I think you need to speak to her and have clarification because it seems like this woman is backing away because your husband was inappropriate. And I don’t believe the unsent messages he couldn’t figure out what to say to recover and then unsent them yeah it’s fishy I would be very suspect of his behavior. Go to her talk to her and clear this up ask her to please tell you the truth that you want to know if your husbands being a little bit shady.
Document. Document. Document. File police report about harassment and get an RO. Self defense class. Mace in purse and in vehicle, don’t leave without it. Birdie personal alarm – they are loud as the dickens and set off a strobe light. Have a single word you can use to communicate to a trusted party by text or phone if you are in danger and they can alert police, that trusted person or persons should also have access to your location….like have it set on iPhone to share location 24/7 so God for bid if something bad happens, they can send the police to your location. Consider having a friend stay with you or staying at a friends house to mix up your schedule so it’s not so consistent that you could be tracked and pin it down all the time. You could also get one of those alarms for inside your house that with a push of a button makes it sound like a bunch of dogs barking so like if you get startled, you can hit a button and do that. Metal bat by bed. Put plants on window sills also – if he tries to break in, they’ll fall and alert you. Check in with friends and family when you leave/come home.
I think you need to speak to her and have clarification because it seems like this woman is backing away because your husband was inappropriate. And I don’t believe the unsent messages he couldn’t figure out what to say to recover and then unsent them yeah it’s fishy I would be very suspect of his behavior. Go to her talk to her and clear this up ask her to please tell you the truth that you want to know if your husbands being a little bit shady.
Document. Document. Document. File police report about harassment and get an RO. Self defense class. Mace in purse and in vehicle, don’t leave without it. Birdie personal alarm – they are loud as the dickens and set off a strobe light. Have a single word you can use to communicate to a trusted party by text or phone if you are in danger and they can alert police, that trusted person or persons should also have access to your location….like have it set on iPhone to share location 24/7 so God for bid if something bad happens, they can send the police to your location. Consider having a friend stay with you or staying at a friends house to mix up your schedule so it’s not so consistent that you could be tracked and pin it down all the time. You could also get one of those alarms for inside your house that with a push of a button makes it sound like a bunch of dogs barking so like if you get startled, you can hit a button and do that. Metal bat by bed. Put plants on window sills also – if he tries to break in, they’ll fall and alert you. Check in with friends and family when you leave/come home.
I'm calling BS. You need to keep your pronouns straight. Details matter, especially when it comes to fiction.
This!