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There is so much wrong with this comment. You didn't even spell chlamydia correctly, please stop spreading misinformation. Chlamydia does not lie dormant, it can be asymptomatic, but you'd still be able to transmit.
The chances of passing chlamydia on are about 25% every single time you have intercourse. Male to female transmission rates are at about 40%. Even when it is asymptomatic.
She tested negative during her first pregnancy. The chances of her getting pregnant by a carrier without getting infected herself, are incredibly small. The odds of him not being a cheater are close to 0.
Therapy. You need therapy. I think you should try and fix your unfounded insecurities while in the relationship and therapy and only when that doesn't work, leave. You guys seem to have a perfect relationship outside of this. Don't give it up too easy. This problem is bigger in your head than reality.
So heโs an affectionate person. tbh the only thing that stuck out to me was the jealousy thing. Probably should re-address the โwhat are we?โ thing
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There is so much wrong with this comment. You didn't even spell chlamydia correctly, please stop spreading misinformation. Chlamydia does not lie dormant, it can be asymptomatic, but you'd still be able to transmit.
The chances of passing chlamydia on are about 25% every single time you have intercourse. Male to female transmission rates are at about 40%. Even when it is asymptomatic.
She tested negative during her first pregnancy. The chances of her getting pregnant by a carrier without getting infected herself, are incredibly small. The odds of him not being a cheater are close to 0.
Therapy. You need therapy. I think you should try and fix your unfounded insecurities while in the relationship and therapy and only when that doesn't work, leave. You guys seem to have a perfect relationship outside of this. Don't give it up too easy. This problem is bigger in your head than reality.
So heโs an affectionate person. tbh the only thing that stuck out to me was the jealousy thing. Probably should re-address the โwhat are we?โ thing
This is a non issue. Itโs hard for me to fathom how someone could be upset about receiving gifts from their mother. What a charmed life.