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Nobody “ghosted” anybody 5 years ago.
I wouldn't trust him.
That's a pretty immature reaction on her part. I can get being uncomfortable but daddy and mommy are common things to say during sex. She could discuss it without putting you down as some kind of sex freak. Why do you want to salvage something that makes you feel like a pervert and a freak? If it's a mutual feeling to sort it out that's one thing but the way things are described she's treating you like a leper and putting you down. You might have said the wrong word once but it's over the top to treat you like this over it. If I were in your situation I would have another discussion with her with full honesty and if she keeps up this childish behaviour I'd walk away. It's not on you to go begging on hands and knees to be treated with basic dignity.
There is nothing shameful about it. I don’t mind porn/masturbation. It’s just private. It’s the same thing as closing the bathroom door when you’re pooping to me, I don’t need to see/hear/be informed about that either. Doesn’t mean I don’t know they poop or get angry about it. I just don’t need to be there when it happens. It’s just a simple favor to leave me out of your masturbation habits.
Yes, your perspective is correct. Unfortunately for us the last thing is more valid. I want her to be more …. And she wants me to be more ……
We do make compromises but I don’t think the relationship should be only about compromises. Thank you for you valid point!
I have stayed at home with them for a couple months before, it wasn’t that bad. Between taking care of them and getting chores done I still had free time during naps and after bed time. I’m not out of touch at all, I’ve done it myself.
My parents have seen it too. She asked them to come over and watch the kids so she could get things done, but she just sat on her phone the whole time.
Thank you for your response. My question is am I obligated to provide a reason for not wanting to go, even when the others haven’t either? I was open to doing something else but it was too late at that point as I already made other plans for later in the day.
That's just a lie and you're a fool for considering it.
You did go snooping and you discovered that your wife has fantasies that you don't like. Honestly, none of this is abnormal, lots of people think about their previous sexual experiences. But it was her private fantasy that she kept from you for a reason. You shouldn't have asked her for answers that you weren't prepared to deal with. She hasn't cheated or done anything wrong, and you put her in a position where she had to either tell you something that would set off your insecurities or lie to you. That's a lose lose situation. Honestly, this is why 20 year olds shouldn't get married. You both need to go to marriage counselling and sort this out with the help of a professional.
Have you tried barking at her
you're right im just in my own head so much 🙁
He was honest and upfront with you about his issues, which is a good sign. I think next steps are to ensure that he is actually taking steps to address his addiction/dependence and learning good coping skills to help him curb his needs. This is not your job, this is something he needs to take responsibility for. Is he in a program/has he ever been in a program? Is this something you feel you can discuss with him?
As an aside, please understand….you are not a bad person if this is a dealbreaker for you. It’s not your job to fix him. If you want to stay and be supportive then kudos to you, but it doesn’t make you less of a person if this is not something you feel you can tackle. Just remember you can be supportive and empathetic and be part of the team, but this is not your burden to bear.
You have two options.
You can really have a final break down with him. Make it very clear that you are considering exiting the marriage if things don’t change.
Or
You can do what Reddit always says and file for divorce tonight.
I always personally considered sleeping with someone else/having a fuck buddy as something you don't do when starting a new relationship.
But I also dont use dating appsm
Her ultimate goal is to learn more recipes, so she's trying to improve the amount of recipes she can make. Knowing how my mom teaches and knowing how my girlfriend is receptive to criticism, my mom teaching her probably will just go to shit.
Nope. I am.
Neither of you are wrong. But see it from the man's perspective. You obviously know the baby is yours, and you are literally the only person who knows for a fact who you've slept with. A man can never know 100% even if the relationship is perfect. Plenty of couples that seemingly have a perfect relationship still cheat, even if it's just once and it meant nothing.
For some people being 99% sure is not enough, you need undeniable proof. And without that solid proof the questioning could really eat away at a person, even if it's illogical.
It's like when people worry about birth control. It's 99% effective yet there is always someone on r/sex r/womenshealth etc etc asking “we used a condom and plan b and the pull out method but I'm so paranoid that shes/I'm pregnant”. Some people NEED undeniable hot proof even when they know the answer.
Wow, kind of rude, my guy. Its only been a day, give people time.
Anyway:
You really need to talk to your partner about this oversharing first and foremost. It's fine to telk your best friend things, but if it is personal things that involve you, and you aren't comfortable with them being shared, you need to set that boundary firmly. If they can't follow it, maybe take a step back from the relationship and see if it is worth your time and energy.
Are you in therapy? You mentioned having a mental disorder, so it's possible that this could be skewing your perspective of things and a professional could help you figure this situation out. I know my own disorders can skew certain things for me, and my therapist really helped me figure out that that was what it was.
Again, talk to your partner. Ask them to be completely honest about whether or not this friend likes you. Tell them all that you said here, minus the sex part as you aren't certain that happened, and see what they say. If they continue to insist the friend likes you, you may need to ask if the three of you can have a heart to heart as the only way for this to end is everyone to be honest to each other.
If it turns out the friend does not infact like you, you're gonna have to evaluate how much their approval matters to you. If it doesn't bother your partner, and it doesn't effect your relationship, does it matter? Do their other friends like you? Does their family? The sad reality is not everyone is gonna like you. Even SO's best friends. And as long as they're not actively trying to sabotage your relationship, that's perfectly okay. Some people are just not other people's cup of tea.
He caused havoc by exploiting your labor. Boundaries look like violence to those used to trampling you for their own benefit, OP
Jesus get therapy to process this. I know some people on here normalise that it’s okay to be sad or annoyed at your ex years later even when you’re married, but to me all that says is that you didn’t take the proper steps to help you process the relationship and give yourself aftercare to deal with moving on.
It’s been 8 years, if you’re still hung up on him and seemingly have a happy life then it’s a you problem and you need to seek professional help to help you combat this. Do not contact him, the most likely situation is you didn’t mean anything to him close to what he meant to you. It will only make you feel worse if you engage with him.
If you’re not gonna love her as is, break up with her. As a female adult, our weights fluctuate. Meds, stress or metabolism slowing down due to YA KNOW…GETTING OLDER!
If you’re gonna immediately lose attraction to something so fickle. Just end it. You’re fucking in her mental health. Dunno if you ever want kids but you’re gonna have to get over this when your SO gets pregnant.
People are upset someone offered a reasonable explanation for his actions instead of saying he’s an evil manipulator that doesn’t love her like in the movies
OP, READ THIS COMMENT!! U/InconceivableUnless is right!
“I doubt myself a lot because of this.”
Dude she’s emotionally manipulating you and some level you know she is. You’ve been together since your early teens break it off with her and date around to find out what else is out there. This is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with.
An addict usually regresses in their behaviour during their addiction. Everything starts revolving around them getting their next fix. In my experience an addict usually needs to hit rock bottom (often multiple times) before they start to want to quit the addiction and better themselves. People who are addicted need the love and support from the people around them but they also need very firm boundaries. Since this was his second time stealing, i would kick him out and tell him the only chance he has of getting back with you (if that is what you want) is if he goes to rehab and starts working on himself. If he needs you to support him to do that you will, but only so long as he does the work and as it is within the scope of support that you are able to provide. I would not take him back until he starts cleaning up the mess he’s made of his life (and yours).
Ya but a bad day might turn me in to kind of an asshole, it won’t make me throw a crying tantrum and throw things at my partner/friends/family
I feel for you OP. I've been there and it's naked. But I think you know what you have to do.
I'm curious though, why do you say:
“he doesn't deserve this treatment. He doesn't deserve to feel rejected.”?
Umm…yes he does. There's no “deserve” in rejection. You can break up with someone for any reason at all. That's your decision alone. And he's giving you many, many reasons. His behavior and his attitude are all on him, you can't fix him. He may need to get some help, but he needs to figure that out.
You need to do what's best for you. It doesn't sound like it's good for you to stay right now, I'd leave. Take care of yourself. He's probably going through a depression or maybe he is just very lazy. Whatever, it's not good for you. You're not his mama and you can't tell him what to do.
Please get out or ask him to leave. He's not even trying anymore and the stress of trying to hang on to “something” is not good for you. You can always get back together if you want to, and he's worked on his issues, but for now, take care of OP. She deserves love and happiness and to feel desired and wanted.
You have been with this man through most of your 20's and you should experience the world as a single woman and have some fun. Several years from now you could be married with children, who knows?! But I do know, you'll never get “right now”back ever again. Don't have regrets, online your life on your terms and don't let someone else be an anchor around your neck.