but it’s still odd to see someone so close to average with someone so far above average. This to say, he doesn’t have to look conventionally ugly for it to be a bit strange to see them together.
You are definitely not crazy. Why is it okay for him to block people on your instagram but not the other way around? It seems like he is holding you to a double standard. This seems very unfair.