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she turned her phone to no caller id for this one call, she knew the boundary of no contacting ex partners and choose to do it anyways and tried to hide it from you, then when you ask about it she got defensive and broke up, bro i actually think she isnt over the ex and wanted a way out
Literally the only people talking about prosecuting anyone are you weirdos going on about false allegations which are rare and not the case here.
Imagine thinking your ex who you loved and ended on good terms with is trying to ruin your life because she shared that your actions harmed her. Do you think this little of the people in your own life I wonder.
I figured out I was pregnant at 7 weeks because instead of The Voice on TV they were playing a local basketball game. Absolutely bawled my eyes out. I haven't watched that show a single time since being pregnant and didn't watch it before then either. Enjoy the ride.
So the important part is what he does now. Does he take responsibility for his over the top action, for his publicly embarrassing you? For sitting next to you in silence whilst you cry and waiting until the car to apologise.
Actions speak louder than words, his action in the first place was totally inappropriate and not what anyone would expect from a partner even if you were giggling at his mis-step it isn't a reason for dumping food on you in a packed movie room. And then to ignore you in silence adds more abuse.
Did he acknowledge that he ruined the night?
Just to say that your brain doesn't differ between emotional and physical pain and even if it did, emotional pain creates strong memories associated with shame, that can be more damaging in some cases.
I understand about triggers but that feels like you are downplaying due to past trauma, as if the past hurt is causing this pain, I assure you that abuse is abuse and humiliating someone in public is horrible, painful and traumatising, no matter what you have experienced in the past. Your reaction afterwards in staying and crying instead of getting up and leaving shows me that past trauma was possibly triggered.
You have a right to be as hurt as you feel, past trauma or not, he did something that was horrible and embarrassing and he doesn't get to just say “sorry” and then what? Does he accept what he did was horrible? Unnecessarily an overreaction to what he perceived to be a slight on your part. Is he normally as reactive about things he thinks are about him or taking the things he does are a joke?
It genuinely sounds like your girlfriend wanted to sleep with other people but didn't want to feel bad.
I personally would cut my losses and take this as a learning experience but it you truly believe an open relationship from the age of 23 can turn into an open marriage and a subsequent great life together, then by all means stick it out.
Honestly that's kinda the vibes I'm getting from this. She wanted a sperm donor without having to go through the process of a sperm bank, and got her wish
he should be the one having to go through the process of therapy and fixing things
The problem is the unfairness: he broke her, and her punishment continues. He gets a new wife, kid, and his other kids don't lose respect for him. It's fucked. Your dad's an asshole.
He has threatened you. File a police report and get a protective order. Take this extremely seriously please. I’m just a random internet dad, but please think of your safety and get the police involved. A protective order won’t harm him in any way, but it’ll protect you in a lot of ways.
Firstly tell him that a joke is only funny if both parties are laughing, so he needs to think before he opens his mouth in the future, or he might put both feet in it, and then wonder why no one likes him anymore.
Then you tell him that in a relationship, trust and respect are important, and part of that is that your partner should respect you enough, and you should be able to trust them enough, that you can freely discuss your feelings with each other. His response was disrespectful, and has damaged the trust you have for him.
Now if you want to try to continue with this relationship, then you need to sit him down, and work through this together, so that going forward you both have trust and respect for each other.
If not, you end the relationship, find yourself someone who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.
I dont understand how if youre doing all this stuff together – moving in with each other – spending key moments together – how this isnt a relationship?
if he has feelings for you then why sleep with other girls? call me old fashioned but surely after you pass the first few dates then its a relationship. especially if he's saying he's got feelings for you 4 days later.
if you've talked about not sleeping wiht other people and he has done then for me its relationship over.
if you can look past this and agree to be exclusive after this then maybe you can make work of this. its all down to you.
I should have elaborated in my opening post (I'll have to edit it to clear this up). These are mostly people who HAVE donated. Some are my superiors at work, others are connected to family.
Sure, I could embarrass them by showing others what awful things they've said (in the rare occasions they put it in text rather than words) but it'd likely cost me my job, and would certainly cost me the good will I have with family. These folks are basically having a power trip, because they know I can't do much about what they'd saying. I've stood up to them the best I can without getting angry, I'm no wall flower, believe me. What I'd like to do however verbally rip them a new one… but they know I can't since the consequences for me would be too great.
He’s not treating you like a child, he’s treating you like his property. Recognize this for the red flag it is and move on from this man. Use this experience to learn what to look out for so you can avoid controlling men who think they have power over you
Vegetarianism is a choice. You obviously have your beliefs, but expecting someone to change something like that for you is unfair. And planning so far into the future for your unborn children, who will have their own minds and choices, is also unfair. If that’s truly what you want in life, you need to seek out people with similar ideas, not try to change the ones that don’t.
Yeah my cousin and her soon to be ex-husband unfortunately had the same dynamic. He traveled a ton for work when they were first together and in the first couple years of their marriage. Then he got a promotion which meant he didn’t have to travel as much and at least she realized that she didn’t actually enjoy spending time with him. Shit sucks OP.
It doesn’t make any sense that he considered the incident cheating yet cut off his friend group because of it. Weren’t you the one that “cheated” on him in that situation? He should have had a conversation with you and set down serious boundaries, not cut off every single person there.
There is nothing you can do, you behaved inappropriately but he made the decision to choose to stay with you and cut off everyone due to embarrassment. That’s his problem.
If he was book smart he would realize that the English “originated the language” and that he's wrong. He's arrogant and doesn't respect OP. That's what it comes down to.
Maybe ask her if she's still “afraid of feelings” and let her know that if she is you're not interested in seeing her. It's always best to believe what people tell you about themselves (even if we wish it weren't true). Don't project onto her what you'd like her to be, listen to her even if what she's telling you makes her undatable by your standards. Better to not go there than to keep banging your head against a closed door.
You wife did not admit to cheating and nothing got out of hand. Everything she did was planned. She got caught 2 times. But you have no idea how many times you didn't catch her. She is not sorry and she will do it again if she feels she can get away with it (and clearly she can).
I'm sorry. Please get a good lawyer and a great therapist.
OP already said the certificate doesn’t mean anything to her, she just wants to have the ceremony with her mother as witness before she dies. Did you read the post?
Plenty of people feel “ready” to start a family. It’s true, you can never truly be emotionally ready for having a child even if you think you are, but you can definitely choose when the best time in your life is for you to bring a child in.
Pregnancy is a big deal. So is childbirth. So is having a baby, then a toddler, a child, a teen, so on and on and on. If you don’t feel like right now is a good time to start that journey, you are completely valid in that. Like you said, you don’t think it’s a responsible time and you are being responsible to decide that.
I had an unplanned pregnancy when I was 22. I was not financially stable and had also put my life plans on hold. In the end, I decided to go through with the pregnancy. Those 9 months were rough and my body is permanently changed. Then his dad wasn’t involved for a couple years and I had gone back to school (for a surgical tech degree, which required early and long days in surgery, so was pretty demanding) and juggling school and a job and childcare was rough, too. He is turning 8 in two months, and I love him more than I could ever describe, but parenting is not an easy road. I don’t think that anyone should ever feel that they have to make the same decision I did because of “irresponsible” sex. If you aren’t ready, you aren’t ready, and you can wait until your life is in a better place to decide you’re ready.
Can you transfer back into your dream school? Don't let this man take any more away from you. He clearly doesn't want an equal partner since he can't even understand why you think he should be doing half the chores when you are working and studying. What will this man be like if you have kids with him? Don't get trapped with kids, as there is a very real risk he will hold all the financial power at least while you can't work, and you just can't trust him to treat you with respect.
Then maybe think of it another way? You never need to deal with your problems alone again. You got a dude in your corner ready to fight for ya 24/7 and that’s special. I’m excited for you now too!
Yeah, it could be she's sharing a room/bed with the children and there isn't really anywhere for him to sleep. I would assume it's both adult friends of hers and children, other single mothers or whatever.
What I meant by the differenece is that in cases where people have a diagnosed fetish, they require the object of their fetish to get aroused at all. But yes, even if they have that mental issue, it doesn't mean they get to demand it. I certainly never implied otherwise.
I would just reply to the text – “Hey, creep, she's a married woman! Back off!” and let both of them realise that this is no longer secret. Then let the dice fall as they may.
For you to have a chance at her agreeing to sign off on not tracking what she'd be entitled to, you'll have to leverage it off something else.
I'm not sure why you'd want to see her take a loss as though only she could ever be the reason why the marriage might end. That's what you're going to piss her off about.
You are basically telling him that you don’t want to travel with him, that rather than go with him and his friends, or go with him after his trip, you’d rather go with a random stranger so long as they haven’t been.
That’s not healthy for your relationship.
And it will make your BF reconsider your relationship, and a break up is the likely outcome.
I'm very sorry, but if he really wanted to be married to and have kids with you, he would already. The fact that he did not strongly suggests he does not, no matter what he is telling you.
He is 48 years old. He has already been married once, he knows how it's done. He already has a peri-pubescent child, so he know how that's done, too.
He knows that marriage and family are important to you, he knows that you've upended your life for him. Self-evidently, these things do not matter to him, or he would be taking concrete steps to get married, which he is not doing.
TL;DR: I'm very sorry, but the sunk cost fallacy applies here.
I'm 42 years old. Not even as old as your so-called fiance. Trust me when I tell you, anybody getting married in their 20s look like babies getting married.
I know it can feel patronizing to hear but your personality is still developing, and of course your prefrontal cortex just got done. You're very very young and you shouldn't feel any rush to get married, especially to this guy and his collection of red flags.
she turned her phone to no caller id for this one call, she knew the boundary of no contacting ex partners and choose to do it anyways and tried to hide it from you, then when you ask about it she got defensive and broke up, bro i actually think she isnt over the ex and wanted a way out
Go pro in the hamper. I am pretty sure it's the roommate.
Literally the only people talking about prosecuting anyone are you weirdos going on about false allegations which are rare and not the case here.
Imagine thinking your ex who you loved and ended on good terms with is trying to ruin your life because she shared that your actions harmed her. Do you think this little of the people in your own life I wonder.
True! Do you think once things get more relaxed she will maybe text me since she hasn't unmatched me yet?
I figured out I was pregnant at 7 weeks because instead of The Voice on TV they were playing a local basketball game. Absolutely bawled my eyes out. I haven't watched that show a single time since being pregnant and didn't watch it before then either. Enjoy the ride.
So the important part is what he does now. Does he take responsibility for his over the top action, for his publicly embarrassing you? For sitting next to you in silence whilst you cry and waiting until the car to apologise.
Actions speak louder than words, his action in the first place was totally inappropriate and not what anyone would expect from a partner even if you were giggling at his mis-step it isn't a reason for dumping food on you in a packed movie room. And then to ignore you in silence adds more abuse.
Did he acknowledge that he ruined the night?
Just to say that your brain doesn't differ between emotional and physical pain and even if it did, emotional pain creates strong memories associated with shame, that can be more damaging in some cases.
I understand about triggers but that feels like you are downplaying due to past trauma, as if the past hurt is causing this pain, I assure you that abuse is abuse and humiliating someone in public is horrible, painful and traumatising, no matter what you have experienced in the past. Your reaction afterwards in staying and crying instead of getting up and leaving shows me that past trauma was possibly triggered.
You have a right to be as hurt as you feel, past trauma or not, he did something that was horrible and embarrassing and he doesn't get to just say “sorry” and then what? Does he accept what he did was horrible? Unnecessarily an overreaction to what he perceived to be a slight on your part. Is he normally as reactive about things he thinks are about him or taking the things he does are a joke?
“I’m not going to dinner. I need to catch up on the sleep to make up for your rudeness.
Were you posturing for your friends? To show them ‘you’re the man’?”
If I attend, I doubt I could refrain from telling this story. I’d rather not.”
“I’m not going to dinner. I need to catch up on the sleep to make up for your rudeness.
Were you posturing for your friends? To show them ‘you’re the man’?”
If I attend, I doubt I could refrain from telling this story. I’d rather not.”
It genuinely sounds like your girlfriend wanted to sleep with other people but didn't want to feel bad.
I personally would cut my losses and take this as a learning experience but it you truly believe an open relationship from the age of 23 can turn into an open marriage and a subsequent great life together, then by all means stick it out.
Sounds like she planned to get pregnant from him. What was a woman her age messing with a 24 yr old if she wanted to have kids right now.
Honestly that's kinda the vibes I'm getting from this. She wanted a sperm donor without having to go through the process of a sperm bank, and got her wish
I second this: Just dump her then.
If parking is too expensive your boyfriend may be poor…
he should be the one having to go through the process of therapy and fixing things
The problem is the unfairness: he broke her, and her punishment continues. He gets a new wife, kid, and his other kids don't lose respect for him. It's fucked. Your dad's an asshole.
He has threatened you. File a police report and get a protective order. Take this extremely seriously please. I’m just a random internet dad, but please think of your safety and get the police involved. A protective order won’t harm him in any way, but it’ll protect you in a lot of ways.
I’ll answer your edit first.
NO. He did mock your dream.
Now onto the rest.
Firstly tell him that a joke is only funny if both parties are laughing, so he needs to think before he opens his mouth in the future, or he might put both feet in it, and then wonder why no one likes him anymore.
Then you tell him that in a relationship, trust and respect are important, and part of that is that your partner should respect you enough, and you should be able to trust them enough, that you can freely discuss your feelings with each other. His response was disrespectful, and has damaged the trust you have for him.
Now if you want to try to continue with this relationship, then you need to sit him down, and work through this together, so that going forward you both have trust and respect for each other.
If not, you end the relationship, find yourself someone who will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve.
I dont understand how if youre doing all this stuff together – moving in with each other – spending key moments together – how this isnt a relationship?
if he has feelings for you then why sleep with other girls? call me old fashioned but surely after you pass the first few dates then its a relationship. especially if he's saying he's got feelings for you 4 days later.
if you've talked about not sleeping wiht other people and he has done then for me its relationship over.
if you can look past this and agree to be exclusive after this then maybe you can make work of this. its all down to you.
I should have elaborated in my opening post (I'll have to edit it to clear this up). These are mostly people who HAVE donated. Some are my superiors at work, others are connected to family.
Sure, I could embarrass them by showing others what awful things they've said (in the rare occasions they put it in text rather than words) but it'd likely cost me my job, and would certainly cost me the good will I have with family. These folks are basically having a power trip, because they know I can't do much about what they'd saying. I've stood up to them the best I can without getting angry, I'm no wall flower, believe me. What I'd like to do however verbally rip them a new one… but they know I can't since the consequences for me would be too great.
You all suck.
You're a shit stirrer, he's got lots of issues and is abusive.
You like the drama so you stir the pot and thrive on the chaos that you freely get from your abusive boyfriend.
Honesty with the right person is always what gets you furthest. If he's not a maniac, jealous manchild he'll appreciate you telling him.
Well if you dont text him you wont know, thats for sure
You guys are having intimacy issues.
He doesn’t pay enough attention to you.
He wants to spend more time and attention and intimacy on other people.
OP he’s just not that into you. Ignore what he says. Look at his actions.
He’s not treating you like a child, he’s treating you like his property. Recognize this for the red flag it is and move on from this man. Use this experience to learn what to look out for so you can avoid controlling men who think they have power over you
Run away
Hopefully it’s just a phase.
Bro she might not be evil but she’s not your problem. Drop her ASAP.
Vegetarianism is a choice. You obviously have your beliefs, but expecting someone to change something like that for you is unfair. And planning so far into the future for your unborn children, who will have their own minds and choices, is also unfair. If that’s truly what you want in life, you need to seek out people with similar ideas, not try to change the ones that don’t.
Yeah my cousin and her soon to be ex-husband unfortunately had the same dynamic. He traveled a ton for work when they were first together and in the first couple years of their marriage. Then he got a promotion which meant he didn’t have to travel as much and at least she realized that she didn’t actually enjoy spending time with him. Shit sucks OP.
Yes, but were those DATES? Or just dinner with a friend?
It doesn’t make any sense that he considered the incident cheating yet cut off his friend group because of it. Weren’t you the one that “cheated” on him in that situation? He should have had a conversation with you and set down serious boundaries, not cut off every single person there.
There is nothing you can do, you behaved inappropriately but he made the decision to choose to stay with you and cut off everyone due to embarrassment. That’s his problem.
What in the wattpad
If he was book smart he would realize that the English “originated the language” and that he's wrong. He's arrogant and doesn't respect OP. That's what it comes down to.
Maybe ask her if she's still “afraid of feelings” and let her know that if she is you're not interested in seeing her. It's always best to believe what people tell you about themselves (even if we wish it weren't true). Don't project onto her what you'd like her to be, listen to her even if what she's telling you makes her undatable by your standards. Better to not go there than to keep banging your head against a closed door.
You wife did not admit to cheating and nothing got out of hand. Everything she did was planned. She got caught 2 times. But you have no idea how many times you didn't catch her. She is not sorry and she will do it again if she feels she can get away with it (and clearly she can).
I'm sorry. Please get a good lawyer and a great therapist.
OP already said the certificate doesn’t mean anything to her, she just wants to have the ceremony with her mother as witness before she dies. Did you read the post?
Block her and move on. She's trying to manipulate you emotionally, and it's not going to get better.
It’s the same in all 50 states in the US as well.
…so your family does know how he died. Why did you say your grandparents didn't know?
What do you mean by wanting space? How much space? Do you live together?
Have you told him you are sad and upset about being moody around him? It both sucks to be moody and to be around a moody person.
My ex husband was a Narc officer, and yes this is the way it goes!!!!!
Ah sounds good! Thank you for the advice! I appreciate it!
Plenty of people feel “ready” to start a family. It’s true, you can never truly be emotionally ready for having a child even if you think you are, but you can definitely choose when the best time in your life is for you to bring a child in.
Pregnancy is a big deal. So is childbirth. So is having a baby, then a toddler, a child, a teen, so on and on and on. If you don’t feel like right now is a good time to start that journey, you are completely valid in that. Like you said, you don’t think it’s a responsible time and you are being responsible to decide that.
I had an unplanned pregnancy when I was 22. I was not financially stable and had also put my life plans on hold. In the end, I decided to go through with the pregnancy. Those 9 months were rough and my body is permanently changed. Then his dad wasn’t involved for a couple years and I had gone back to school (for a surgical tech degree, which required early and long days in surgery, so was pretty demanding) and juggling school and a job and childcare was rough, too. He is turning 8 in two months, and I love him more than I could ever describe, but parenting is not an easy road. I don’t think that anyone should ever feel that they have to make the same decision I did because of “irresponsible” sex. If you aren’t ready, you aren’t ready, and you can wait until your life is in a better place to decide you’re ready.
Why would she need to test if they've only been flirting??? ?
Ok. You do you then.
Can you transfer back into your dream school? Don't let this man take any more away from you. He clearly doesn't want an equal partner since he can't even understand why you think he should be doing half the chores when you are working and studying. What will this man be like if you have kids with him? Don't get trapped with kids, as there is a very real risk he will hold all the financial power at least while you can't work, and you just can't trust him to treat you with respect.
Then maybe think of it another way? You never need to deal with your problems alone again. You got a dude in your corner ready to fight for ya 24/7 and that’s special. I’m excited for you now too!
Yeah, it could be she's sharing a room/bed with the children and there isn't really anywhere for him to sleep. I would assume it's both adult friends of hers and children, other single mothers or whatever.
What I meant by the differenece is that in cases where people have a diagnosed fetish, they require the object of their fetish to get aroused at all. But yes, even if they have that mental issue, it doesn't mean they get to demand it. I certainly never implied otherwise.
I would just reply to the text – “Hey, creep, she's a married woman! Back off!” and let both of them realise that this is no longer secret. Then let the dice fall as they may.
For you to have a chance at her agreeing to sign off on not tracking what she'd be entitled to, you'll have to leverage it off something else.
I'm not sure why you'd want to see her take a loss as though only she could ever be the reason why the marriage might end. That's what you're going to piss her off about.
You are basically telling him that you don’t want to travel with him, that rather than go with him and his friends, or go with him after his trip, you’d rather go with a random stranger so long as they haven’t been.
That’s not healthy for your relationship.
And it will make your BF reconsider your relationship, and a break up is the likely outcome.
I'm very sorry, but if he really wanted to be married to and have kids with you, he would already. The fact that he did not strongly suggests he does not, no matter what he is telling you.
He is 48 years old. He has already been married once, he knows how it's done. He already has a peri-pubescent child, so he know how that's done, too.
He knows that marriage and family are important to you, he knows that you've upended your life for him. Self-evidently, these things do not matter to him, or he would be taking concrete steps to get married, which he is not doing.
TL;DR: I'm very sorry, but the sunk cost fallacy applies here.
I'm 42 years old. Not even as old as your so-called fiance. Trust me when I tell you, anybody getting married in their 20s look like babies getting married.
I know it can feel patronizing to hear but your personality is still developing, and of course your prefrontal cortex just got done. You're very very young and you shouldn't feel any rush to get married, especially to this guy and his collection of red flags.