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Been there, over a decade later my kiddo lives with me full time, his mom lives in another state with some other guy she started a do-over family with and only sees our kid on certain school breaks.
Quite a rigid stance you have.
I said, multiple times, it’s about discourse and communication. You seem to not be open to talking and understanding your and other’s feelings but I’m open to listening to you, if you’d like to discuss.
My first point was, “this is no excuse because you can avoid it.” So you and I agree that it’s the bf’s preferences that mainly drive his social media use. But we’d be kidding ourselves if we didnt understand the small % of content that is driven by the “sex sells” mentality.
You seem to assume that it’s her way or the highway, but I think we need to take a step back and determine, what is the real issue here? Is he being unfaithful and looking at images of strangers live! his form of lite cheating, or is he just a horny young man who finds others attractive, as most of us in society do? If the former, break up, obviously. If the latter, then I would ask him why he finds those people attractive but also that it’s okay to find others attractive. I do truly believe that we all admire others; it depends on how openly we do so. Talking about it and being open about those thoughts is the first step in solid relationship communication. I know from experience, my SO and I have had therapy and it talking about it all really helped. Communication is key.
As for the confidence thing; maybe I could have worded it better? I was just trying to reinforce that she shouldn’t need to compare herself to others because she’s great just the way she is/wants to be. She’s obviously finding the women he’s looking at to be an issue, again, it’s helpful to explore these feelings and find out why.
Finally, as far as boundaries, we don’t really know how much of a discussion (there was clearly SOME but beyond that…) they’ve had about his browsing. If she’s setting an ultimatum, I would just advise to consider all the feelings and truths before doing so. It COULD be a boundary but in my experience on this planet, it’s a boundary based on insecurities and poor communication.