Yeah there were definitely times that I felt like she projected her trauma onto me. Especially times where she would gaslight me about things I said when I in fact did not. It felt like she had selective hearing and I just could not get through to her to tell her I'm sorry.
One time I had to hug here so she would calm down. It worked and she ended up thanking me, but I never felt comfortable having to go that far. I did it because I couldn't stand seeing her that way. It made me so powerless.
Lol sounds like you want to hear what you want to hear. Good luck with that, I can see why he left
I can see why… god damn. He has the emotional intelligence of a 2 year old
Thank you for your comment.
Yeah there were definitely times that I felt like she projected her trauma onto me. Especially times where she would gaslight me about things I said when I in fact did not. It felt like she had selective hearing and I just could not get through to her to tell her I'm sorry.
One time I had to hug here so she would calm down. It worked and she ended up thanking me, but I never felt comfortable having to go that far. I did it because I couldn't stand seeing her that way. It made me so powerless.