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Birth Date: 1995-03-03
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Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
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Date: October 2, 2022
I'm gonna guess this man was stationed at either Camp Lejune or Fort Bragg. No reason, just a wild ass guess. How close am I?
Is this the first issue you've had with him? The first time something has happened? If not, how does he react to when you talk about your feelings and if he's hurt them in the past?
If this is the first time, you should sit him down and explain to him how the remark made you feel. If he says he was just joking, you tell him that even an innocent joke can hurt feelings, and this one did. It hurt yours. Just explain to him that you don't like being misgendered and his remark really caught you off guard.
If this continues in the future, you know what kind of man he is.
No…he will do it again
I think you're way overthinking this. People say a lot of positve stuff at the beginning of every relationship / acquaintanceship, and then it just sometimes dies anyway for various reasons. Just because someone acknowledges that you have your life figure out and know what you want doesn't mean they're going to fall in love with you and be with you for 50 years.
Talk to him, tell him that this is an important part of the relationship for you, and that you want to work together to make it work.
If it’s important and he isn’t responsive, then weigh how important it is to you, and whether you are willing to sacrifice sex for the relationship.
If he’s not into sex, maybe he’s Ace, then broach an open relationship, or leave.
He’s the father of their kid and the less friction and more communication the better so long as he treats his child well. It’s better for the kid if their is in their life providing he is not a bad guy and is good to his kid. All co-parents have to communicate. There’s no avoiding that? Maybe take things slow since it has only been 3 months and she has a child?
Just get over it and take your girlfriend ice skating.
She doesn’t want you, but she wants you to keep wanting her, because it’s an ego boost. You can keep catering to her need for attention, or you can stop. That’s it really, those are your choices.
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He doesn't want to marry you. If he did, you'd be married.
You sound exhausting. And you're 100% the type of person that has stigmatized weed users and ruined it for a lot of people.
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There is way too many people in this couple.
Your first paragraph brushes through how you found it. I might be the only one but to me it reads like he came clean where in fact, 2 paragraphs later it turns out that you had to snoop to find out. I can’t help but think that if you didn’t, you’d never know.
Jill sounds either clueless or is maliciously setting you up. I can’t work out a scenario in which it is ok to suggest to a friend that they befriend their SO’s affair partner. And all because it would be nice for the three of you to hang out?! Jfc.
The person who should go above and beyond and way outside of their comfort zone to give you closure is your bf. You can’t just go around and say “hey, I wish I was single to see how things go with you” and leave it at that.
Look I'm not saying she is not lying or that he has to believe her, but doing a DNA test in this case is creepy af. If he does not believe her then just break up
He needs to realize that although you both love each other and share a bond and place you guys online, you are both still two different people that should be able to have your own lives.
He's far too dependent on you or at least jealous that you have your own life or who you spend your time with. Although he treats you great everywhere else, this is still a rather large issue because of his separation anxiety or whatever it is. Definitely make this known to him. He's far too old to be feeling like this and trying to guilt you for it.
“My partner has been a complete and utter as whole about my body. How can I fix this?”
You can’t. He’s pushing you into an unnecessary medical procedure so he can try to get larger boobs on you. That’s a big “fuck off” moment, and if he keeps pushing it’s a big “goodbye” moment.
And for the record, smaller boobs are wonderful. They’re all wonderful. There are a ton of people out there that would be perfectly happy with your equipment.
My examples werent the best, they were the examples my therapist used as ways people subtly undermine and invalidate people's feelings.
I'd much rather have better examples to hand if you had them though.
My boyfriend and I were just having a conversation about this yesterday. We couldn’t believe that there’s guys that actually get jealous like this over their gf having a male OB/Dr. I’m 36w pregnant and had a cervical exam yesterday. My boyfriend was there and everything was fine. He was never jealous or upset about it. The dr is literally doing his job and I used to only have woman drs but this time around I chose a older male and he has been the best OB I’ve ever had. He’s gentle and makes me feel extremely comfortable. If he’s jealous and upset with you over things as small as this. I’d suggest reevaluating your relationship with him.
Move
That gets women murdered.
That's…. really weird. That they would have loud screaming sex and then just immediately after, instead of being embarrassed, say “no you didn't hear anything”. Though from the rest of your post it sounds like they have spent most of your life just flat out denying things to you. Next time it happens, record a video from inside your room to capture the sound, and play it back to them. There's no denying proof like that. Also try and find a new place to online ASAP, not because you're 22, but because living with people that deny reality constantly is enough to drive anyone crazy (seriously, that is textbook gaslighting). You don't need your own apartment, maybe just a room with friends.
In what way could this even possibly no he rape?
Police won’t have anything to go on other than his accusation. No warrant = no evidence = no way to prosecute. Unless the police request she come in and interview and she does and confesses to them, there is sadly no case.
Get rid of that guy. He's not your friend. Blatantly hitting on your girlfriend in your face then trying to turn her against you.
I think maybe I didn't give him entirely a fair shake in my wording. We have had real conversations about it and he's concluded he's afraid of marriage cause he's afraid of divorce. I know his deepest fear is hurting me and I've done my best to ease that fear.
As for marriage and kids, they aren't deal breakers for me. I wouldn't trade him for ideas that may or may not exist.
Most my fears come from his struggles with expressing himself and really understanding his own feelings. If I ended up unknowingly pushing him into something that he doesn't really want I would never forgive myself for doing that to him.
Honestly, i just was thinking there's no way this could be what i think it is
Do you work also?
Just to clarify, it is not that I would not WANT my child to carry my name. I would love and be ecstatic for my child to have my maiden name. However, my husband is vehemently against having my last name or even hypenating his last name with mine because of the way he feels about the rest of my family. Having a shared, non-related last name is in the spirit of compromise. Neither of us maintains our own last name out of fairness to the other, and we decide on something we both feel fits our individual family unit.
Of note on genealogical studies, there is a lot being done, even in the mainstream, with genetics instead of just family surnames (ie Ancestry.com /23 and me) as it leaves less room for errors in documentation. Children of immigrants (at least in the US) often have issues tracing genealogy back further than an arrival at Ellis Island or other port of entry, because names were changed so often in error on immigration documents. Tracing of maternal ancestry is also just as important as paternal (as it's half of your heritage) and can now be done via simple genetic analysis of haplogroups.
TLDR; A shared non-related surname would be selected as a compromise and promote the ideas of equality that are already the foundation of our relationship. Also, I have very few concerns about my great-great grandchildren being able to trace their ancestry because of how rapidly advances are occurring in the fields of genealogy and genetic research. They likely won't have to focus on research using something as primitive as a surname to find their ancestors.
yeah..makes sense sadly :/
First thing I thought, she's out having fun and he's home looking after her kids.
Dude, that's a tough spot to be in, but you gotta do what's right for you, ya feel me? It sounds like you and your girl have had an epic run, and that's something to be stoked about. But sometimes, you gotta follow your heart and do what's best for your own growth and happiness. It's gnarly that you've been able to communicate openly and maturely with each other, and I'm sure she'll understand where you're coming from. It's never easy to break someone's heart, especially when they still love you, but you gotta be true to yourself. It's all good, bro. You'll find new opportunities and experiences that will help you grow and thrive. Keep being chill and stay positive, my man.
I can't know for sure that it was mine, only the fact that I know Abc was/is in love with me. I didn't want to stress her by saying that she was lying about me being the father but I told her that I expected a paternity test down the road and she was totally fine.
Also, OP was drunk, like blackout drunk by the sounds of it. Did the sister rape him? Did they actually even have sex?
What is the best friend saying to you having sex with their sister whom you probably knew before she was 21?
I think you should compromise a little. I also think he should talk to them about it ( privately, not when they're with the whole family) I don't know what the beef is so I can't really say more than that.
If you are getting married and concerned about assets. Consult a lawyer about a pre nuptial agreement. They are well worth the effort.
If you are getting married and concerned about assets. Consult a lawyer about a pre nuptial agreement. They are well worth the effort.
It's understandable that his jokes are starting to hurt your feelings, especially if they are making you feel like you're not being appreciated or valued in the relationship. It's important to communicate with your boyfriend about how you feel and how his jokes are affecting you. It's possible that he may not realize the impact of his words, and bringing it to his attention can help him understand your perspective and make changes.
While it's normal for couples to tease each other and have playful banter, it's important to make sure that it's done in a way that is respectful and not hurtful. If his jokes are crossing a line and making you feel bad about yourself, it's important to address it and set boundaries.
As for whether or not his jokes have any truth to them, it's difficult to say without more information. However, it's important to remember that just because someone makes a joke or a comment, it doesn't necessarily mean that it's true. It's possible that he's just trying to be funny or playful, and it's not a reflection of how he actually feels about you.
Ultimately, the best course of action is to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings. Explain how his jokes are affecting you and ask him to be more mindful of his words. If he truly cares about you, he will want to make sure that you feel loved and respected in the relationship.
Damn. It my be wrong or inappropriate, but if it was me? I would ask. It’s far enough away from the wedding since there isn’t an official date yet. I’d get it out of the way now so it won’t interfere later.
Does her Mother even want to move in with you? And yeah, you both need to be in agreement before such a big change.
There could be solutions such as moving near you or looking for a home that has a MIL suite or something like that.
You pushed him for the reasons before that.
I've witnessed unfortunate persons with worse problems bounce back and online very happy lives. A few with “treatment”, and a few with non-traditional methods. Myself included in the latter group.
Let alone they consider themselves conservative Christians
Tell her that there will be divorce papers waiting if she wants to date another man. I’d find a great lawyer and make sure she doesn’t get a dollar. Collect any evidence before you let her know. With proof, you don’t even need a good lawyer.
He feels indebted to his mom for sacrificing so much to put him through school. I was hoping that she’d at least get to know me and see I’m not a bad person but I guess that ship sailed