First, I hope you understand being “fuck buddies” does not equal being friends. I had a naked time figuring out I was sleeping with my friends to keep them, when they didn't give a shit about me.
Yea same and the rest of this comment us really good advice too.
OP what do you want from these casual relationships? What dies your “ideal” look like because it may be you need to re evaluate that.
This is a great tactic to get to the truth.. for the detectives on Law & Order, who don’t give a shit about their relationship with the suspect after they get their answer.
I believe you’ve been with her long enough to recognize her behavior for the entire evening as “off.” She could have been feeling a combination of emotional neglect from you + coupled with positive attention from her boss and/or didn’t no how to turn down his “social” advances because of the power dynamic.
Instead of leading with a one man good cop/bad cop (?) I would start with just saying what you told us. Hell, maybe show her your post!
You don't need to do anything. You've caught him time and time again talking to this woman and finding reasons to spend time with him. He is actively trying to get with this woman – and there's no telling if he hasn't already.
This isn't some toxic high school relationship. This is your husband fucking off and you trying to “catch” him instead of just leaving him.
Sure break up wirh your future ex, people fall out of love all the time, but don't for 1 second think no one will believe you are doing out of the kindness of your heart. Your story reads like a monkey branch situation. You are a cheater because you are already emotionally invested IN HIS FRIEND and you believe he'll accept you. There would have already been situations where you have emotionally cheated on ypur future ex. So please part ways and stay away from said friend.
First, I hope you understand being “fuck buddies” does not equal being friends. I had a naked time figuring out I was sleeping with my friends to keep them, when they didn't give a shit about me.
Yea same and the rest of this comment us really good advice too.
OP what do you want from these casual relationships? What dies your “ideal” look like because it may be you need to re evaluate that.
In what way?
This is a great tactic to get to the truth.. for the detectives on Law & Order, who don’t give a shit about their relationship with the suspect after they get their answer.
I believe you’ve been with her long enough to recognize her behavior for the entire evening as “off.” She could have been feeling a combination of emotional neglect from you + coupled with positive attention from her boss and/or didn’t no how to turn down his “social” advances because of the power dynamic.
Instead of leading with a one man good cop/bad cop (?) I would start with just saying what you told us. Hell, maybe show her your post!
You don't need to do anything. You've caught him time and time again talking to this woman and finding reasons to spend time with him. He is actively trying to get with this woman – and there's no telling if he hasn't already.
This isn't some toxic high school relationship. This is your husband fucking off and you trying to “catch” him instead of just leaving him.
Sure break up wirh your future ex, people fall out of love all the time, but don't for 1 second think no one will believe you are doing out of the kindness of your heart. Your story reads like a monkey branch situation. You are a cheater because you are already emotionally invested IN HIS FRIEND and you believe he'll accept you. There would have already been situations where you have emotionally cheated on ypur future ex. So please part ways and stay away from said friend.