We know people better when we live! with them. When you’re just dating someone, it’s very easy for them to act like a decent human being for the short time you spend together, even if they’re not one. Unfortunately, he has shown you that he is indeed an asshole.
Have your wife pretend that there is a large birthmark in your groin area next time that person is in touch. Have her say something like ”I am suspicious of your story, he is very self conscious about that large birth mark in his groin area, it took him a very long time to get intimate with me and he had been a virgin because of not wanting anyone to see it.” If the person is lying they will confirm the mark that doesn’t really exist. She can also ask them about time frames, some of which you can probably confirm whereabouts. Definitely ask for the screenshots, it could give you a lot of clues on who it is and such.
We know people better when we live! with them. When you’re just dating someone, it’s very easy for them to act like a decent human being for the short time you spend together, even if they’re not one. Unfortunately, he has shown you that he is indeed an asshole.
Have your wife pretend that there is a large birthmark in your groin area next time that person is in touch. Have her say something like ”I am suspicious of your story, he is very self conscious about that large birth mark in his groin area, it took him a very long time to get intimate with me and he had been a virgin because of not wanting anyone to see it.” If the person is lying they will confirm the mark that doesn’t really exist. She can also ask them about time frames, some of which you can probably confirm whereabouts. Definitely ask for the screenshots, it could give you a lot of clues on who it is and such.