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There's so much here, so I'll do my best to address all of it. First, let go of any preconceived notions you have about dating apps. A dating app is a medium; a way to connect people. The people on the apps are largely the same people out in the “real world.” If you end up going out on a date, you're not “online dating;” you're dating. I digress.
Let's now discuss your assumptions; you feel like you're going to hook up. That's perfectly fine if that's what you want. But that's not something you should be guessing. What do you ultimately want? Did you tell him? Did you ask him? I assume not. It's not about some sort of “new norm.” Meet people based on expectations you've discussed. Don't just go in blind thinking “well I guess people are here trying to hook up, so I'll just roll with it.”
Seems you're actually looking for a hookup which again is perfectly fine. You view a date and nothing else as the “worst outcome.” As such, lay it all out and tell him you want to fuck. It's only exhausting because you're making it so. It won't be if you use your words. Good luck.
There's so much here, so I'll do my best to address all of it. First, let go of any preconceived notions you have about dating apps. A dating app is a medium; a way to connect people. The people on the apps are largely the same people out in the “real world.” If you end up going out on a date, you're not “online dating;” you're dating. I digress.
Let's now discuss your assumptions; you feel like you're going to hook up. That's perfectly fine if that's what you want. But that's not something you should be guessing. What do you ultimately want? Did you tell him? Did you ask him? I assume not. It's not about some sort of “new norm.” Meet people based on expectations you've discussed. Don't just go in blind thinking “well I guess people are here trying to hook up, so I'll just roll with it.”
Seems you're actually looking for a hookup which again is perfectly fine. You view a date and nothing else as the “worst outcome.” As such, lay it all out and tell him you want to fuck. It's only exhausting because you're making it so. It won't be if you use your words. Good luck.