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Yeah you may be right. Just have all the thought rush in of why I shouldn’t do it when I think about that decision. Like we live! together, have a dog together, and for the attraction piece it isn’t like we can’t have sex or anything. Just the leading up to it I don’t have that same passion like I want to jump her bones right away, but when we do get into it the feelings come back in if that makes sense.
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Yeah you may be right. Just have all the thought rush in of why I shouldn’t do it when I think about that decision. Like we live! together, have a dog together, and for the attraction piece it isn’t like we can’t have sex or anything. Just the leading up to it I don’t have that same passion like I want to jump her bones right away, but when we do get into it the feelings come back in if that makes sense.
He’s using typical behavior to control you . He’s not going to change. Start planning your exit strategy as you’re in for a bumpy ride. He’ll definitely retaliate. Make copies of all important documents. Open a P.O. Box. Then get a checking account with just your name on it. Get a security box at bank and keep all the important documents there including your passport,!etc Plan someplace you can stay for at least three to six months. Preferably with security . Start shifting a little money into the checking and when he goes to work one day go to the bank and take 1/2 the money. Go to court and file for separation and get a restraining order for you and whoever you’re living with. Include work for both.
He’s not , possibly Bi is he? Wondering if the relationship was entirely with the “wife”. He felt the need to lie. It’s sus.
Because I haven’t been the best to her either. It goes both ways. And she’s my first and only love. I can’t love anyone else.